| 4/2/2009 8:16:09 AM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN LIKES BOTH THAT THE BLACK MAN HAS NO PROBLEM BUT A WHITE MAN DOES. THERE ALL THE SAME TO ME, WHAT IS THE DIFFRENCE? 
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| 4/2/2009 8:45:39 AM |
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devotedromance
Clinton Township, MI
age: 41
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well from what i have always been told and i do not know this for sure but supposedly they are bigger in that area of a relationship and from what a few friends tell me the woman always says my black boyfriend is better than you so in away your competeling with someone that by all rumers they are the best.. so goes the saying once you go black you never go back...
JMO i know this will bring out a discussion here but all i am able to offer is what i have been told from my friends experiences.. but this info is like 15-20 years old..
like I said
JMHO
I have no problem with it but i have not experienced it yet..
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| 4/2/2009 9:40:34 AM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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Its not that a black man thing is bigger cuz they all come in diff. shapes and sizes. And how many black men has your friend been with cuz if it is only one then she got lucky with that cuz its not true that all black men have big ones.
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| 4/2/2009 9:44:41 AM |
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pc200
Hamlin, NY
age: 40
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I kinda believe it has to do with wht men feeling inferior in the PACKAGE depatment!
Sterotype is blk men are well endowed and wht men are insecure about this.Other than
that I can't think of a good reason other than them just being Prejudice!
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| 4/2/2009 11:39:19 AM |
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talllightskin64
Royal Oak, MI
age: 29
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Just the same thing with black females. they think white females TAKE there men same thing with WHITE men they think BLACK men that there woman.and the truth is,you like who u like but,but you tend to fall in love with the person who treats you better or even who you are attracted to.
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| 4/2/2009 11:56:34 AM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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its not his and her we are talking about ppl that have no brains in there heads cuz the last time i checked we belong to that one thing 
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| 4/2/2009 3:35:56 PM |
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justawench
Troy, MI
age: 36
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the only men who even ask that question are either racist or kinky and turned on by the idea.
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| 4/2/2009 4:55:20 PM |
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kpm1957
Waterford, MI
age: 52
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| 4/2/2009 7:14:49 PM |
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cbigbuck
Commerce Township, MI
age: 43
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Your kidding 
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| 4/2/2009 7:19:01 PM |
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kpm1957
Waterford, MI
age: 52
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Your kidding
You Talkin to me??
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| 4/3/2009 12:47:35 AM |
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talllightskin64
Royal Oak, MI
age: 29
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IF UR a white woman and u have not tried a black man then maybe u should !! if u have not then maybe u should keep ur coments to ur self.!!
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| 4/3/2009 6:15:30 AM |
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mahjong_2009
Harrison, MI
age: 55
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| 4/3/2009 12:05:52 PM |
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justawench
Troy, MI
age: 36
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just a thought but I am sure there are many people who don't need to "try it" in order to realize that its not worth the trouble that it brings. there are enough reasons for a couple to break up without adding the drama of family, friends and co-workers who don't approve. I say to each their own but its not for me.
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| 4/3/2009 8:08:31 PM |
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luvsum1
Southfield, MI
age: 52
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Just to put my two cents in, I've been with both; there's no difference in size, drama or anything else. 
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| 4/4/2009 12:29:29 AM |
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talllightskin64
Royal Oak, MI
age: 29
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just a thought but I am sure there are many people who don't need to "try it" in order to realize that its not worth the trouble that it brings. there are enough reasons for a couple to break up without adding the drama of family, friends and co-workers who don't approve. I say to each their own but its not for me.
worth the trouble? ware do trouble come in at?
i and understand the family part...but who cares what ur friends think?!?!?
you should think about what your saying before u say things because you didnt think with that comment.and REALY WHO CARES ABOUT WHAT UR CO-WORKERS THING UR NOT DATEING THEM.
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| 4/4/2009 3:09:14 AM |
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justawench
Troy, MI
age: 36
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no I thought that through quite well.. I work in detroit I have seen how the women treat a white girl with one one "their men".. I wouldnt be happy working when everyone is mean. I have seen the way complete strangers treat mixed couples and known girls who could not bring their boyfriend to family functions and vice versa so yes for me thats too much trouble. and before you ask no my family is not like that 3 of my cousins are in mixed relationships.
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| 4/4/2009 8:24:38 AM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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where not talking about your cuz where talking about you... who realy cares what ppl that you dont know says... how manytimes will you realy see that person in your life time. Come on now think with your brain and not with what you see. "THIER MEN" no a black man dont belong to them they belong to there mother's and the last time i checked they where FREE to date whom every they want. I would care what a black woman thought if she seen me with a balck man 
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| 4/5/2009 3:13:02 PM |
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talllightskin64
Royal Oak, MI
age: 29
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no I thought that through quite well.. I work in detroit I have seen how the women treat a white girl with one one "their men".. I wouldnt be happy working when everyone is mean. I have seen the way complete strangers treat mixed couples and known girls who could not bring their boyfriend to family functions and vice versa so yes for me thats too much trouble. and before you ask no my family is not like that 3 of my cousins are in mixed relationships.
U WORKING in detroit don't make it right for u to say that dating outside your race is trouble.and just because you have cousins they date outside there race still dont give u that right.u seem to be the type of person who say there not a races.but know how many black people u have had in ur house! IF U CAN COUNT HOW MANY BLACK PEOPLE U HAD IN UR HOUSE GUESS WHAT UR A RACES! IF U CAN COUNT HOW MANY COUSINS U HAVE THAT DATE OUT SIDE THERE RACE GUESS WHAT UR A UNDERCOVER RACES!!!!!!
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| 4/5/2009 3:31:51 PM |
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justawench
Troy, MI
age: 36
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I thought this was a discussion. I appologize for offering my opinions and experiences when they were not wanted. I will state that I would not consider dating anyone who did not have a full grasp on the english language.. so it does tend to eliminate people of all colors.
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| 4/5/2009 3:48:42 PM |
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777lavender
Prudenville, MI
age: 37
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who cares, color shouldnt be a issue!
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| 4/5/2009 5:55:28 PM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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I thought this was a discussion. I appologize for offering my opinions and experiences when they were not wanted. I will state that I would not consider dating anyone who did not have a full grasp on the english language.. so it does tend to eliminate people of all colors.
Experiences are some thing that you have gone threw not your cuz or people that you work with. And we are not talking about the english language what do you do just type sh*t to try to make your self seem smart more like a smart azzz
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| 4/5/2009 6:32:04 PM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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dont be a tool
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| 4/5/2009 7:03:43 PM |
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stayawaylames
Canton, MI
age: 34
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they're racist and insecure
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| 4/5/2009 7:24:47 PM |
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lilac48604
Saginaw, MI
age: 34
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I guess my question is: Is it just between black & white or do you date other races as well? Personally, I've dated across the racial spectrum. I don't believe in judging people by things that cannot be changed.
As far as guys who have issues with women that date outside their race, I think it's more of an insecurity within them. They probably don't understand other races hence their issues. That's just my theory.
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| 4/5/2009 9:54:05 PM |
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talllightskin64
Royal Oak, MI
age: 29
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As far as guys who have issues with women that date outside their race, I think it's more of an insecurity within them. They probably don't understand other races hence their issues. That's just my theory.
Right on.......... 
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| 4/6/2009 8:36:57 AM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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you cant change where a person comes from but loving some one is loving there soul and not the color of there skin   
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| 4/8/2009 8:34:13 PM |
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limons1
Flint, MI
age: 42
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shouldn,t care what people think as long as you like the person people are always so ready to judge someone else so go with the flow and do your own thing have fun with it you only live once.
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| 4/9/2009 6:06:36 AM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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at that about the truth
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| 4/9/2009 7:26:02 AM |
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mahjong_2009
Harrison, MI
age: 55
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I wonder if Blind people have this
problem? Color can be a issue if you
make it one.
If you don't have such a clear picture
of what you want,you may become more
humble.
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| 4/9/2009 10:59:05 AM |
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sassy28mama
Lennon, MI
age: 29
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I think in this day and age that it should be up to the individules and who cares what people think...It is just color but if you think about it we are all differnt heritages now..I am german but does that make me differnt from the irishman. Or a mexican and a european..How about a japanesse woman and a chinese man...We are all dating and marring outside our races..some of us white folks can not even tell what are heritage is any more by are last names or our looks...african americans and caucasions should not be treated any different.
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| 4/12/2009 2:56:50 AM |
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msladyboss
Madison Heights, MI
age: 32
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only if all people would look at it like that the world would be a happier place.........
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| 4/12/2009 3:46:29 AM |
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disavowed32
Oxford, MI
age: 28
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It should all be about personal preference. But it can just be about hereditary features that some people find attractive/unattractive in a certain race. Just like some men prefer Asian women.
As for the part about getting badmouthed just walking down the street for dating outside your race. Simple solution: Figure out a way to move somewhere that it's more socially acceptable. That's what I'd do. I wouldn't let them prevent me from love, and if that meant moving 1000 miles to be with the person I love, I'd figure out a way to make it happen.
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| 4/12/2009 4:01:07 AM |
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berrycirrus22
Utica, MI
age: 23 online now!
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People are going to judge others about anything. From what I've observed and learned, others judge simply because they don't agree with what someone else is doing. As long as your happy and your significant other is happy too, then who cares what the rest of the world thinks. Everyone has their opinions but don't let them ruin your happiness or cause you to pass something up.
[Edited 4/12/2009 4:01:33 AM PST]
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