| 10/30/2007 1:32:59 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Ideally, I'd like to be in WA State with my own kids but, For my family and myself right now, I'm stuck in Okla. 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/30/2007 1:34:05 PM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Peaches I would rather be in Ok that Wa or Mn....sorry, just against that crappy cold weather!! LOL
Lady, thanks and I am thinking very hard about the idea of moving back home.....Its just a huge choice and I have to think of both me and my son!!
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| 10/30/2007 1:36:52 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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I do love being with my neices and nephews..I just avoid those that drive me nutts as much as possible. lol
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/30/2007 1:41:37 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 54
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tough one repo.. sorry you're having to make this one. I dislike the cold very much too. something in my bones. Family does attract you with all the relatives, but as long as your son knows who family is.. he has friends to play with where ever you land. Gotta do what's best for you.
i moved away from family in 1980. a younger brother followed me about 10 years ago out here. I'm 500 miles away from most of them, and not that tough to drive over for a weekend. and most of the time, i'm thankful that i've spent most of my adult life away.
who knows, after the kids get settled, might move back over and build me a little house, raise some horses & cows again.
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| 10/30/2007 1:44:19 PM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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See I think about that too!! I want my son to learn how to ride horses and have those advantages in his childhood. My mom has 2. She is saving her gelding because she wants to use him to teach my son to ride....Picture a 3-4 year old on a 16 hand tall horse....LMAO Anyways, if I went back that would be another advantage...Maybe I could get a social life, too....I would have baby-sitters!!
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| 10/30/2007 1:46:31 PM |
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ladyfireeyes81
Redwood City, CA
age: 26
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baby-sitters are good!
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| 10/30/2007 1:48:34 PM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Yeah I have forgotten what they are like!!! lol
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| 10/30/2007 1:50:34 PM |
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ladyfireeyes81
Redwood City, CA
age: 26
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LOL Did you just make up your mind?
As far as baby sitters go, I am my best friend's babysitter, and that makes it hard to have a girls night. (her husband can't always watch the kids for girls night because he might have to be up at 4am to go to work...)
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| 10/30/2007 1:51:59 PM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Nope, my mind is not made up...I hate the idea of leaving behind some real good friends but they cant help me like the family can!!!
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| 10/30/2007 1:53:25 PM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Ok, to clarify to everyone....The 800 mile difference for me is moving from Memphis Tn, crime capital of the US to St. Paul Mn....
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| 10/30/2007 1:55:15 PM |
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bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46
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i think you should go...........that little bit a snow,and cold,,,,whats the difference, it sound pretty cold where your at now
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| 10/30/2007 1:56:02 PM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Its not cold here temp wise but seriously my car could be getting broken into as we speak!!!
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| 10/30/2007 2:02:24 PM |
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ladyfireeyes81
Redwood City, CA
age: 26
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ok, so you have support, family, things for your song to learn, babysitters, and peace of mind if you move. What if you don't?
Oh yea, and snowmen, sledding, and all those winter sports for your son to play with.
[Edited 10/30/2007 2:03:12 PM]
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| 10/31/2007 8:24:47 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Lady, if I dont move I have total freedom and staying close to the friends I have around here. That is about it...Oh and the lovely sunny weather!!! LOL
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| 10/31/2007 8:42:15 AM |
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silkpanties52
Baytown, TX
age: 52
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Repo
I am at that point
but i am with my daughter
its really hard on me and finding a job is just as hard
I enjoy being with them and i am keeping the grandkids to help them out
but there is nothing like having your own place and getting your life back
to order.
Just follow your heart and do whats best for you and your children then
get back on you own from there.
Best Wishes to YOU and your family and Good Luck
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