you go into it with boundries set it works well with older women and younger men you know the cougar type, it can work well if its just only sex no strings attached the emotions have to stay in check though and you both need to know that...

I would definately need to feel a connection emotionally with a woman to have sex with her, but that being said, i could easily have an emotional connection with hundreds of women at the same time. not that id sleep with hundreds of women. im too paranoid about STDs.

I agree with Soul, someone will develope feeling and get hurt when the their friend find someone they want to be with. No matter what boundries are set, there is always someone who will go over the line, then the problem really begin when the FWB RELATION is called off. If you are thinking about it, stay away and find someone you want to be with.

Just my two cents.

I agree with Soul, someone will develope feeling and get hurt when the their friend find someone they want to be with. No matter what boundries are set, there is always someone who will go over the line, then the problem really begin when the FWB RELATION is called off. If you are thinking about it, stay away and find someone you want to be with.

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I could write a book on my FWB/FB she was a real pice of work. She was the one to set the rules and then changed them. She was 35 i was 52 when all this started. She would find some guy she thoght was the one and I was then just a frind. She wanted to be with only him but wanted me to still help her out because the guy was a bum and couldn't fix anything. Finly threw him out and things were great with her and i for about a year then she found another one. Two yrs later she came back and needed help. She had lost everything even her kidds be cause of that one. We got back together and like befor things were good. Got her son back and she said she would never do that to me again. Next thing I know she's telling me she loves another guy. Another beer drinking redneck hillbilly with no job just like the others. I gave her a choice him or me. She chose him and is pissed at me because I wount do anything for her or talk to her anymore. She blames me for her troubles??

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I agree with Soul, someone will develope feeling and get hurt when the their friend find someone they want to be with. No matter what boundries are set, there is always someone who will go over the line, then the problem really begin when the FWB RELATION is called off. If you are thinking about it, stay away and find someone you want to be with.

Just my two cents.[/quot

I could write a book on my FWB/FB she was a real pice of work. She was the one to set the rules and then changed them. She was 35 i was 52 when all this started. She would find some guy she thoght was the one and I was then just a frind. She wanted to be with only him but wanted me to still help her out because the guy was a bum and couldn't fix anything. Finly threw him out and things were great with her and i for about a year then she found another one. Two yrs later she came back and needed help. She had lost everything even her kidds be cause of that one. We got back together and like befor things were good. Got her son back and she said she would never do that to me again. Next thing I know she's telling me she loves another guy. Another beer drinking redneck hillbilly with no job just like the others. I gave her a choice him or me. She chose him and is pissed at me because I wount do anything for her or talk to her anymore. She blames me for her troubles??

so in all the time ive been on this site, i havent really read up too much on the life of FWBs and also cuz im not one of the type myself....so im curious to the ones that either live that sexual lifestyle or know of ppl that do it, how do u have a RELATIONSHIP as an FWB?....im not trying to be a smarta** at all.

like i would think obviously its only for SEX...but does a RELATIONSHIP part come into play at all?...meaning, do u just meet for sex and then say "next week at so-and-so time we meet again" and just leave it at that OR do u kind of call each other up whenever the "mood" hits u?....do u actually ever sit and talk w/each other about the weather, have a cup of coffee, how's your day going, things like that?

i know i probably sound stupid, but im really truly curious to see how this type of relationship works....as im sure its different for everybody.

**plus it'll give me tips if i ever want to be one myself!!did i say that?....see, i just wrote in another thread how im always using that OOPS sign cuz i say something off the wall....god, im so glad its there to use tho!!

so is fwb just a step-up from a paid hooker with feelings

There are also lots of women who are happy and secure in themselves who genuinely enjoy FWBs without "pining" to have one guy "all to themselves"...many of us have already done our time in exclusive relationships, been there, done that, got the t-shirt...and are quite happy and content to enjoy another dimension of our lives without being constrained.

Not every woman on the planet feels she has to lasso a guy and lock him up. JMO!

Never works... someone will develop feelings.

you right you are entitled to your opinion and that's just what i was stating my op i just know that it can become a problem and this fwb thing is one of the reasons that women/men who want something more solid will have a battle on their hands because you have those that feel that i don't have to buy the milk when i got the cow. can you feel where i'm coming from?

I have always thought that FWB is two people who already know each other become involved physically, but still don't commit to a romantic relationship. It is more than just sex, but not an everyday gotta call gotta connect gotta love kind of thing.

There is a friendship there, so it is a relationship, but you still get out and date others. It also used to be where the people do not sleep with anyone else until they have decided to start something with someone else they met. It's a way of getting what you need without having multiple nsa partners.

If someone does have multiple nsa partners, then it falls more into the Fk Buddy category. Not for me, but it works for others.

i never personally said it was the same; hooker and FWB...i definitely think there r distinctions betw the 2 as i stated earlier...but some ppl might reference it as the same...dont know.

That sounds more like a sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship too me, not FWB, JMO.

If your spending time with the kiddies, that is a relationship, not fwb.

FWB, should just be sex. Not dinner, movie, baseball game. Most of the time it's just sex.

I think that is where most go wrong with it. They start doing things together like a couple or a relationship and it is more like dating and feeling start getting attached.

Sorry to hear about your relationship, when kids are involved it really makes it hard. I need a sugar daddy, interested? lol J/K

It sounds like some people are confusing boyfriend/girlfriend relationships with FWBs. They are entirely different concepts!