I like sexy men of various ages who are enthusiastic, fit, spontaneous and have good manners in public. The common denominator is that they...excuse my slang...got some game. They don't whine and fuss about women, or act like Church Lady, they pretty much have to beat women off with sticks - those kind of guys.

You need to move closer to me goodgato.

Older women:
Easy target for money
Easy lay most of time
Wants a mommy figure
need more? JMO

When I was in my teens and twentys I liked older women because there was usually no strings attached we both knew what we were after and a good time both in and out of bed were had by us. The fact that she had a nice place her own money and looked good went a long way with a male than lived at home or with 3 other people.
Now that I'm older I find both younger and older women attractive I'm just a lot more picky about who I'll share with. Age is just a number dont know why a male at 60 can date a 30 year old and its OK but when a girl 50 dates a 30 year old shes a wh*re, kinda a double standard dont you think. The other side of the coin is when a woman my age doesnt think about giving a male her own age a chance because shes got 20 year old d--ks with a body attached chaseing them, that gets old in a hurry. If its all about good sex then hey its all about good sex, just be honest and learn that good things come in a wide variety of packages. If your after the package say so. Just remember your package is getting a little freezer burn to.

The reason there's no stigma to an older man dating a younger woman is because he's more or less leased her. Younger guys enthusiastically come to older women of their own volition without having expensive trinkets thrown at them. They know they'll be treated well.

The reason there's no stigma to an older man dating a younger woman is because he's more or less leased her. Younger guys enthusiastically come to older women of their own volition without having expensive trinkets thrown at them. They know they'll be treated well.

Quote from drummaster777:"]LOL...dude, women who are true cougars are pretty proud of the fact that they are cougars. It's not distasteful. It just means they are ready to prey on a young, hot guy....sexually. Most young guys I know absolutely would not have a problem with it if someone nice-looking 40+ female wanted to prey on them. Prey away."

i think you maybe talking about the sex bit, where i was more focusing on what may or may not be going on emotionally/mentally.

the positive conintation you seem to be referencing to the term 'cougar' is not the definition i had been assuming, but hey, each to their own hearts desire. 8)

the OP had wondered what was the thought process, from a young mans perspective, that accompanied the attraction and desire for an old woman. as i, myself, am not attracted to older women, i offered the reasoning and behavior observed from my social circle, which did not strike me as healthy or positive. what you are saying, seems to be entirely the opposite, so this issue seems to be chalked up to individual perspective and tastes.

8)

Younger Guy Lesson #2: Observe, grasshoppas, how the clown-man who thinks he is a sage is not. For he is now filled with rage, indignation, bitterness, and yes, years of unreleased swimmahs who are now like roid-rage UFC cage fighters on meth in his rapidly diminishing jewels of manhood. He must call upon like-minded "sages" who espouse wisdom but sadly have no self-control. Grasshoppas, if these sages had self-control, they would have paid attention to their Sensei in the classroom and learned to construct pithy sentences in their native languages. Today's mantra: "Without Self-Control, A Man Ceases To Be A Man" Ahh so.

Younger guys know they're going to be treated like kings. It's a fact. Of course they'll have dinner cooked for them; some of us even have culinary school under our belt to make it extra-special. They also know that they've met their match energy-wise in bed, and that's just a simple win-win scenario. Their non-jaded enthusiasm brings out the best in us, and we shower them with that good energy in return. What's not to enjoy?

maybe if younger women gave men their age more "shots" younger men wouldnt have to chase older desperate women??

Whatta load of shit; so you'll treat these young men like Kings, even cook for them, but not give a guy your age the same shot?

a male poster stated that older women like me are "desperate" and that's why they "prey" after younger guys. i can't speak for any other woman, but as far as i'm concerned, i am not "desperate" at all, nor do i "prey" on younger guys. they are the ones "preying" on me! there was only one time that i seriously pursued a younger guy, and we're now good friends and are still very much attracted to each other in every way.

this is why i dislike the term "cougar" so much; because that word encourages and continues the misconception that older women are "chasing" after younger men, as if the younger men are helpless creatures that don't know how to think or make decisions for themselves.

this is why i dislike the term "cougar" so much; because that word encourages and continues the misconception that older women are "chasing" after younger men, as if the younger men are helpless creatures that don't know how to think or make decisions for themselves.

Hey sweet If you would like to meet some older guy thats might be the kind you like why do you have your profile blocked over 40yrs old ??????

It's nice to be at an age where you know exactly what you want, from whom, and how you want it. It's very pleasant when attractive young men approach you and there's a good energy from both parties. Everybody wins! No suffocating long-term commitments and zero headaches make it even better.