| 1/22/2009 6:11:53 PM |
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phelps00550
Saint Louis, MO
45, joined May. 2008
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Yep, no one ever told me they stopped. She never turns down a good face dance, though. always says her jaws get tired, never the excuse when shes talking all freaking Day. Once the sex stops too then they all wonder why men look for it else where and we are the a** holes.
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| 1/22/2009 6:22:27 PM |
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funbuttercup
Laurinburg, NC
53, joined Oct. 2008
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I never stopped. As long as me and my lying, cheating ex were still bumping and grinding, I love to make him cum and cum and cum.
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| 1/22/2009 7:52:58 PM |
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idream2
Spartanburg, SC
66, joined Jun. 2008
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Theres a page on here on do guys love to give oral to there ladies its 109 pages and granted some of the coments are from ladies
there is also a page on do women give oral to there men its 3 pages
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| 1/22/2009 7:58:21 PM |
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mizzman
Annapolis, MD
46, joined May. 2008
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That is a damn good question, and it does hold some truth. I just divorced a woman who gave the worst head I have ever known. I stopped asking after I realized she was terrible at it. It's a shame because I love to go down, but I will not for long if it isn't reciprocated.
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| 1/22/2009 8:28:51 PM |
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s70olds
Butler, PA
41, joined Jan. 2009
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most men need to still wash the damn thing after they get married and maybe they would get it more often!
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| 1/24/2009 9:44:14 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2008
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That's why men cheat......woman should always satisfy their man like they are dating
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| 1/25/2009 12:14:10 AM |
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ladyvirtue123
Magalia, CA
60, joined Jun. 2008
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It never stopped or slowed down in my marriage of almost 24 yrs..I don't understand why sex seems to decrease for some when they have been in a long term relationship..why not keep the magic going? Best way to do that is to keep the sex life fun and exciting, don't you think? 
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| 1/25/2009 5:22:57 PM |
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serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
57, joined Sep. 2008
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for better or worse the sex,of all kinds,,outlasted the marriages
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| 1/27/2009 6:17:38 AM |
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truekev4u
Rock Hill, SC
50, joined Jan. 2009
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It's the taking each other for granted ... that is the problem in most cases. Guys need to take it upon themselves to do what it takes to continue creating attraction between them. Guys can blame someone else, but does that work? Most guys start being a wuss after marriage and women are not attracted to that, period - whether dating or married. Keep up whatever was working during dating. Don't wait for her ... take the responsibilitly and in most cases you will be rewarded. Give a woman something to look forward to when she comes home. Think of the things that put her in a bad mood and protect her from that. From most women, an unclean house is a mood killer. Guys don't realize how much cleaning the house for her without being asked can make a difference. Keep marriage exciting, keep being a leader, making surprise dinner plans, keeping her guessing and being a little unpredictable. She will respond - of course there are always women who have medical issues or emotional issues that get in the way but those have to be addressed separately. I learned the hard way in my marriage and lost something wonderful. Don't let that happen to you!! Take care of your marriage, make sure you are your wife's best friend. That is the best you can do!! GOOD LUCK!!!
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| 1/27/2009 8:57:58 AM |
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rhamseys
Streetsboro, OH
43, joined Jan. 2009
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The funny thing is if you're wife decides to keep it from you, she must remember that there is a POTENTIAL for you to get it somewhere else. So I would say, let me go down on you because I LOVE IT, and you do the same and we don't have to worry about anything!! lol I know that sounded bad but hey what can i do?
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| 1/27/2009 12:49:05 PM |
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niceguy4tlc
Winter Haven, FL
58, joined Aug. 2008
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lookingformyman
Redding, CA
age: 52
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joined: Jan. 2009
I know every situation is different but when I was married and wasn't in the mood (which was rare) I would just get it over with by making him happy. It only took about 60 seconds or so. About 30 seconds of teasing and 30 seconds of pleasing. Wipe up the mess, brush your teeth, gargle and everyone is happy again. It's as simple at that.........
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| 1/29/2009 8:13:41 AM |
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harleybadboy55
Aiken, SC
60, joined Dec. 2008
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I found that out twice. I'm a slow learner.
The two words that ruin great sex............................"I DO"
How do you kill a woman from the waist down and neck up......"Marry her"
My experience has been that once the "I do's" were said the everything changed. Not right off but didn't take long. I all became about her pleasure and no reciprocation.
Before marriage she would give me a BJ about anywhere. While I was driving, while I sat in my chair, right after a shower together, even in places where we might get caught. Sex, sex, and more sex, anywhere, anytime. She always wanted oral done to her also and I obliged anywhere, anytime. 69's turned to 9....6's.
Wasn't long before the only stiff things that gave her pleasure and orgasms were credit cards.
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| 2/1/2009 3:14:22 AM |
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newyorkais
Bronx, NY
51, joined Jan. 2009
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the others one who don't do juste think the don't need to compete any more after geting the man she whant. simple.
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| 2/1/2009 3:12:47 PM |
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andrzejewski
Dayton, OH
56, joined Nov. 2008
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im the type that if you blow me i will eat you its just fair you think
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| 2/1/2009 10:43:34 PM |
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cal76
Burleson, TX
39, joined Jan. 2009
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I'm a weirdo I guess, I'm really not into BJ's. I love be the one going down (on a woman).
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| 2/2/2009 3:50:20 AM |
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diofear
Torrington, WY
39, joined Jan. 2009
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I Have heard myself to be quite gifted in the oral area.... I have no problem blowin my man what so ever. The way I see it.... make his legs shake, swallow and be done with it. I like the feelings when a guy busts in my mouth, it means i did my job. I mean you should want to please your man wherever whenever right??? 
Ummmm... so just what are the cloning laws nowdays??? I say we should clone more of her!!! You rule girl!!!
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| 2/2/2009 4:07:48 AM |
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bonekitty
Louisville, KY
40, joined Jan. 2009
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Ummmm... so just what are the cloning laws nowdays??? I say we should clone more of her!!! You rule girl!!! 
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| 2/10/2009 8:46:14 AM |
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cercofregnia
Willoughby, OH
62, joined Feb. 2009
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I'm a 55 years old man been married for 30 years. I naver had a bj in my life, I have given oral to wonen before i got married, but never received it. The older i get the more i thing about it. Have i been missing on some good? i don't even know, my wife is a wonderfull woman, but she just doesn't believe in it. What do I do? any answers? any body?
 
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| 2/10/2009 12:57:59 PM |
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mate4uheart
Walhalla, SC
63, joined Jan. 2009
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They stop because the men stop reciprocating! ORRRRRR, either they quit washing it..........LOL! 
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| 2/10/2009 1:13:57 PM |
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curves385
Saint Petersburg, FL
45, joined Nov. 2008
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in my experience wedding cake killed her sex drive 
I had the opposite problem even after the kids he told me I wanted it too much. I always want it and when with someone always say yes.
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| 2/10/2009 1:14:26 PM |
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whiteeblack88
Summerville, SC
44, joined Jan. 2009
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hey im new at this so here goes this is my opinion if married and the blowjobs have stopped what exactly has changed are you still giving her oral sex if not then thats the problem with me if i get a blowjob ok great if not ok still great but for me eating my girl gives me more pleasure and im not talking for 5 minutes either im talking till she cant take anymore so if anybody out theres not doing that then blowjobs will be far and few between for you
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| 2/10/2009 2:22:13 PM |
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nicenslow09
Hillside, NJ
28, joined Feb. 2009
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i agree with white black.. ladies need to get pleasured in order to giv..
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| 2/10/2009 3:18:29 PM |
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fballcoach
Springfield, TN
40, joined Oct. 2008
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they use it as bait...and once your on the hook and in the boat..its all over
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| 2/11/2009 1:46:32 PM |
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metalhead2008
Decatur, IL
60, joined Feb. 2008
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Why do women smile so much at the altar????
Because they know they have given their last blow job.....
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| 2/11/2009 11:58:22 PM |
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passionsastirin
Pompano Beach, FL
49, joined Jun. 2008
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The reason that married men do not get blow jobs, is, that married men want classy women to marry. They choose to marry the ones that have respect for themselves. Those women do not do such things.
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| 2/12/2009 12:42:05 AM |
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xxlizzybeexx
Stafford Springs, CT
36, joined Feb. 2009
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It's a 2 way street. I love giving them as long as it doesn't take 45 minutes. But he must be down too. If he stops going south..so will I
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| 2/12/2009 1:13:46 AM |
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jennv
Amarillo, TX
32, joined Jul. 2008
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Depends.... if I actually love him,
in the relationship for a good awhile...
I actually ENJOY it.
But you gotta love me 1st.
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| 2/12/2009 10:44:15 AM |
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snglhottie08
Bardstown, KY
29, joined Nov. 2008
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I kno for a fact, I would never stop givin head! I love it!! I'd love to keep the spark and the flame burnin in my marriage!!
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| 2/12/2009 1:38:13 PM |
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likyastikya
Bonita Springs, FL
74, joined Mar. 2008
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Hmmm, I'm on my way to Bardstown!!
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| 2/14/2009 1:18:08 PM |
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septjan
Lake Benton, MN
56, joined Jan. 2009
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every womans mouth should open up to a man when she on the rag plug one hole open another
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| 2/14/2009 5:24:57 PM |
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lukus40
Spring City, PA
54, joined Oct. 2008
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NO WOMEN WILL EVER BE TRULEY SATISFIED ON VALENTINES DAY BECAUSE NO MAN WILL EVERHAVE A CHOCOLATE PENIS THAT EJACULATES MONEY.. THE ONLY WAY I GOT A BLOW JOB FROM MY B*TCH WIFE IF I GOT A 100 DOLLAR BILL AND PUT IT AROUNG MY PENIS>>>>>
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| 2/15/2009 4:20:59 PM |
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bry11ca
Irving, TX
51, joined Feb. 2008
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If the blow jobs stop, so do I. 
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| 2/15/2009 9:32:18 PM |
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mineralgirl
Sugar Land, TX
39, joined Dec. 2008
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I'm started to see why some of these guys are still single. If they stop it may be a matter of how is he treating her??? If she doesn't feel appreciated and loved, she's not gonna keep giving.
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| 2/18/2009 12:02:54 PM |
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coolcnwk
Bayonne, NJ
42, joined Jan. 2009
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YOU ARE MY NEW BEST FRIEND!!! 
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| 2/18/2009 12:12:22 PM |
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starfox22
Castle Rock, CO
58, joined Jan. 2009
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I was married for 17 yrs and a B/I is how i always woke up my man........ He fukked up a real good thing with drugs....... his loss...........
He sure did! Wonder who is waking him up now? and how? The shmuck.
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| 2/18/2009 12:47:35 PM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
50, joined Apr. 2008
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my wife never stopped giving me head....but then again she always said i had a yummy penis...
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| 2/19/2009 6:03:35 PM |
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uglybeast
Spokane, WA
59, joined Jan. 2009
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When a women really enjoys giving blow jobs you can tell or maybe not, but she will never stop if she really does unless you've done something to make her not care.
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| 2/19/2009 7:29:38 PM |
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shaina1
Big Rapids, MI
43, joined Apr. 2007
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Now thats a joke lol
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| 2/20/2009 12:56:29 AM |
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irishhusker
Hargill, TX
53, joined May. 2008
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I agree 100%. I have been married twice. two alcoholics. (yeah, I know  ) I love giving head and they knew it. Unfortunately alcohol makes the willy really soft. No amount of sucking could make the flag rise to the top.
The man I have now......god I love to suck him any time any where. He is a happy man, and if I ever marry again......He will stay a happy man until death do us part. 
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| 2/20/2009 11:49:14 PM |
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chris9947
Abernathy, TX
60, joined Sep. 2007
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It is true for the most part that they may slow down but if the relationship is a relationship then it never stops but it slows down for a point during the marriage. The point I speak about is the shild raising stage and then once the kids are staying over and out of the house then it will pick back up unless the woman becomes frigid about having the man in her mouth.
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| 2/21/2009 12:11:09 AM |
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ledrock
Preston, ID
53, joined Dec. 2008
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Good question. I guess like anything else, people tend to start taking each other for granted. And perhaps since marriage, don't try so hard. I guess women don't like giving blowjobs as much as they think they do...lol
I agree
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| 2/21/2009 4:58:29 AM |
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redjulie65
Beloit, WI
50, joined Apr. 2008
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in my experience wedding cake killed her sex drive
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| 2/21/2009 5:17:10 AM |
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xxxmark
Shelby, NC
26, joined Dec. 2008
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if you ever are lucky enough to meet one who really does like it you know who the fakers are. omly problem is it takes time to figure that statment out. my motto is give it like you want it live that and you can sort out the bad apples men and women.
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| 2/21/2009 9:30:04 AM |
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raen
Sunman, IN
46, joined Jan. 2009
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as long as i am married to him there is no question......
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| 2/21/2009 9:54:38 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
52, joined Aug. 2008
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HMMMM I so disagree with when you married everything STOPS...
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| 2/23/2009 1:04:51 PM |
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shaelizabeth
Lexington, SC
70, joined Jan. 2009
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the way to a man's heart . pocket book, check book ect. is controled by blow jobs. I for one enjoy it, giving pleasure is an awesome thing and god knows a man loves a good blow job or even a bad one ////
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| 2/23/2009 1:11:21 PM |
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tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
60, joined May. 2008
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too bad for you!
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| 2/23/2009 1:32:34 PM |
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hngrfrsx
Rochester, NH
61, joined Feb. 2009
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i agree
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| 2/23/2009 1:44:34 PM |
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ladybella63
Marion, AR
52, joined Aug. 2008
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If you are with the right man/woman and you both really enjoy it... then nothing has to stop after marriage... I have found that the same before marriage is true after you say I do... it is all about what you make it to be... make the time and everything else just comes naturally....
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| 2/25/2009 5:05:28 AM |
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sassynstrong
Mena, AR
55, joined Feb. 2008
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Hmm maybe because HE turned out to be "less" than advertised. LOL Before marriage it was anywhere any time after it was don't touch me except in the bedroom the kids might see. If I can't touch and tease throughout the day then I'm NOT going to be in the mood when YOU decide it's time. Not to mention that all of a sudden I'm too "special" for him to go "downtown" with. Hah make me feel "special" all right ~ SPECIAL ED, but still wanted his BJs. Seriously though, I personally think a blow by blow is THE best part of sex for several reasons...
1> Blow it part of the way and it makes for a really quick hard ride but blow it all the way and you have time to keep playing and the "ride" will be long and VERY satisfying.
2> If he's not all that good in the main stretch, then the BJ may give me the only orgasm I have and finally
3> I just like it.
BUT if Willy the one-eyed wonder worm needs a bath it surely ain't gonna be given by MY tongue LOL
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| 2/26/2009 3:45:45 PM |
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tiffblueeyes
Hendersonville, NC
42, joined Jan. 2009
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Ladies please hear me out on this....Whatever you are doing or did to get your man to commit to u if its marriage or living together whatever the case u have to keep it up if u gave him head on the regular u cant just stop keep giving him head ladies put it on him like u use too.... if he is good to u keep giving him what he wants...we got to start taking better care of our man i hear complains all the time from friends about this...u have to do that extra it takes sometimes if u trying to have something with this man cant be all demanding and shit who wants to hear that? U cant cut the sex off cause u mad about something u cant just quit doing everything & he has committed to u for a reason so u have to keep it spicy& filled with passion make him feel that every night is like the first time u touched him..... because this is very true if u dont take care of him there is a B*tch that will and he has her number...
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| 2/26/2009 6:16:43 PM |
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tiffblueeyes
Hendersonville, NC
42, joined Jan. 2009
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thank u just keeping it real.....
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| 3/1/2009 6:18:45 AM |
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prospector52
Geneva, IN
63, joined Jan. 2009
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I must be missing a lot. I was married for 36 years and went down on my wife every chance I got with out the return favor, but the feeling I got from the movements of her body, the sounds she made, and the explosion was enough for me. I never had to worry about her going elsewhere!
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| 3/1/2009 11:15:36 AM |
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septjan
Lake Benton, MN
56, joined Jan. 2009
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I made mine quit birth control she didnt want any more kids so she loved to give head it didnt stop men this is the answer
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| 3/1/2009 12:26:07 PM |
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lukus41
Spring City, PA
52, joined Feb. 2009
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well the only time I got one is when she wanted something.. if i put a 100 dollar bill around my c--k she would do it any time. when your married that goes down the drain!!!
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| 3/1/2009 12:29:13 PM |
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crazyparade
San Diego, CA
42, joined Dec. 2008
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well I've been married and it's true...but really if you expect me to blow you and not go down on me...then I gues you can forget about the blowing hun! just saying
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| 3/1/2009 12:37:20 PM |
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scottt39
Ocean View, HI
53, joined Apr. 2008
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I have never been married but I would never expect a woman to go down on me unless I was willing to go down on her. Even if she didn't go down on just tasting those sweet juices would be a great start!
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| 3/1/2009 12:40:04 PM |
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highnoon333666
Belgrade, MT
42, joined Feb. 2009
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i would go down what do you expect
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| 3/1/2009 2:03:52 PM |
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jamontgomery
Grand Rapids, MI
29, joined Feb. 2009
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Ok, heads up to potential girlfriends... marry me, spend my money, go out.. whatever, but never stop the blow jobs!
*eye shift*
hehehehe.
Hoo F**kin Rah!
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| 3/2/2009 12:25:46 AM |
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american_ninja
Beverly Hills, CA
51, joined Sep. 2008
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I guess since marriage sucks,why should they?
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