| 11/20/2007 7:36:16 PM |
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r_bogdewic
Ellsworth, PA
age: 30
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Whoa, tex....if you were trying to stick up for me, then thanx, but this was all playful fun.
It's getting hot in here, and about to get alot more hotter as the responses keep coming......sorry bro, you're on your own with this one.
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| 11/20/2007 7:38:09 PM |
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phillygirl0007
Philadelphia, PA
age: 45
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i dont think he was sticking up for you, i'm pretty sure he was insulting all of us . . . grrrrrrr . . . .
sic em
j/k tex . . . all in good fun
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| 11/20/2007 7:42:20 PM |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 37 online now!
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I wouldn't choose number one, because I hate a guy doing everything for me, and being my puppet. I like number 2 because I like humor in a guy. Busy is okay, head games on the other hand is not. If a guy is interested make the time to pick up the phone and just explain the situation at the office or so on, and then there is no confusion. Comunication is the key to a happy relationship, so I have heard::yellowbanana
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| 11/20/2007 7:42:31 PM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59 online now!
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Could Tex be jealous that Bog's got all the attention?
Tex... no need to call names, we're just having fun with Bog.
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| 11/20/2007 7:44:17 PM |
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phillygirl0007
Philadelphia, PA
age: 45
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hmmm .. . d'ya think so, leila??? could be . . . whattya say, tex, wanna start your own thread???
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| 11/20/2007 7:46:16 PM |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 37 online now!
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I thought he said ladies only reply.....
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| 11/20/2007 7:49:00 PM |
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texas09
Lubbock, TX
age: 41
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I dont need any attntion..I just call em the way I see them.....
Completely shallow...Sounds like Bog is the one in #1 anyway...
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| 11/20/2007 7:53:38 PM |
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r_bogdewic
Ellsworth, PA
age: 30
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That was funny tex......... Uh, yea, anyway...back to the topic at hand.
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| 11/20/2007 7:56:03 PM |
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sensual_latin
Pleasanton, CA
age: 41
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wow!
#1 sounds very superficial (my vote is nope)
#2 Sounds more of excuses (playing hard to get).
Is impossible not to find 30 minutes in an busy schedule to take the time to talk.
We are all busy and have busy schedules and we will never have time to do things unless
we MAKE THE TIME to do so without always rushing it.
(My vote: HECK NO!)
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| 11/20/2007 8:00:15 PM |
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r_bogdewic
Ellsworth, PA
age: 30
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Sensual_latin:
Based on the old saying, "When a woman says no, she really means yes, and when she says yes, she really means no".....lol
I read into things as well. I've dated alot of women, and my experience is when a woman has to justify herself (or talk herself out of a reason to be attracted), she just fights herself and falls for the guy anyway....lol
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| 11/20/2007 8:55:13 PM |
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madcrazy4u
Carmichaels, PA
age: 31
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Alright, I've gone over both scenarios in head my head a few times and I've finally come to one conclusion. Here it is: The guy in #1 is just like all the losers I've dated in the past. I don't want a guy to change for me just to make me happy. The #2 guy: Is the type of guy I long for-confident and strong. however, he's the guy that I end up just being friends with. Not sure why that is?
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| 11/21/2007 3:28:45 AM |
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sebzalive1
Sebastian, FL
age: 50
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Can I have choice #3? Feeling like Goldilox. #1 is too willing to be what ever it is his date wants and it is creepy. #2 is too busy. So into himself and his schedule that he forgets the date may have one of her own that she was willing to give up to be with him. He leaves her feeling unimportant.
I would want one in the middle... juuuuussssst right.
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| 11/21/2007 3:44:59 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50 online now!
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Neither....I have known and dated both types....
#1...I end up being friends with and hanging out
#2...Arrogance and confidence run a fine line in that one...when it's that close I'd rather not
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| 11/21/2007 9:36:39 AM |
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r_bogdewic
Ellsworth, PA
age: 30
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One thing evryone is forgetting here, is the #2 guy explained to the woman when he first met her, thet "HE CAN'T WAIT TO HERE FROM HER", and for "HER TO CALL HIM".
I'm a sceberio type 2 guy, and I'm all about non pressure. I'll look at my phone and debate calling, but remember that I told her to call me, so I feel I'm being a pressure person if I call her. If I don't hear from her in a couple days, I'll touch base with her and see what's up, if she don't answer, then I don't call again. She has my number and voicemail, if she wants to call me, then that's fine.
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| 11/21/2007 9:47:20 AM |
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jazzygirlok
Tulsa, OK
age: 44
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I would have to say no to both...the first one seems to needy (already have son) and the second seems to cocky, it doesn't take long to make a simple phone call just to say hi to let us know your still interested...
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