| 1/22/2009 2:05:11 AM |
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rizinstar26
Pineville, LA
age: 26
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i do feel what you are saying and promiscuity is not the same as loving sex. see, sex can be enjoyed without taking that risk. the above latter is something totally different if you don't know someone it's not worth the risk however ifyou know that person without a shadow of a doubt that you know that person has been checked without prior commitment to said relationship then go for it. i've been single now for 2 weeks-went out tonight-came home alone. didn;t have to but i'm just not ready to take that gamble right now. Probably won't ever be. i commened you 4 ur abstinence. in baltimore, md 25% or more of the population have std's another 35% have admitted to not bein sure. somethin to think about your home town people. thats a big f'n place you know. anyways sexlover 26 male louisiana- holla!
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| 1/22/2009 2:53:25 AM |
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marqeye
Kent, OH
age: 33 online now!
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I recently was riding in a vehicle dropping off people from a christmas party.A group of the women were planning to go out dancing at a bar.One of the women I know for a 1000% fact has full blown A.I.D.S.and was bragging about how bad she needed a "A good ,stiff ,d*ck" in her and how she was gonna "get her some".She's a pretty lil'thing and if you didn't know her you'd never guess she had anything wrong with her.This is NOT the first time I have seen and heard of this going on...I knew others in california who did the same,never telling their pick ups anything about their disease nor using any kind of protection. fORGIVE ME,but this scares the hell out of me and makes me so angry.
My ex didn't touch me sexually for close to a year prior to his depature almost 8 months ago.I still have yet to have gone out on so much as 1 date{nothing around here holds any intrest to me}and whileI am beside myself w/ frustration{shower massage is my friend but that pacifier is Not a Man}I am determined to hold out until I find someone I want to be in a committed relationship with.I have been tested for H.I.V. and have documentation stating that I do not have it,I for one have plans on keeping myself free of such disease.But it just blows me away when I read that I may be considered amongst those women considered a prude because while I love sex and miss it almost unbearably so,I'm not going to spread myself around as though my p*ssy was made of peanut butter.God help the man I do let loose with when the time does come around,I am certain he will be begging for water ,ciggarettes and a chiropractor.It's not prudish to be moral.By the way...I'm a retired pro stripper/belly dancer and trust me,I like pleasing my man.But my body is for 1 man and 1 man alone.A toast to all of you so called"PRUDES"!
Autumnsmiles it's ok you don't need to make this big thread I will still sleep with you!
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| 1/22/2009 9:58:46 AM |
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nitecaller
Edmonton, AB
age: 46 online now!
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it should be a reminder that hiv is out there
this is why i ALLWAYS USE A CONDOM
i talk bluntly before haveing sex meanin i ask
do you have any STD'S
when was your last Dr. appointment
those two question could save your life
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| 1/22/2009 6:14:21 PM |
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mizzman
Annapolis, MD
age: 39
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What a horrible person!!! I am in the military and let me tell you, we see a lot of that everywhere we go, especially overseas. The smart guy always knows that using a condom although a nuisance can save your life and prevent the spread of these things. That woman should be arrested as should ALL people who do that crap. Good luck and sex when you find your one, I bow in respect of your morals.
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| 1/22/2009 6:22:36 PM |
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s70olds
Butler, PA
age: 34
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i like everything you have to say. and about the aids story it is very sad but very true and it is very sick that there are people out there like that
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| 1/22/2009 7:13:50 PM |
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bbw46reader
Frederick, MD
age: 46 online now!
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If you want to use plastic wrap as a body fluid barrier make sure it is not the 'microwaveable' kind - it's porous. So are lambskin condoms. Some people make the argument something is better than nothing, but if you're going out to buy them, for goodness' sake get the right kind for your needs (contraception, safer sex, whatever).
And no petroleum/oil based products for lube with latex condoms! That includes Vaseline, massage oils, lotions, Crisco, etc. These break down the latex, increasing risk of breakage, and increase the risk of slipping. Use only sex lube or (your own) spit. Using oil based lubricants has got to be the most common cause of 'mystery' breakage and subsequent pregnancy/infection. Closely followed by not leaving a reservoir at the tip. How many people know this? Polyurethane condoms, however, can be used with oil based lube.
"The condom broke." ???????? Unless you are doing something kinda, um, . . . really wrong, like using Vaseline (or sharp, pointy things), it's not that easy to do. Also, the guy has to withdraw properly. If one or the other of you is fishing it out of her after - you've done it wrong. Slippage, I would think, could be remedied by buying the proper size, but maybe not enough sizes are made? IDK
Oddly, wearing two condoms isn't a great idea either, the friction between the two increases the risk of breakage.
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| 1/29/2009 8:19:57 AM |
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i77jd
Cincinnati, OH
age: 54
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it scares me so much i'm in the same boat you're in.hell i'm almost affraid to jerk off.
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| 1/29/2009 10:21:44 AM |
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azureeyes08
Duxbury, MA
age: 44
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That kind of attitude scares me silly. I'm clean and have always been clean, but the disregard for others displayed at times can be so disheartening.
Be honest, and you will get what you desire.
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| 1/30/2009 9:05:06 AM |
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k_tothe_c
Las Vegas, NV
age: 39
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I...AM...TERRIFIED! 
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| 1/30/2009 10:24:09 PM |
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wishfullthinker
Dayton, OH
age: 25
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You guys may not know this but it is agaisnt the law for someone who knows they have Hiv or aids to have sex with others with not telling their partners. It is considered attempted murder or something like that. I know a guy Who has had hiv and has been bed hopping and not telling his partners. he gave someone the disease. They are trying to find the guy so they can put him in jail where he belongs.
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| 1/30/2009 10:35:17 PM |
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holycow1953
Boonsboro, MD
age: 55
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Yes this may scare me, but not enough to totally stop my life. Not that I have one, but if I did! lol. I could have a heart attack or stroke tomorrow and die, so what's a little aids at my age? JK
She should at least tell the other person that she has it and let that be up to them if they still want to go there or not. I have had friends with full blown AIDS and we are still friends. I have not had sex with them, but that doesn't stop me from being their friend. I am not afraid to hug and kiss them. I have seen it cured, so don't let life scare you. There is power in positive thinking....I positively think I'll go have a drink! lol.  
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| 1/30/2009 10:45:36 PM |
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tinkerfrog
Westland, MI
age: 39
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Most definitely its scary. People arent real and have no means of telling you the negatives about themselves. Especially today alot of people just want friends with benefits.
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| 2/14/2009 4:30:22 AM |
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sofucingrock
Florence, AZ
age: 24
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i think its f**ked up that people especially woman (just my opinion dont kill me)
go out if there way to pass std around once they have them like its not 1/2 there fault they have them.
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| 2/14/2009 5:13:44 PM |
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simplesmile
Centereach, NY
age: 18
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i completley and totally agree i think about the same thing all the time.... i had a casual thing at once and let me just say i had the scare of my life when my partner told me after he had sumthing... i was tested and thank god im ok ..nothing.. but still i know what u mean i havnt had sex since an im saving myself for the one special guy maybe even till marriage and thats the truth.... thank god for celebacy
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| 2/15/2009 2:16:18 PM |
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bry11ca
Irving, TX
age: 44
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Go slow, be careful , have few partners, know who you are screwing.
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