| 11/21/2007 10:05:11 AM |
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dazlinbynature
Fort Calhoun, NE
age: 50
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I am agreeing with most.....#1 too much, #2 too arogant. The first thing I thought of when you gave her your number and told her to call you, was no way.....course i'm older and from the old school. And it seems your always "headin out the door". You would be hard to keep up with and that would make a girl feel unimportant. jmo
Maybe you are really busy, but if you make her chase to keep up with you, most will fall away from trying. You have to put forth the effort if you are truely interested. We are all very busy, heck I should be sleeping right now as I work nights! Point is we make time for what is important to us.....jmo again.
xoDaz
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| 11/21/2007 10:08:07 AM |
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ayeshah
Albuquerque, NM
age: 30
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WOW THEY R BOTH HARD TO SAY, i like 1 better cuz he called back and was tenative to her but number 2 if he was being honest we as ladys would more than likely understand cuz working alot if in fact thats what number 2 is really doing than hey good for him, im used to number 2 kind of guy so i think i rather(TTHINKING ) go wit number 1! lol i dont know! 
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| 11/21/2007 10:10:25 AM |
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sami2
Eureka, CA
age: 19
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NIETHER ONE........#1 IS TO GOOD LIKE HE IS HIDING SOMETHING AND #2 SEEMS TO BE PLAYING HEAD GaMES.
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| 11/21/2007 3:46:08 PM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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Tough question! I would prefer a mix of the two, but since that is not an option, I would say number 2. Number one would be boring as hell to me. I can't stand it when there is no challenge! I am not a butt kisser and I sure as heck don't want to be with one either. I can honestly see why number 2 could be too busy for the call. My work at times gets really rough and I am not in the mood to make social calls on someone new. You really may be stressed from work, not to mention tired, and don't want to take that attitude out on someone that is new. Sometimes we all need to be a bit more understanding of others and a heck of a lot more patient. Passing on number 2 may be a really big mistake.
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| 11/21/2007 3:57:52 PM |
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goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 47 online now!
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i would try both-im pretty flexible-my life is pretty busy at times-so can relate-red shoes..hmmmm are they tenny shoes???doesnt matter-he has enuff guts to wear them-hes got enuff guts to do alot of things....
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| 11/21/2007 4:59:23 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Neither. #1 man sounds like he is playing head games so that later after he's got you hooked he can be himself ... total opposite. #2 man, if he's interested he would make the us time.
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| 11/21/2007 5:03:29 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Neither
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| 11/21/2007 5:15:02 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50 online now!
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Neither for me... I'd rather be alone...
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| 11/21/2007 10:16:24 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 47
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Neither...
I want a man with his own likes/dislikes and opinions and the second....no thank you. Dumped the last guy because he had no time for me. No one is that busy they can't call, send an email or something. If he is too busy to make a call then he is too busy to receive a call?????
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| 11/21/2007 10:29:13 PM |
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qazyguy
Rockville, MD
age: 50
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BOG didn't make this scenario up, it's from David D'Angelo's course, or something similar.
We already had a thread like this while back.
https://DateHookup.dating/Thread-23081.htm
JIM
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| 11/21/2007 10:36:07 PM |
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geegee1
Bedford, IN
age: 45 online now!
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I wouldnt have either...redundantly pretty much what most of the others said. Cocky guys or spineless guys are not a good thing...ok cocky is cute. lol
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| 11/22/2007 12:20:02 AM |
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r_bogdewic
Ellsworth, PA
age: 30
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Alright gazyguy:
I read through that post you posted, and it has NOTHING in common with what I wrote. I read your posts as well, which were contradicting every single one of your other comments (kinda like going with what the room was feeling at the time, and not forming your own true opinion-which IS a guy number 1 scenerio). JMO.
I've mentioned before, as I'm sure I'll mention again, Dave and I are old friends, and we share ideas back and forth together.
And again, as said in the title, "Women only please", but you're welcome to debate anything you want to debate......as I said before, "let's just agree to disagree"
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