| 3/2/2009 12:47:49 PM |
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gina65
Pueblo, CO
age: 43
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Yesterday I was on my computer and I text my boyfriend from some free text site. I didn't put a return email so he wouldn't know it was me. It said "Hi baby how r u? I heard his phone ring and looked over at him and he read it and turned his phone off, which he never does. I text a few more times (like "where r u?, etc) and sure enough his phone was off. I went to the table and he had placed his phone upside down so (maybe) I couldn't see his phone light up. I was just sitting there at the table waiting for him to tell me he got a some strange text. Nope not a word. Let me explain I was just kidding around with him at first and now my mind is thinking that he thought it was some other chick, or at least hoping it was somebody elese. I feel that he had or has something going on. Or am I just really paranoid. I just figured that if I got a text that said Hi baby how r u I would have said something to him since he was right there, and why would he turn his phone off and over on the table. Lastly, when he got up from the table he put his phone in his pocket. Are these actions of a guilty man or am I  crazy. Please advise me!
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| 3/2/2009 12:50:15 PM |
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gentlebrad
Galesburg, IL
age: 32
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sounds like he is up to something if he hid it and then didnt tell ya darlin sorry to hear about that it isnt right at all
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| 3/2/2009 12:54:21 PM |
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gina65
Pueblo, CO
age: 43
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thanks maybe somebody elese will validate my feelings
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| 3/2/2009 12:59:55 PM |
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candie33
Euless, TX
age: 33
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I would say that he is hiding something or someone. Be careful.
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| 3/2/2009 1:07:36 PM |
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midnight08
Clarksburg, WV
age: 38
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well if he was up to something, dont you think he would have texted her back? Wait for the text to come back to the message. or if he had no way to respond to it drop another text to him telling him how to respond. However be prepared for the worse, you are setting him up!
In the legal field this would be called entrapment!
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| 3/2/2009 1:09:13 PM |
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beu24
Beverly Hills, CA
age: 50
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Why would you play such childish games. You went looking for trouble maybe you found it. Somethings are best left alone.
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| 3/2/2009 1:11:08 PM |
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country_guy60
Mankato, MN
age: 48
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Question, Being that you didn`t send a reply address. could he reply to you if he wanted to ? ( if yes ) I would try to send him another text when your not with him and see if he replies to you, not telling who you are play along with him until you know for sure that hes out shopping.
I would keep my guard up 
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| 3/2/2009 1:11:24 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36 online now!
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Why not just be an adult and ask him instead of playing these high school games?
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| 3/2/2009 1:24:20 PM |
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mezentiangate
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 56
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Dump him and look for me .. I wouldn't do ya like that--
then again why are You on dating website if ur hangin' w/ a boyfriend already?
 
[Edited 3/2/2009 1:25:40 PM PST]
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| 3/2/2009 1:26:08 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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They are not the actions of a guilty man but they sure are the actions of a suspicious woman...So if thats how you feel then why dont you ask him whats going on rather than just surmising....A real relationship is based on honesty and trust and that works both ways....
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| 3/2/2009 1:27:16 PM |
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gina65
Pueblo, CO
age: 43
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let me clear something up. I first did this as a joke, because I had never text from the computer before and he was sitting in the same room. Believe me if I was purposely setting him up I would not have done this. Because I do/did trust him.
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| 3/2/2009 1:28:47 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36 online now!
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let me clear something up. I first did this as a joke, because I had never text from the computer before and he was sitting in the same room. Believe me if I was purposely setting him up I would not have done this. Because I do/did trust him.
No you don't.
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| 3/2/2009 1:35:27 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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Gotta say I love seeing how peoples minds work..........
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| 3/2/2009 1:37:08 PM |
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sunrise0103
Monroe, NC
age: 39
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I can totally see where you're coming from. You thought it would be 'cute' to text while in the same room and when you called him baby...he should have known it was from YOU and answered you back in a cute flirty way. Or if he couldn't respond since it came from a computer...he coulda turned around and responded in person in that cute flirty way! I don't think it was a set up...I just think she wanted to be cute and flirt with her man, and there's nothing wrong w/that! What's wrong is that he didn't respond or even ask 'hey did you just send this to me'! Now unfortunately...he's got your wheels turning in your head. I think I'd keep my eyes open. It sux...but it is what it is. He shoulda known it was you and responded. JMO
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| 3/2/2009 1:38:28 PM |
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gina65
Pueblo, CO
age: 43
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i was not purposely setting him up, I was playing around with him and it backfired. And now am i suppose to trust him?
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