| 11/25/2007 5:16:40 AM |
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bikerdude41965
Saint Louis, MO
age: 42
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Well being alone for the holidays does suck but try driving a truck over the road ur alone every day but the holidays r the worst.I don't care what other ppl think anymore tired of trying to please everyboby else when in fact the only one that does matter is ur self.If u aint happy with ur life then how can u make anybody else happy.
I know that being lonely hurts all too well but i have learned to live with it.i am trying to get my life back in order first, before i get someone else envolved.i miss the hugs and snuggling but it aint worth making anyone else unhappy to make ur self happy. if this makes any sense to anyone tried to explain it the best i could.
And also god does have a plan for everyone just have to be patient.True love well come to u when the time is right and when u least expect it to.I am a believer in that.
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| 11/25/2007 5:29:20 AM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Bravo Biker...you said it all very well..hope people listen
With an attitude like that you WILL find someone when your ready.
[Edited 11/25/2007 5:30:00 AM]
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| 11/25/2007 5:39:27 AM |
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bossman777
Galivants Ferry, SC
age: 50
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meet them, have a shower, screw them and leave. any questions wonderturtle? no one to come home to!!!!!!!!
bossman777
[Edited 11/25/2007 5:41:12 AM]
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| 11/25/2007 5:41:40 AM |
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morneblade
Fall River, MA
age: 50
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Hey Boss...
how are you and Ms. Dreamer doing???
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| 11/25/2007 5:42:24 AM |
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sandbagger2u
Longmeadow, MA
age: 61
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Girls you're not alone. Stop nagging... I'll be right in
after the game. Bring me a beer will you
Did you finish mowing the lawn?
If Mickey calls tell him we have a 2:30 tee time
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| 11/25/2007 5:59:53 AM |
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angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 35
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this is the hardest part of the year for me, im a touchy, feeling, holding hands kinda person so when the holidays come its extra hard....
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| 11/25/2007 7:19:32 AM |
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1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 54
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angel
you are a touchy feely kind of person and what you don't realise is that you touch alot of people even when you aren't there in person. your smile brightens our day your kindness and gentleness softens our heart
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| 11/25/2007 8:06:11 AM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50 online now!
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I have been alone for quiet sometime now and it's no fun. And I know the Holidays are the pits without a special man. It gets hard to take sometimes but life goes on. I've done a couple things in the past that have helped me sneak through the holidays all intact and I'll share them with you here....
First, I have found it so helpful to try and focus on what I do have in life that brings me joy...and pour myself into those people and things...sure keeps my mind off of NOT having a man...
and secondly, last Christmas I wasn't able to be with either of my 2 kids on Christmas day because my son was in Afghanistan and my daughter was at her in-laws...sooooooooo
I called a few close friends that didn't have plans for Christmas and invited them to my house. I had 4 out of the 7 show up. I cooked Christmas dinner for us all and we sat around and talked and watched all the Christmas shows on TV, "Little Drummer Boy" being one of my favorite...and as it turned out 2 was here for Christmas Eve and didn't leave till the day after Christmas....It was WONDERFUL... the time flew and we had a really great time and I so enjoyed having the company. We laughed and told funny stories and it was awesome!!!
So if you find you're going to be alone for Christmas...call some friends...I bet some of them are going to be alone too...open your door and your heart and you might be surprised to find what a wonderful time you can have without a man.
Lots of love to all of you........Heather
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| 11/25/2007 8:51:16 AM |
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historybuff
Waterville, ME
age: 42
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Hey Cherry, i hear ya loud and clear, i feel the same way. I guess thats why i struggle with the holidays like i do, no one there to share them with. By the way, thanks again for the email! 
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| 11/25/2007 8:53:11 AM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Cherry more good ideas..I did that and it really helped
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| 11/25/2007 8:57:38 AM |
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bossman777
Galivants Ferry, SC
age: 50
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morneblde, we are doing wonderful. this fairytale is getting better everday. thanks for asking and top of the day to you and yours......... bossman @ dreama
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| 11/25/2007 9:05:05 AM |
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malicai
Edmonton, AB
age: 32
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it's sad, but some people were just never meant to be happy. I am one of those people(no relationship ever lasts long, and seemly, the happier I am in a relationship, the more likely it is to fail)
Just be glad you are who you are, and enjoy yourself. Once u get past the 'need' for another, it won't matter if you have someone or not. (and then you will meet someone)
Just hang in there. Come to terms that you will never find anyone special, and you will feel much better.
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| 12/10/2007 11:32:51 PM |
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wishin
Marlborough, MA
age: 54
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cherry
you're right it's no fun coming home to an empty house.
i once heard a song that sums it for me.some day i hope to share
it with you.
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| 12/10/2007 11:40:25 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Cherry..patience my dear, he will come when you stop looking so hard and your not too old dear..I found love at 53. But desperation scares many men away...you dont need a man but you want one. I know for all, coming home to an emply house is hard..but sometimes getting a pet makes all the difference and a little more bearable until that special someone walks into your life (unexpectedly)
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| 12/11/2007 1:11:43 AM |
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mikey_1946
Neenah, WI
age: 61
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HEY,, all you get ladies arn't alone,,, I'm here for anyone of you,,, if that helps ??
Just check me out sometime.... mikey_1946
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