11/7/2007 3:06:33 PM |
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bree1980
Frankenmuth, MI
age: 27
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I was just wondering if it is a good idea for a couple to take a break from each other for a while. The guy that I have been with said that we need a break for a while and that he still wants to be with me but he wants to be single for a while. He says that he is not looking for anyone and that he will not forget me. I just need to give him so more time. I dont want to forget him cause I still think that we will be back together. He told me that he wants me to move on with my life but he also does not want me to meet anyone else either. he still wants to be friends and still talk to each other. i told him that i was not going to be put on the back burner and i dont want to be a around when it is convient for him. He said that it is not the case. I just dont know how to take it right now. He said that he still loves me and wants to be with me, and i told him that when he is ready then he can call me. Am I doing the right thing or preparing myself for another heartache.
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11/7/2007 3:08:43 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Bree, Being told to "move on" with your life is his way of telling you it's over...That's my take on it. good luck.
xoxoPeaches.
And, I just reread it...You said you told him you don't wanna be on the back burner but, You will wait for him to call you??......
[Edited 11/7/2007 3:09:44 PM]
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11/7/2007 3:11:01 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50
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I agree with Peaches... I'd move on in a heartbeat...and not let the door hit me in the butt on my way out... JMO
I just reread it too...LMAO
Can't have it both ways darlin'... either move on or wait... but don't play mind games with him if that's what you're doing.
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11/7/2007 3:11:44 PM |
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wv_dad
Martinsburg, WV
age: 38
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he might love you but hes not in love with you.
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11/7/2007 3:11:51 PM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38
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Bree, I wish the best for you, If u wait I hope u dont wait to long!Just keep in mind there's other guys out there who would go the distance,I'm sure! Good luck Mike
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11/7/2007 3:16:18 PM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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He is telling you in a nice way it's over
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11/7/2007 4:44:36 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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I dont believe in taking breaks personally. Either you are together and stay together to work out any problems or it is over. JMO.
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11/7/2007 4:47:33 PM |
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mountainskys
Crestline, CA
age: 39
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I want to take a break = I want to see others, just not you.
Sorry.
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11/7/2007 4:48:10 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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i wonder if there is another side to this coin
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11/7/2007 7:33:08 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Don't put your life on hold for anyone. Sounds like another player
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11/7/2007 7:36:41 PM |
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gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 48
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seems like nothing more to say most have said it great advice
Good luck in your search.
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11/7/2007 7:46:06 PM |
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lo_sue
El Paso, TX
age: 33
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Move on and forget about him Why should you wait on him
aren't men just sweet with words
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11/7/2007 8:19:14 PM |
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misty4u
Knoxville, TN
age: 53
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Dump him. You will never be able to marry him. You could never trust him. He wants to keep you hangin on so he can come back to you in between girlfriends, don't play that game. You deserve better than that. You told him the right thing. Stick with your intuition. You're smart girl....(HIM)
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11/8/2007 8:15:42 AM |
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neverlie
Saint Joe, AR
age: 51
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not enough details. Were you involved, for instance, because saying i want to be single suggests you were, in which case his comments aren't upright. Otherwise, is he a baby. how did he say it exactly.
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11/8/2007 8:25:44 AM |
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enahsforyou
Grain Valley, MO
age: 37
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Get your own fishing pole out and fish. You never know he may be caught again or not. DO NOT WAIT ON HIM TO RETURN There is a giant sea that awaits your hook ALSO. Be sure to use the wright bait so you don't catch a maybe fish again.
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