11/14/2007 8:16:29 AM |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 37
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someone has issues
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11/14/2007 8:17:39 AM |
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repochick
Rosemount, MN
age: 29 online now!
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Actually Photo I something similar happen to me....I just looked at it like this....You win some, you lose some...And I am still friends with the guy...Just showed me a lil more about the kind of person he was....
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11/14/2007 8:18:49 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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i guess if by issues you mean online dating has made me jaded then yeah i do kitty.
and repo, i wouldnt be friends with anyone that betrayed me, i have no use for that sort of person.
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11/14/2007 8:20:43 AM |
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repochick
Rosemount, MN
age: 29 online now!
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Well I look at it this way....It is hurting anything to have more online friends....It doesnt look like I will ever meet him in person so he's just another someone to chat with online...There's no harm in that....
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11/14/2007 8:22:53 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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online friends is like owning a timeshare. sounds nice, but worthless
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11/14/2007 8:26:20 AM |
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kellyleed
Sumter, SC
age: 34 online now!
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Ok maybe this will make me look less evil. I have been chatting with a guy for the past three months that lives about 68 miles from me, we have a tenative date to meet on the 24 of this month. I refuse to chat with "romantic" intentions with anyone else on this site until I see where the relationship with him goes because I am aware that feelings are involved and I don't want mine or his hurt.
Does that mean that I can't chat on the forums or to other people on this site if my intentions at the moment is to only be friends? I have only contacted one other person on this site personally and my first email stated that we were to far away to meet but that I thought he sounded like a great guy.
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11/14/2007 8:27:48 AM |
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repochick
Rosemount, MN
age: 29 online now!
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And thats your opinion Photo....I dont see where its hurting anything to talk to people...
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11/14/2007 8:32:21 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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kelly, chatting is ok, as long as u dont meet them or ditch the first guy for them. i guess to me it feels like u are hedging your bets
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11/14/2007 8:40:04 AM |
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kellyleed
Sumter, SC
age: 34 online now!
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photo
Does this mean I'm off the hook now? 
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11/14/2007 8:41:11 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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it all comes down to loyalty and honesty. dont lead anyone on and you will do fine.
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11/14/2007 8:48:43 AM |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 37
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i just dont let people i dont really know hurt me......i have real people in my life that love and respect me.......its easy to get jaded...if you let hem hurt you.....need a hug....
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11/14/2007 1:53:39 PM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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photo...I understand what you're saying. If the feelings were there, a meet hadn't been made yet, then to have some one say..."Oh, yeah...found someone 6 miles away...sorry." I'd be hurt, online or not, get close to someone and it's not going to work due to nothing you did...just miles. Because the first persons feelings haven't changed.
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11/14/2007 2:04:14 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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why would we have to choose?are ya marrying one? i really don't see the problem.the need to choose only comes ito play if you are becoming relationed.then be honest with the other.do not set expectations.at this point of meeting one or the other,you are just feeling it out.upfront and honest is key.
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11/14/2007 2:18:13 PM |
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professional2
Boston, MA
age: 42
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If they are on this site then they already know or will eventually find out through your posting.
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11/14/2007 2:30:33 PM |
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 18
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photo, how do u go about it when u meet and date offline? do u date concurrently or consecutively? do u date one person and keep dating her only until u click or call it off and then meet another? or do u date several in ur search for ur true love?
when i say "date" i only mean go out with or spend time with, i don't mean sleeping with a bunch of girls at the same time.
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