| 3/17/2009 3:59:14 PM |
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evilnymph0kitty
Huntsville, AL
age: 42
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Ok is it ok for someone who says they want to see u ok for them to still see other ppl ??
I dont believe so because how can u get to know this person if thiert spreading themselves to thin and seeing others u simply cant !!! I guess I am old fashioned and dont beleive in seeing others while tryin to see one and getting to know them its simply wrong and immoral in my opinion. Cause to me fi thier seeing others then thier wasting your time and u could have been with someone who wanted to see u and only u this aint a candy shop. I raised my 4 kids to have morals and standards on things like this u see only ONE person at a time and dont play games or lie about it
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| 3/17/2009 4:01:28 PM |
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noredneckhere
Knoxville, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Ok is it ok for someone who says they want to see u ok for them to still see other ppl ??
I dont believe so because how can u get to know this person if thiert spreading themselves to thin and seeing others u simply cant !!! I guess I am old fashioned and dont beleive in seeing others while tryin to see one and getting to know them its simply wrong and immoral in my opinion. Cause to me fi thier seeing others then thier wasting your time and u could have been with someone who wanted to see u and only u this aint a candy shop. I raised my 4 kids to have morals and standards on things like this u see only ONE person at a time and dont play games or lie about it
Boy, after that, you'll have a hard time convincing anyone you're a nympho kitty.
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| 3/17/2009 4:08:57 PM |
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lilmissala1957
Hartselle, AL
age: 53
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I have had alot of mixed ideas about this lately. I have always just seen one person at a time. When that didn't go anywhere then I moved on. I never believed in the casual dating thing. But lately I have enjoyed that idea. If I am to the point of having a sexual relationship with someone then no I would not want to see anyone else and would not want him seeing anyone else. I never have and never will believe in casual sex!
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| 3/17/2009 4:32:19 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 54
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I think it is perfectly acceptable to date mulitple people at the same time as long as you are honest about it and you are NOT in a serious ONE on ONE relationship....
In other words, if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, you should be true to them, but if you don't there is nothing wrong with playing the field! JMO
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| 3/17/2009 4:52:11 PM |
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ladyog
The Dalles, OR
age: 55
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I think seeing more than one person at a time to me is called Dating....
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| 3/17/2009 5:00:06 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 38
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The term I heard used for this is called
"Circular Dating"
You meet as many men as possible. This is not about
having sex with as many men as possible. Just meeting,
so that you'll have a better chance of truly meeting the one.
Having SEX is what ruins the term "dating".
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| 3/17/2009 5:03:18 PM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 41
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dont close all your doors to one person until its exclusive or u might end up losing out for yourself. once u r exclusive, then yes, u shud keep the doors closed. cuz too many times we gain hope on one person to fall out under our feet when we could have been testing the waters otherwise. u find out usually very quickly who u r attracted to and want to spend time w/and who is worth your time!
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| 3/17/2009 11:21:18 PM |
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hunter12gauge
Bellaire, OH
age: 48
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The term I heard used for this is called
"Circular Dating"
You meet as many men as possible. This is not about
having sex with as many men as possible. Just meeting,
so that you'll have a better chance of truly meeting the one.
Having SEX is what ruins the term "dating".
Well as it should,having "sex" with someone should indicate some type of commitment. In todays world of STD's sex should be reserved for the exclusivity of a committed relationship, ie boyfriend/girl friend...seeing each other "exclusively" anything else is just wh*reing around. JMHO Hunter12....
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| 3/18/2009 4:31:35 AM |
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noredneckhere
Knoxville, TN
age: 50 online now!
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The term I heard used for this is called
"Circular Dating"
You meet as many men as possible. This is not about
having sex with as many men as possible. Just meeting,
so that you'll have a better chance of truly meeting the one.
Having SEX is what ruins the term "dating".
PRUDES are what ruin the term "Having sex"
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| 3/18/2009 5:20:47 AM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 43
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Ok is it ok for someone who says they want to see u ok for them to still see other ppl ??
I dont believe so because how can u get to know this person if thiert spreading themselves to thin and seeing others u simply cant !!! I guess I am old fashioned and dont beleive in seeing others while tryin to see one and getting to know them its simply wrong and immoral in my opinion. Cause to me fi thier seeing others then thier wasting your time and u could have been with someone who wanted to see u and only u this aint a candy shop. I raised my 4 kids to have morals and standards on things like this u see only ONE person at a time and dont play games or lie about it
This was already answered in your other thread.
Unless you have made a commitment to each other then exclusivity does not apply. Make the commitment and then if he/she still dates others...end it and move on 
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| 3/18/2009 5:25:37 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 40
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as long as you are upfront about it you can see as many people as you want.
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| 3/18/2009 6:01:35 AM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 38
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PRUDES are what ruin the term "Having sex"
Ok Nored I will admit you pushed a button on me!
Just who do you think you are? You prefer the company
of prostitutes who will let any man BUY her!
Just because a woman likes to value her sexuality enough
to only want to be a slut for one man don't make her a freaking prude!
I'd bet $300 (the cost of one of your prostitute encounters)
that a woman in real love would do things for her man that she would never
do with another man. I hear tell that a prostitute won't even kiss you.
That each sexual request is an additional cost.
She watches the clock just counting the seconds till she can escape
being around you. I bet afterward she throws up in her mouth thinking
of you.
If only you were able to peek in the bedroom of a woman in love you'd
want to cut your heart out and hand it to her because you saw...
She willingly did every unspeakable act in such a sensual erotic way,
not only giving of herself from her heart but giving to her man
his true fantasy's of his heart.
Yeah a man like you will never know what it feels like to have a
woman desire him from her soul. You'll never be able to know what it
feels like when a woman has such a connection with a man that she
gives her entire essence to him.
You should change your name to Captain Dildo. Because that's all your
c*ck is, a dildo. Have a beer maybe you'll feel better about yourself.
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| 3/18/2009 6:10:02 AM |
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beverduster
Chandler, OK
age: 66
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do what you need to do. but always have a excape route
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| 3/18/2009 12:51:22 PM |
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chatte09
Linden, NJ
age: 51
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Ok Nored I will admit you pushed a button on me!
Just who do you think you are? You prefer the company
of prostitutes who will let any man BUY her!
Just because a woman likes to value her sexuality enough
to only want to be a slut for one man don't make her a freaking prude!
I'd bet $300 (the cost of one of your prostitute encounters)
that a woman in real love would do things for her man that she would never
do with another man. I hear tell that a prostitute won't even kiss you.
That each sexual request is an additional cost.
She watches the clock just counting the seconds till she can escape
being around you. I bet afterward she throws up in her mouth thinking
of you.
If only you were able to peek in the bedroom of a woman in love you'd
want to cut your heart out and hand it to her because you saw...
She willingly did every unspeakable act in such a sensual erotic way,
not only giving of herself from her heart but giving to her man
his true fantasy's of his heart.
Yeah a man like you will never know what it feels like to have a
woman desire him from her soul. You'll never be able to know what it
feels like when a woman has such a connection with a man that she
gives her entire essence to him.
You should change your name to Captain Dildo. Because that's all your
c*ck is, a dildo. Have a beer maybe you'll feel better about yourself.
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| 3/19/2009 3:10:31 PM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 46
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dont close all your doors to one person until its exclusive or u might end up losing out for yourself. once u r exclusive, then yes, u shud keep the doors closed. cuz too many times we gain hope on one person to fall out under our feet when we could have been testing the waters otherwise. u find out usually very quickly who u r attracted to and want to spend time w/and who is worth your time!
maryg2, great advice for sure. It doesn't take 2 billion emails to determine if you're attracted to someone, on the same page in the pertinent areas, etc. A one-hour lunch date can save a lot of time for both parties.
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| 3/19/2009 3:27:16 PM |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 91
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I think the part you are not comprehending fully is the "in my opinion" part. That's just it, in your opinion it is ok to do so, to others, it might be perfectly acceptable.
That's why you will repeatedly read on these forums, that nothing is exclusive until both parties agree to just that.
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| 3/19/2009 5:12:48 PM |
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nunbttr
Middletown, OH
age: 64
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Ok Nored I will admit you pushed a button on me!
Just who do you think you are? You prefer the company
of prostitutes who will let any man BUY her!
Just because a woman likes to value her sexuality enough
to only want to be a slut for one man don't make her a freaking prude!
I'd bet $300 (the cost of one of your prostitute encounters)
that a woman in real love would do things for her man that she would never
do with another man. I hear tell that a prostitute won't even kiss you.
That each sexual request is an additional cost.
She watches the clock just counting the seconds till she can escape
being around you. I bet afterward she throws up in her mouth thinking
of you.
If only you were able to peek in the bedroom of a woman in love you'd
want to cut your heart out and hand it to her because you saw...
She willingly did every unspeakable act in such a sensual erotic way,
not only giving of herself from her heart but giving to her man
his true fantasy's of his heart.
Yeah a man like you will never know what it feels like to have a
woman desire him from her soul. You'll never be able to know what it
feels like when a woman has such a connection with a man that she
gives her entire essence to him.
You should change your name to Captain Dildo. Because that's all your
c*ck is, a dildo. Have a beer maybe you'll feel better about yourself.
He hasn't paid $300.00 in his life. OK, maybe 12 $25.00 one's. 
On topic: It's simple. If that's the way you feel, don't do it, or allow him to do it. If you're OK with it, then you wouldn't have started this thread. Now, it's up to you. Your move.........
[Edited 3/19/2009 5:17:57 PM ]
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