11/16/2007 12:23:37 AM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50
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Being alone is hard... especially like during the holidays... it will be interesting to see how many are on here on Christmas day.. I more than likely will be. I guess I miss the companionship more than anything...except not having someone to cuddle with at night. Takes a lot of adjustment and its no fun either. A lot of people say that we'll find the one meant for us...but sometimes I actually wonder if that's not just something we tell ourselves to cope with the loneliness better??? I hope everyone on here finds what they're looking for.
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11/16/2007 3:11:14 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50 online now!
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Now I know why I did put up with so much crap...it was to keep from feeling like this...You know they say you can't miss what you never had. But dammit I have had it and I miss the hell out of having a special man in my life. I'd settle for some serious LIKE. And yeah I'll be here Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and on thru to Super Bowl Sunday probably....I'll be breakin out my Grinch movie pretty soon...Maybe he will kick Rudolph's butt this year...LOL
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11/16/2007 7:45:57 AM |
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lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 41
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I know the feeling of this thread all too well. You reach 40 and you're still alone and start thinking, "My God, is this all there is?" Life is going to work and doing the laundry? It's a horrible feeling and, as some of you have said, it is magnified around the holidays. I HATE THIS TIME OF YEAR!!
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11/16/2007 7:52:27 AM |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 63
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You should try being in your 60s and living in Montana in the middle of no where. NOT FUN That's why I am in Florida for the winter, but still alone.
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11/16/2007 7:52:33 AM |
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tothfaree
Biloxi, MS
age: 60 online now!
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Remember the song "It's Hard To Be Humble" ??? I've learned to enjoy my own company after all these years.. I'm not perfect in everyway but I sure do enjoy my own interest and I'm not going to make me mad... but I do have fun...just going out and playing .. Hang In there ya'll .. It does get better ..
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11/16/2007 10:45:12 AM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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Just glad I have my happy dogs to come home to.....someone to let me know that they missed me and are genuinly happy that I am back......they make it worth while....Hey...I take what I can get.
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11/16/2007 10:54:54 AM |
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texas09
Lubbock, TX
age: 41
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I guess im still blesed by having family around the house...
Even though its not the same human touch I long for, It is enough to get me by for now...
I dont like to complain about what I dont have, but like to express my happiness for what I do have!
Each day I release all of my negativity in my prayers to God, then I sleep well and the next day starts out so well!
Trev
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11/16/2007 11:03:53 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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I'm not going to complain about what I don't have anymore. (well, awhile at least). I'm Continued to be reminded what ever time we have here is precious and not guaranteed. Live it, Grab the first person you can and hugg the hell out of them!
xoxoPeaches.
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11/16/2007 11:07:09 AM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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well I have my daughter and the cat - but someone is missing 
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11/16/2007 11:18:26 AM |
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bountyman
Carthage, MO
age: 47 online now!
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GIRLS DONT WORRY: You can all pack your your bags and come over and spend a few weeks with bounty We'll hit the town drink some beers and I'll fix you up with some of my buddies. I'd deliver ,but i cant leave town(the jails would get too full    
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11/16/2007 11:44:06 AM |
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elfiegirl
Venice, FL
age: 53
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Try this...
My eldest who is currently living in Orlando with
her hubby & my granddaughter, are leaving for good
to live in Arizona with my youngest and her family,
this coming Dec 20th...how sad is that???
At least I have you people and my roommie, but he will
probably be working. I never decorate anymore! Maybe
I should, just for kicks. I know I will be spending more
time on the phone at nights after my daughter moves.
I wish I had a big place to "house" some Florida people,
as we could all have a big dinner together! Oh well!
I like to read alot and I enjoy my own company...I only get
lonely thinking about my family.
Happy Birthday "trucker" lady!!!
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11/16/2007 1:02:34 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50
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Well last year with my son being in Afghanistan I was faced with being alone on Christmas day so I called up a few friends to see what they were doing...as it turned out about 4 of them were going to be alone too...so I invited them all here and cooked Christmas dinner for them and we had a great time...Not sure what I'll do this year.
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11/16/2007 1:38:29 PM |
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wicawic
Carnegie, PA
age: 26
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did someone say alone....holidays suck when there is no one to share it with
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11/16/2007 1:52:10 PM |
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steveredman
Spotswood, NJ
age: 37
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I am in the middle of getting divorced. If I think about it I have been alone for a long time even though I was married for 7 years. You can be alone and married at the same time, that is worse. It scared me to be single during the holidays.
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11/16/2007 1:56:46 PM |
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ericr64
Mount Pleasant, MI
age: 43 online now!
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I just want my kids to move out...then I can get lonely and motivated. Hard to be lonely with all the drama around here.
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