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11/20/2007 6:37:06 PM	Women only please....read this!
r_bogdewic Ellsworth, PA age: 30	Alright, we all know the way women and men act differently and want different things in a relationship, "men are from mars, and women are from venus"! But let me ask you ladies this: I'll give two scenerios and you tell me which guy you'd be attracted to more (BE HONEST because I can tell) Senerio 1: You're out and an attractive man has caught your attention. You and him talk for a while, and you exchange information. He still stays around talking to you, and carries good conversation, but he's not very argumentitive to you. Everything that he says, does, or acts, is always making him look like a "yes man". Everything you say, he says stuff like "yeah I agree", or "I know what you mean"...stuff like that. Now we all know MOST women will put a man through a test of some sort to feel him out, and see if he's right for you or not. So you notice he has on red shoes, and you tell him that red isn't your color for shoes. He responds back with something like, "Oh, I'm sorry. Next time I see you, I'll make sure I wear different shoes then. I didn't mean to upset you" The both of you part ways, and he says he'll call you the next day He calls you the next day as he said he would, twice, but you don't answer the first time because you're in the middle of something. About 3 hours later (just when you're getting ready to call him back) he calls again. You don't answer again, just to see what happens. He leaves you a voicemail like, "Hey, it's me. I thought we had a good time last night. Did you? I thought if you had a good time last night with me, that you would at least answer my calls. Alright, call me back, and if not, I'll try again tomorrow" Scenerio 2: You're out and an attractive man has caught your attention. Though he looks a little busy like he's getting ready to split, but he does talk to you for a while. You and him talk for a while, and you exchange information. After you exchange information he tells you that he's got to split but can't wait to hear from you. Out of curiosity you invite him talk a little bit more, if he has the time. He chuckles back, "What, couldn't get enough of me the 1st time around? Ok. What do you want to talk about?" You say you want to talk about anything, weather, sports, politics, whatever, that you just want to get to know him before you decide to call him or not. He looks at you like you got an arm growing from your forehead, then chuckles. He responds back, "I really have to go because I really am busy honey. But by all means, call me later, and we can talk about whatever you want to talk about". The next day, you wait for hm to call, but he doesn't. The next day, still no call yet, and finally he calls a couple days after meeting you. When he calls he says, "Hey, sorry I couldn't get back to you soon, it's just I have a really busy schedule. I'd really like to see you again, in fact I have tomorrow open." You agree, and he says that he was in the middle of a work shift, and called you on break, but he has to get back to work. He assures you that his schedule isn't always this busy at work, it's just the company is doing inventory, and he got elected "lucky guy" to do most of it. He says, he wants to make sure you don't flake out on him, because flaking out on him is not cool, especially with his busy life at this point in time. You reassure him that you'll be there. Which guy do you go for? Scenerio 1, or scenerio 2? I'm the scenerio 2 guy, but don't let that impair your judgment...lol
11/20/2007 6:50:37 PM	Women only please....read this!
pwin_here_n_now Annapolis, MD age: 38 online now!	Number 2: Reason? The scenario 1 Guy is not confident, he is a pleaser, and likely needy, demanding, and never satisfied, not to mention jealous.... (Been with one of these and know the signs). JMO. P.Win
11/20/2007 6:54:36 PM	Women only please....read this!
phillygirl0007 Philadelphia, PA age: 45	Honestly? Neither . . . number 1 is too needy, lacks self confidence, but number 2 is playing head games, too cocky. Somewhere in between would be nice.
11/20/2007 7:00:18 PM	Women only please....read this!
leila123 Liberty Hill, TX age: 59 online now!	Neither... Guy # 1 has no backbone, and sounds like he'd try to reinvent himself just to please me. The fact that he constantly agrees with me would be boring. If I wanted to date myself, I would. Guy # 2 ... Not real fond of the fact that he would call me honey when he doesn't even know me. The whole delivery seems a bit arrogant and conceited. Might be a high maintenance guy that thinks the world revolves around him. Example.... he couldn't call back sooner, but he expects her to not flake out on him although he flaked out on her. Flaking out on him isn't cool... but I suppose flaking out on her was okay? JMO [Edited 11/20/2007 7:01:10 PM]
11/20/2007 7:08:37 PM	Women only please....read this!
r_bogdewic Ellsworth, PA age: 30	No honey, he didn't flake on her......he was just busy. She agreed to go out with him. She didn't have to, but she did anyway, and probably found out he was the perfect guy for her. If she didn't give him the time of day, she would never know, and probably question herlself, "what if".
11/20/2007 7:10:29 PM	Women only please....read this!
mom1st York, SC age: 30	I'm going with ummmmm, neither too. Don't want a man that can't think for himself and don't want a man that's too busy to call for just a minute to give a heads up, I'd probably be wondering if he's married or in a relationship. JMO Me<----------- not a what if type person, who cares if this or if that , doesn't change anything. Things are the way they are, I say move on. [Edited 11/20/2007 7:12:13 PM]
11/20/2007 7:10:59 PM	Women only please....read this!
leila123 Liberty Hill, TX age: 59 online now!	You know what... your pure audacity is cute. I don't believe you, but you do make me smile.
11/20/2007 7:15:02 PM	Women only please....read this!
phillygirl0007 Philadelphia, PA age: 45	i love that he responded by saying HONEY again . . . even though it was pointed out how annoying that can be . . . gee, i guess we're all going to be spending our lives thinking . . . SIGH . . . WHAT IF . . . What if I had a lobotomy????
11/20/2007 7:20:02 PM	Women only please....read this!
leila123 Liberty Hill, TX age: 59 online now!	Yah... what if? Poor little thing, just forever wondering what if instead of picking up whatever crumbs he might throw her way....NOT!
11/20/2007 7:24:13 PM	Women only please....read this!
r_bogdewic Ellsworth, PA age: 30	LOL...the response, "Honey" was called sarcasm...lol...didn't mean it in a disrespectful way though....meant it in a teasing playful manner.....just goes to show that written communication must not be taken so litterly, and I need to work on that. LMAO, "what if I had a labotomy".....I like that one...cute, and very clever...not being sarcastic...being serious. Anyway, thanx for your responses. I do sense honesty in them. Different people are made different ways, and not everyone is right for each other....that doesn't make us bad people though....so with all this said, "let's just agree to disagree"
11/20/2007 7:25:17 PM	Women only please....read this!
firestarter1966 Bellingham, WA age: 41	I like number 2 because of the cat and mouse game
11/20/2007 7:26:21 PM	Women only please....read this!
phillygirl0007 Philadelphia, PA age: 45	well said, bog, i like a man with a thick skin! seriously, if scenario #2 were genuine, and not done to "keep her guessing", and not done with arrogance, then i would guess #2 would be the more popular guy . . .
11/20/2007 7:30:40 PM	Women only please....read this!
leila123 Liberty Hill, TX age: 59 online now!	Hey Bog... I took your calling me "Honey" as your way of joking around with me. I thought it was pretty funny and that's why I mentioned your audacity and that you made me smile. Your thread was creative, thoughtful and you didn't get upset with us for giving you our true opinions or joking around with you. Leila
11/20/2007 7:32:02 PM	Women only please....read this!
texas09 Lubbock, TX age: 41	You Ladies have got to be kidding me!!!! Chalked each one of you in the looser column!!!!
11/20/2007 7:33:13 PM	Women only please....read this!
phillygirl0007 Philadelphia, PA age: 45	whatever tex . . .

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