What is puritanical guilt? Does it hurt?

<--------Likes being 40

When I was younger, I went after older women because they were a SURE FIRE good time. That was in the 80s and 90s, and for some reason, older women now probably wouldn't be much fun for these poor younger fellas. Not sure what happened, but a new wave of puritanical guilt must have hit the shore. I pity these kids. Nothing like being 21 years old and having an experienced 40 year old screw your ears off.

JMO,But why would you want someone thats old enough to be your childIm sorry but as far as the sex goes I have a cousin that is seeing a 65 yr old.She tell's they have a ball in the room.O and she is 42.So I really would like to know why an older women want someone that young

I'm about to play Devil's advocate here...

As a female who was "hunted" by much older men when I was young
I can now look back and say my experience is this...

Those men who "wanted" me at my tender age needed me to be young
enough to not have the wisdom to see that they were so screwed up
that women their own age knew better than to waste their time with
them. They needed me to fill their low self esteem and boyish manhood
by being arm candy. Most of the time they were more immature than
myself and certainly emotionally unavailable damaged goods.

Now as a woman who is suddenly finding younger men drool over me
I have to say I feel a little creep-ed out. I have no desire to take
a boy and "contaminate" his sexuality or prey on him for his youth.
I would really feel guilt and shame for using a young man like that.
I just don't see human beings as toys to played with and then tossed
aside like a worn out GI Joe doll.

Oh and as a mother, if any of you "cougars" tried to use one of my sons
I'd rip every hair in your head out. I'll be sure to warn my boys about
worn out wh*res and encourage them to find a smart hardworking girl
their own age to enjoy life with.

The men who actually date Cougars know that their bodies are toned and fit...the exact opposite of your puffy clown a** jokers. Your No, you can't beat years of experience clown, just what you've been beating for probably the last several years clown.

Younger guys: take note of what happens when you act like a dork and then don't get laid for years. Your I would sooner sew it shut clown and then enter a nunnery full of women who look just like yo mama clown.

hey clown you should give her some you both live in the same area!!!!

Younger Guy Lesson #2: Observe, grasshoppas, how the clown-man who thinks he is a sage is not. For he is now filled with rage, indignation, bitterness, and yes, years of unreleased swimmahs who are now like roid-rage UFC cage fighters on meth in his rapidly diminishing jewels of manhood. He must call upon like-minded "sages" who espouse wisdom but sadly have no self-control. Grasshoppas, if these sages had self-control, they would have paid attention to their Sensei in the classroom and learned to construct pithy sentences in their native languages. Today's mantra: "Without Self-Control, A Man Ceases To Be A Man" Ahh so.

Younger Guy Lesson #3: Be still, grasshoppas, and hear the words of the sad clown-man who has yet far to travel in his journey on The Way. Observe carefully the histrionic display of the sad clown-man who has allowed the (PMS) feminine side of his duality to invade the male side. Light and dark, yin and yang, the sad clown-man has lost his balance and footing on his precarious path to The Way. We must learn from this lost soul who must invoke the imagery of his elder cousin Yoda (from whom the sad clown-man descended) and strive to be stronger and yet flexible in our thinking.

When confronted with difficulty, those who follow The Way respond with modesty and conform to the situation. They examine the situation and carefully undo it, much as the young grasshoppa might bend down to untie a knot in his shoelace. We must bow and bend to find guidance...even in the most unlikely places...thank you, sad clown-man.

Younger Guy Lesson #4 - Gather 'round, gorgeous grasshoppas, and think about lukus-san's response. The light of the soul is bright, but dense (some more than others) clouds of human ignorance obscure it. Do you think lukus-san is manifesting The Way in his thinking? Be still, adorably buff grasshoppas, and see how ignorance can be compounded, made denser, until the light of a man's spirit is smothered...and this is what remains. Let us acknowledge the precious quality of everyday things and maintain our gratitude for both the good (purr) and the bad (i.e., lukus-san) in our lives. Ahh so.

A man ages 22 to 45 i guess you like banging boys too thats what is in your profile..SHAME ON YOU!!GOODGATO!!!

I'm speaking for myself and 80% of the guys I know in new york. It's simple. Older women are just plain sexy. I think a few Key words like, Mature, grounded, Experienced, might play fair game in it, but it's the whole been there done that bullshit, attitude that gets me. In fact, me and the rest of my band tend to kick back with the more "mature" women after a show, its not just about the sex, it's the company and the energy of it all.