| 3/16/2009 3:07:54 PM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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slowgin1
Perry, GA
age: 46
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thank you....
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| 3/16/2009 5:01:13 PM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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qinx_babyboomer
Houston, TX
age: 50
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We all know when the time comes, admitting it to ourselves and going through with it is the hard part...and in a lot of cases it's gonna hurt for a while. Been there, done that, felt it.
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| 3/16/2009 7:44:19 PM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
age: 38
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Yea, don't get me wrong it's hard and I still think about him, but I had to do it.. Many people don't want to say it cause they don't want to be alone... What sucks is sometimes your alone in a relationship anyways... My realization came in something as simple as me asking him to come see me. (what he was doing he did every weekend and well it's totally was not as important as I should have been... had I been in a true relationship) I finally realized just not seeing him that one day how much I was giving and how much he was just taking... Strange but he did ask what he did wrong, all I could say is the truth "I want 110% and I didn't want to be just a .... I wanted a real relationship and he doesn't so I can't deal with it, cause I'd be setting myself up to get hurt".... (no reply) Maybe he wanted to fill in time cause he was alone... I don't really know, don't care at this point but I'm thankful I was able to be aware and to stand back and see in just one week how much I was giving...(we talked a month prior) I also realized that I didn't deserve that cause I don't have to settle for less... There is someone who will care as much for me as I will them.. And that will be one lucky LUCKY guy... LOL..
Living and Learning... Don't ya just love it...
With happiness comes sadness (sometimes)
It all makes us stronger... Right..
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| 3/19/2009 11:21:41 AM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
age: 38
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It was kinda a bad day yesterday too much thinkin about it... So yes I miss him ... Last Night I got a text from him.. "Good Night...MyName..." weird but I smiled then I finally cried.. WTF .. I had no choice but to let him go cause if not I would end up heart broken. He has to make his own decision on what he wants, nothing I do can force him into it.. (And I wouldn't ever want to) For now I'm Keeping busy... Just talking to friends and trying to live... I was the one who ended this but don't mean I didn't or don't care... Now, I'm just checking out the forums No not dating cause I need to let go before I can move on..
PPL please let go of your past before you try and move on, you can't fully give yourself to another until you do. And if you try you may end up hurting someone who could have been the one...
Funny... me ... just trying to be strong...
Ahh... I'm still holding on...
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| 3/20/2009 6:32:58 PM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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inchesfromluv
Marion, IA
age: 30
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thank you!!! I love to repeat that to myself
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| 3/20/2009 7:09:59 PM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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sacredcascade
Riverview, MI
age: 40
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Just like the song by gladys knight [ neither one of us want's to be the
first to say good-bye ]
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| 3/20/2009 8:51:47 PM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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framgut
Jourdanton, TX
age: 33
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what if one wants to let go and the other does not.
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| 3/21/2009 8:46:56 AM |
Sometimes the end is there. You just have to say it. |
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bry11ca
Irving, TX
age: 44
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There is something to be said for perserverance, but against conflicts that are external and not internal. Without unity, there is no union.
Bry 
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