misty4u
Knoxville, TN
age: 51 online now!
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Well said Tabitha. That is something we all could learn from. Most all of us have been hurt by someone at some time in our lives. It is what we take from it and learn that gets us to the next step. It is also about forgiving and forgetting. Not dragging the baggage into the next possible relationship. Shake it off and go on. Life is a learning process. We are never too old to learn. There is never a point to just quit and give up. That makes for a bitter, lonely life. Not forgiving and letting go also causes a negative attitude and a chip on your shoulder and I believe those negative vibes can be picked up and causes people of the opposite sex to run from you instead of warming up to you. It causes you to walk around with a frown on your face because you expect the next encounter to be more of the same and Hey, who wants to approach a person with a frown on their face, not me.
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wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51
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maybe its because the jerks are the ones that make contact with us and the good guys sit back and wait i have met 2 guys that chatted phone me and wanted to meet but the minute they relize there not getting sex on the first meet there gone so good guys why dont you make a stand and try contacting us its just a guess game for all of us
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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Sorry to see another member leave. Just as in the real world and the cyber one, there are good and bad in both. I think we all need a break at times. Hope you come back to join us soon as you feel up to diving back into the pool. Have a great day.
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