11/6/2007 1:36:28 PM |
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goldangel
Hickory, NC
age: 55 online now!
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I think agent is right you are like me ,we no who we are and willing to stand up for ourself, you go girl
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11/6/2007 1:37:57 PM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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tru... Thanks...keep thinking about doing that...
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11/6/2007 1:40:58 PM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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gold... know who I am, but this feeling sucks!
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11/6/2007 1:43:54 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Just make the call. Trust me, either way that it goes, it will make you feel better than be miserable with doubts about his feelings.
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11/6/2007 1:49:22 PM |
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goldangel
Hickory, NC
age: 55 online now!
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Cottage I no it suck,I been there, but do we give up our belives and settle for less than what you desever and have less self repeck for ourselfs.my faith keep me in check.
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11/6/2007 2:00:15 PM |
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butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 58
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Trust me when I say I have been where you are and I did make that call and emailed a very detailed description as to what I was going though. The man felt that I was still too close to my late husband and that I needed more time. And he wasn't ready for the commitment thing either but we still keep the lines open. Just be honest and upfront with what you're needing and ask point blank what his views are on it. If he's a good of a man as you judged him, he'll be honest too.
Good luck
Marge
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11/6/2007 2:07:08 PM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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Copter... thank you... yes, knew I was in the "moving on place" because I was/am thinking about HIM... (instead. but not replaced)... and I guess he IS a stubborn old guy too!
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11/6/2007 2:08:30 PM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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marge... another "wise woman"
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11/6/2007 2:27:35 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54 online now!
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Sometimes people take actions with their brains, and not the heart. Cottage do what your heart is telling you to do, not your stubborness, nor your pride...
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11/6/2007 3:22:12 PM |
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sunnyjim1951
Nashville, TN
age: 56 online now!
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Hi. I'm pretty new here, but I've been reading and if I may, I would like to add a few thoughts of my own about how hard it is for a man, as well, at our ages to take that leap (if he's a decent guy to begin with and it sounded like your six-monther was). May I join in?
----damn, it's another dead conversation. I can never figure out the times in this place. Oh well, next time...
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11/6/2007 3:27:00 PM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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I'm here... listening
Just post your thoughts... we all go back and forth from thread to thread...then check back in.
[Edited 11/6/2007 3:28:36 PM]
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11/6/2007 3:50:54 PM |
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elfiegirl
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53 online now!
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Yeah...I'm with the others.....just call him...get it over with...
you will "cure" all those doubts.
Then you will know...
and as they say, "knowing is half the battle!"
Just do it!
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11/6/2007 4:20:16 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 54 online now!
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cottage call him!!
vixen? where did i miss those 'balls' the other day in the photo you sent with the cone pasties??? skeering me girl!!!!!!!!!!!!
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