| 2/25/2009 8:34:08 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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bamakat
Montgomery, AL
age: 56
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1. Has enough firearms to take care of an army and the ammo to go with them. I'm not against guns. I have 2 handguns and a permit to carry.
2. Says "I love you...I see us with a future together...oh, I moved too fast" on the second date.
3. Not open to a difference of opinion.
4. Gets cell phone calls at dinner or during a movie, excuses himself, and then goes off to talk privately.
5. Can't make decisions.
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| 2/25/2009 9:20:39 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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boushy
Platteville, CO
age: 43
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1. They say "I love you" right after the wink!!
2. They just keep winkin!! lol can we say: HELLO!!
3. No pic!! Either means they are butt ugly or can't upload one..hmmm?
4. Can't stop talking about their mother. Really now!!
K got bored with this..
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| 2/25/2009 9:46:44 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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In no particular order.
1. Bad hygiene
2. Argumentative i.e. shows signs of attitude problems
3. Ego, Ego, Ego
4. Phone and or mental and or silly high school games and mental tests
5. See how they respond if you tell them no to something
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| 2/25/2009 10:13:59 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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fishenguy
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 49
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1. Has enough firearms to take care of an army and the ammo to go with them. I'm not against guns. I have 2 handguns and a permit to carry.
2. Says "I love you...I see us with a future together...oh, I moved too fast" on the second date.
3. Not open to a difference of opinion.
4. Gets cell phone calls at dinner or during a movie, excuses himself, and then goes off to talk privately.
5. Can't make decisions.
So.....are you saying that if a guy has a lot of guns he is abusive? How many guns is too many? What if he is a collector? Wouldn't that be a matter of opinion? And than you say not open to a difference of opinion. So....if you think a guy has too many guns....and he doesn't think he has too many.....Wouldn't you be closed to a difference of opinion?
Heck, the way some of you people come up with what you think are red flags......EVERY one is waving red flags.
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| 2/26/2009 4:19:55 AM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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bamakat
Montgomery, AL
age: 56
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So.....are you saying that if a guy has a lot of guns he is abusive? How many guns is too many? What if he is a collector? Wouldn't that be a matter of opinion? And than you say not open to a difference of opinion. So....if you think a guy has too many guns....and he doesn't think he has too many.....Wouldn't you be closed to a difference of opinion?
Heck, the way some of you people come up with what you think are red flags......EVERY one is waving red flags.
No, I didn't say anything about abusive and didn't go into all the details. He wasn't a "collector" in the sense I believe you mean, and the conversation about why so many guns was off the wall. There were also cases of MRE's. This was years ago, but heck, maybe with the economy the way it's going, he wasn't off the mark. I would hate to think that we are headed down that road.
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| 2/26/2009 4:41:56 AM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 58
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Says everything that he thinks you want / need to hear 
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| 2/26/2009 7:14:16 AM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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fishenguy
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 49
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No, I didn't say anything about abusive and didn't go into all the details. He wasn't a "collector" in the sense I believe you mean, and the conversation about why so many guns was off the wall. There were also cases of MRE's. This was years ago, but heck, maybe with the economy the way it's going, he wasn't off the mark. I would hate to think that we are headed down that road.
Thank You for clearing that up. In that case I might agree with you. I believe in being prepared but some people just go over the edge. All I really look for as a red flag is bashing the opposite sex. Never having a nice thing to say about any of the men or women in your life, even family members.
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| 2/26/2009 3:20:47 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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followurdreams2
Ridgeland, MS
age: 40
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1.. Smoker
2.. Abusive
3.. Poor Hygiene
4.. Arrogance
5.. No sense of humor
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| 2/26/2009 3:34:12 PM |
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d_voted
Winnipeg, MB
age: 56
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1. Caretaker Controller or Fixer
2. Unkind or judgmental
3. Ethical Relativist
4. Lack of Social Conscience
5. Farts or Burps louder than I can and is proud of it to the point of showing me up all the time. (Damaging to my male ego).
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| 2/26/2009 3:42:39 PM |
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bry11ca
Irving, TX
age: 44
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1) Open Herpes Sores
2) Hepatitis C
3) Advanced AIDS
4) Dead, but still warm
5) Dead and cold
Just kidding . . . I've got nothing against dead and cold.   (Eeeeeeewwwwww, Bad Bry  )
Bry 
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| 2/26/2009 3:55:30 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 36 online now!
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BBW where were you when I met my ex.
That list was very correct he fit over half of that and I had no idea he was offender. He was always acting like the victim, slighted etc.
I think your list was best on here so far.
Ladies read BBW list carefully because abusers and offenders don't tell you they are predators. They are the super nice guy. Honestly if a guy is too nice now I go the other way. Or if he blames everyone for his problems...he is a carpet always being ran over.
As for baggage...everyone has baggage. That would eliminate the whole human race.
My red flag is if he doesn't believe in God, the bible or the church.
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| 2/27/2009 11:47:32 AM |
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tater2009
Las Vegas, NV
age: 37
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1) Bad communication.
2) No time.
3) Baggage
4) Boring to the tenth power.
5) Extream home-body.
shit, counts me out then.
1. don't know her number.
2. gotta go to work in a bit.
3. carry me lappy everywhere.
4. this one's a bit of a stretch for me, i like movies and karaoke.
5. i'm at home everywhere.
i just can't win for losing.
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| 2/28/2009 7:34:33 AM |
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quitesassy
Massillon, OH
age: 39
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Unable to apologize or admit fault.
Judgmental of others, I find this means they have something to hide.
That flash of anger in their eyes when you do not agree or simply voice your opinion.
Unable to compromise.
Putting inanimate objects first.
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| 2/28/2009 6:41:06 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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ncmark
Lumberton, NC
age: 43 online now!
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Trying to get too serious too fast
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| 2/28/2009 6:43:19 PM |
Super Red Flags: Top five. |
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joy617
Pisgah, AL
age: 45 online now!
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Actual statements from e-mail, IM conversations or 1st dates.
5. I'll send you my daughter she is 8 years old. You can home school her and I'll join you in a few months. Pick her up at.....airport. I just googled your city. (1st conversation in IM chat, while we were talking he was booking his daughter a flight to live with me.)
4. I looked at your profile and it is fate. You are the one I will marry. Let's chat on ya hoo. (1st e-mail)
3. You are going to marry me and stay at home. I will provide for you and... (1st date. I stopped listening.)
3. I brought my clothes, it's cheaper if we live together. I don't have a job. You have a nice place, right. (1st date)
AND the #1 winner is:
1. I want to be upfront with you. I killed a guy who was flirting with my girlfriend. The police lost the evidence and I got off. If I had to I'd do it all over again, I would. (Can we say insanely JEALOUS???)
Report anyone who harasses you or flag any inappropriate conversations.
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