11/8/2007 8:23:09 AM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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LETS GET OUR GUT FEELINGS OUT HERE................. >>>>>>
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11/8/2007 8:27:32 AM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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LETS NOT BE SHY HERE........... >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
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11/8/2007 8:31:46 AM |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 34
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hello sunny well we all have baggage to some degree, after all we are only human but i guess it all depends on the situation and what type of baggage it is... jmo
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11/8/2007 8:33:13 AM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
age: 27
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u posting this ought to tell u something
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11/8/2007 8:36:00 AM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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hi.....i see you are hanging in there... .. you are right...we all have our tolerances............... it is true.... i have some baggage too....
but i think it is best to work.....these things out BEFORE.... we get involved with someone....its ONLY fair....
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11/8/2007 8:38:03 AM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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I have gotten rid of all mine - and if any is left it's way way in the back of the closet where it stays. I prefer to only bring out the kind of baggage you need if you're going on a trip!!!!!
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11/8/2007 8:43:23 AM |
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anniebrown57
Warrington, PA
age: 50
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You cant go on your next trip till you empty your bag out from previous trip.
If you dont there will be no room in your bag for what comes with new adventure.
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11/8/2007 8:47:29 AM |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 34
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i know what ur saying sunny but as long as the person is up front about what the baggage is in the begining then then u could both go from there... like i said we have some baggage that will never go away so its up to u to decide weather u can handle it or not. the best advice i can give is to try the PROS AND CONS THING... GOOD LUCK SWEETIE I WISH U THE BEST      
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11/8/2007 8:49:58 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50 online now!
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very well said annie....
Depends on what the baggage is...If it something we can work thru together and get it out of the way that's ok let's do it. But if it's the kind that don't go away or continues to multiply and grow....I would have issues with that.
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11/8/2007 8:52:52 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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Baggage has handles, let go or rip the handles out............
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11/8/2007 8:56:41 AM |
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anniebrown57
Warrington, PA
age: 50
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I can think of something else to rip out.
Can you sat MRS. BOBIT!
Just kidding
Kitten thats why we need to empty the baggage between trips so it doesn't grow and multiply.
Its not the new persons fault the thing that previously happened.
And you must get past them before moving on
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11/8/2007 9:01:12 AM |
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saberian
Austin, TX
age: 35
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Hmm, baggage. I agree that everyone has some. Baggage that makes us who we are for the good or bad. All I can say is that if you meet someone, you have to accept them for everything if you want the relationship to work. Granted you don't have to like it all, but to accept it is another thing. Some people take more time then other to heal from the past. As long as they have healed themselves from it to where it does not affect the general outcome of the relationship then it is a learning experience. Life is full of them, and people will always have parts of their past that haunt them.
If someone brings their baggage with them to another relationship, then they are looking for help to release them of that baggage. If you can help them, great! If you cannot help them, then it was a learning experience for the most part and hopefully they will find someone who can help them with that task. If you don't want to help them, then you might not have much luck wise with finding that significant other. Like people have said here, everyone has baggage, and a relationship is about give and take. Helping one to make themselves a better person. A good person. Even you probably have some baggage. So you see, it goes both ways. We all have those things in life that define who we are, and weather or not you are willing to accept that is up to you. So you must make that choice before pursuing any woman, knowing that there will be baggage, but can you handle the baggage is the real question my friend?
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11/8/2007 9:02:59 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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HA, Ha, ha.......Annie, just keep pullin' a vacuum knowin' it'll come out sooner or later!
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11/8/2007 9:10:27 AM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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Don't need the extra baggage, Thank you anyway, I say when starting a new realtionship, make the first day you meet be the first day of the rest of your life, don't tell whats not asked and start a new. Leave the extra baggage in the past where it belongs. 
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11/8/2007 9:20:59 AM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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i think most people,,,do not say too much when they first meet,re: their past....and really there is no need too...but i think very soon after that ...everyone needs to SPILL THE BEANS.. ..(IF) the baggage c/not go away... i.e., extreme hurt someone has from a privious marriage ,,,,
sometimes with professional help....a person is not ready. ..for a long time to give of herself..... an the only thing left is DAMAGE CONTROL...
I strongly believe those type of people...need to stay out of the dating circle,,,until they are HEALED....ONE WAY OR ANOTHER......
AGREE..........?? 
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