| 11/6/2007 9:49:19 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 41
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Why all the deception? Lies? cheating? No more phone calls? No explanations. Have we lost our ability to communicate effectively with our significant others in longer term relationships and also to honor and trust in their emotionally stability as a person? If you know something is over and trust me...Most do. Why not just tell the other person that and move on in a decent respectful manner. I guess that would take something called integrity or class and you might actually have to care about people enough to do it though.
[Edited 11/6/2007 5:36:47 PM]
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| 11/6/2007 10:18:34 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46 online now!
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Good question....I guess cuz they don't want to hear the fall-out, the feed-back, or possibly they just don't want to face the fact that they failed.
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| 11/6/2007 10:19:11 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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potentloveslave
Dade City, FL
age: 40
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Communication. The whole reason for the world's problems.
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| 11/8/2007 7:27:45 PM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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ilovepink
Mariposa, CA
age: 51
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I would have to say that most people beleive that if you open communication when breaking up it only leads to confrontation or reconcillation. If you are the one doing the breakingup you don't want to deal with either. Yes it is pathetic.
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| 11/8/2007 10:10:59 PM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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mrjackcity
Huntingdon, TN
age: 57
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Its call pay back, and don't forget the devil loves it that way.
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| 11/13/2007 11:26:15 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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kyle04
Cuba, MO
age: 43
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I am in the same situation. I have been with this person for eight years. I want to end the relationship, but it is hard. I feel like I failed. The romance is gone, and I feel like we are strangers. How do I tell this person I am leaving.
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| 11/13/2007 11:30:39 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Please at least give her the common decencey of talking to her..There may be tears but, Certainly she deserves Honesty. Good Luck and guys plz....Don't just drop Women like a bad habit, If you've moved on or w/e Just say it!! Don't leave us wondering what happened. Not knowing is much harder to deal with than the truth.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 11/13/2007 11:39:10 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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me4aminute
Rutland, IA
age: 34
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Just my experience, but when I felt that way in my marriage I told my exhusband that I was not happy and that we needed to try to fix it. After a year of not fixing it I sat him down and told him that I thought it best that he move out and that we get divorced. It was hard and there were a lot of tears on both sides, but because we never lost communication with one another we are still great friends and are able to parent our daughter together. Not every break up has to have a fall out. There is such a thing as talking and figuring things out together. When you hide and don't talk is when there is a fall out. JMO
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| 11/13/2007 11:47:29 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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axlrose2502
White Pine, TN
age: 31
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i agree with me4amin i'm able to do that with my x
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| 11/13/2007 11:58:10 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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jodiee
New Albany, MS
age: 54
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Probably because the seriousness of the emotions involved. Some have invested their life, some not so much, but a lot of vulnerability is at stake. Again there are a lot of different personalitiy types, some just can't deal w/it. You think?
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| 11/13/2007 11:59:58 AM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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I talked untill I was blue in the face...and she didn't listen and I left
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| 11/13/2007 12:01:31 PM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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sumbeach763
Columbia, SC
age: 44
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I did all the time he just didnt listen......Oh well the story of me life.......
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| 11/13/2007 12:01:36 PM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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kyle04
Cuba, MO
age: 43
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I will just have to do it. It is fair to the person I am with. This person deserves to move on.
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| 11/13/2007 12:11:28 PM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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ruvain
Oroville, CA
age: 64
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I'm a trained Buddhist guidance consoler and have written a book called "How to Raise Your Life Condition" which will answer your dilemma. I can e-mail it to you, but be careful the first half will answer your questions but the second hale takes you direct to hell! This is done so you can experience, eliminate and replace every thing you'll feel and replace them with love and joy - if you have the heart and stomach for it.
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| 11/13/2007 12:12:43 PM |
Why can't people just communicate when they want to break up? |
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gonzohunter
Grand Haven, MI
age: 18
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can guys instant message girls and if so.. how?
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