is chivalry really dead? 106

5/22/2009 8:36:42 AM	is chivalry really dead?
snowbird02s Salt Lake City, UT age: 44	sweet_li Orlando, FL age: 44 No it is NOT dead, just harder to find. Your a very pretty, and smart women I'm sure your will find a great man.
5/22/2009 8:49:07 AM	is chivalry really dead?
lolsmile Everett, WA age: 47	Quote from milas83: The most important question that everyone forgot to mention is: "are said women elgible for chivalry?" LOL My son was raised that no gentleman ever hits a lady. Some much older and larger girl started going at him when he was about 9, to the point of stitches, black eye, and missing teeth!!! "Uh, honey, I know what I told you, but, new rule. While a gentleman never hits a lady, if she ain't actin' like one, you don't have to treat her like one! She touches you again, kick her ass!"
5/22/2009 8:56:00 AM	is chivalry really dead?
bkohler Voorhees, NJ age: 59	That's a good one, I'll have to remember that. It probably goes along with respect too, people say them want to be treated with respect, but it should be earned. To tell you the truth I'm beginning to refrain from all the chivalry stuff. Women on a date end up tell me how special they feel when I do those things but misinterpret gentlemenly manners for a marriage proposal. whamo, if a little time goes by inbetween dates or a phone call suddenly I'm the bad guy.
5/22/2009 10:40:16 AM	is chivalry really dead?
irresistiblered Broomfield, CO age: 44	Off Topic: Quote from sweet_li: well, i don't know how long you've been on this site, i haven't been on here that long but it seems that some people on DH take pleasure in insulting and/or condescending other people's posts in an indirect manner that makes it appear as though they aren't when, in fact, they really are. this only happened to me twice, but i nipped it in the bud right away to make sure that the offending posters as well as everyone else knew that i won't take crap like that from anyone, regardless of who they are or how 'popular' they are on here. now, i could've been mistaken about who your post was directed at. and if i was, i apologize straight up. but the way you wrote it was reminiscent of past posts i've had to deal with...and, it just really rubbed me the wrong way. Thank you...your straight up apology is appreciated. Let's just say that I have been here long Enough, to say that I not only understand the deffensive mechanism which brings about the offensive behavior, but been at the both ends of it, myself. I am sorry about the way DH community (as a whole) treats and deals with anyone who dares to enter it. I wish it was not so, but all I can control is my own behavior, which is something different. Otherwise, I would not have been here today. And the days that I got...errrr....baptized...into this community, we had tigers who would have both of us for dinner and leave nothing for breakfast. If it wsn't for friends and members who had wisdom and compassion, I could not have lasted as long as I had. The good news is, that the ones who do NOT survive are the tigers, not the deers. You will be glad to hear that the popularity aspect that you had mentioned has never been a catagory I belonged to. I say things without sugar coatings and being the center of attention is much less important to me than talking about the truth and standing up for friends and those who are not capable of defending themselves. But no matter what....I would never ever...EVER...attack or behave the way you THOUGHT I was. My friends and this whole comunity is way too important to me. There are a whole lot of people here who woud attest to that. Al in all, I like you and the points you have made.... Peace, Friend.
5/22/2009 10:48:02 AM	is chivalry really dead?
dutchboy4u Huntington Beach, CA age: 45	Poor girls... Still picking the wrong men. Chivalry exists...
5/22/2009 10:50:01 AM	is chivalry really dead?
evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 36	Quote from lolsmile: LOL My son was raised that no gentleman ever hits a lady. Some much older and larger girl started going at him when he was about 9, to the point of stitches, black eye, and missing teeth!!! "Uh, honey, I know what I told you, but, new rule. While a gentleman never hits a lady, if she ain't actin' like one, you don't have to treat her like one! She touches you again, kick her ass!" That's a lose / lose situation for any guy.... if he fights back he's forever labeled an abuser if he doesn't fight back he's got beat up by a girl Best to use yer manly wits and make her cry.
5/22/2009 3:04:45 PM	is chivalry really dead?
hunter333 Pensacola, FL age: 38	Quote from raydawg300: quote from Dave Chapelle......"Chivalry is dead.....and women killed it!" amen to that! there's your answer. how messed up is it for women to get everything they want in the world & they STILL complain! let me see if i got this right.... you want the man to pay for everything under the sun everywhere you go, & on top of that you want him to kiss your a** at every turn acting like a butler treating you like royalty? & if the poor sucker marries you, you want at least a $10,000 ring that he pays for of course, (the same ring you wont give back when you divorce him) & when it doesnt work out, you'll take his house, car, savings, retirement, 401k, kids & everything else he paid for & he gets NOTHING, gets kicked out of the house HE bought and has to pay you every month for the rest of his life? and you wonder why chivalry is dead? and if thats not bad enough, you take his job! you forced the govt to force businesses to hire women just because they're a woman. i.e. police, fireman, military, tons of jobs... even though they cant make the cut without lowering the standards endangering the public & coworkers and getting rid of the men already working in those jobs. cutting the available jobs in half! and you wonder why chivalry is dead? reading your stupid quiz i noticed that what you want is a very very rich, brainless bodyguard that will do anything you tell him to, never ask questions, sacrifice himself to wild animals for you, buy you everything you want, & give up his life to worship you and serve your every whim! why dont you open your own door, pull out your own effing chair & stfu!
5/22/2009 3:12:48 PM	is chivalry really dead?
drummaster777 Auburn, WA age: 33	Quote from hunter333: amen to that! there's your answer. how messed up is it for women to get everything they want in the world & they STILL complain! let me see if i got this right.... you want the man to pay for everything under the sun everywhere you go, & on top of that you want him to kiss your a** at every turn acting like a butler treating you like royalty? & if the poor sucker marries you, you want at least a $10,000 ring that he pays for of course, (the same ring you wont give back when you divorce him) & when it doesnt work out, you'll take his house, car, savings, retirement, 401k, kids & everything else he paid for & he gets NOTHING, gets kicked out of the house HE bought and has to pay you every month for the rest of his life? and you wonder why chivalry is dead? and if thats not bad enough, you take his job! you forced the govt to force businesses to hire women just because they're a woman. i.e. police, fireman, military, tons of jobs... even though they cant make the cut without lowering the standards endangering the public & coworkers and getting rid of the men already working in those jobs. cutting the available jobs in half! and you wonder why chivalry is dead? reading your stupid quiz i noticed that what you want is a very very rich, brainless bodyguard that will do anything you tell him to, never ask questions, sacrifice himself to wild animals for you, buy you everything you want, & give up his life to worship you and serve your every whim! why dont you open your own door, pull out your own effing chair & stfu!
5/22/2009 4:03:02 PM	is chivalry really dead?
sweet_li Orlando, FL age: 44	Quote from hunter333: "amen to that! there's your answer. how messed up is it for women to get everything they want in the world & they STILL complain! let me see if i got this right.... you want the man to pay for everything under the sun everywhere you go, & on top of that you want him to kiss your a at every turn acting like a butler treating you like royalty?" well first of all, i don't know where you get that i specifically stated that i want a man to "pay for everything under the sun everywhere i go" or that i expect to be "treated like royalty". and i don't appreciate the negative tone that you're taking with me on my thread. you can state your opinion without being rude, okay? if you're unable to post your opinion in a respectful and polite manner, then please be so kind as to not post in here anymore.** and um, as far as "my stupid quiz" is concerned, it wasn't mine. it was a quiz i had copy and pasted from esquire.com. had you read and comprehended my post, you would've known that. i posted the quiz as something fun and silly for guys to do. if you thought it was so "stupid", then why did you read through it? why did you even bother posting here? just so you could take advantage of an opportunity to be rude and impose your misogynistic attitude on me, someone you don't even know? if you never possessed the intelligence, courtesy and common sense to post in my thread with respect and manners, then you should've never posted here. out of the one zillion threads on DH, you chose this one. with all due respect, please do not post in my thread again. ever.
5/22/2009 4:06:01 PM	is chivalry really dead?
howudoinnn Grantsburg, WI age: 38	well if chivalry wasnt dead before..it sure the heck will be after these 100 pages
5/22/2009 4:10:31 PM	is chivalry really dead?
mrgoodhoney Glen Carbon, IL age: 55	There nothing wrong with the car door honey! I'm sure you can handle it just fine.
5/22/2009 4:10:41 PM	is chivalry really dead?
poisonpurge Galt, CA age: 43	Chivalry is not dead. You just won't find it with a "badboy", which is what the majority of women seek today.
5/22/2009 4:24:27 PM	is chivalry really dead?
daniel92592 Temecula, CA age: 32	50 to 100: You're in the ranks of Sir Mix-a-Lot. But since we've been forced to lower our standards, you'll probably do okay. On the high side of that. Some of the questions were just too funny to answer. I don't, and will not have a ring tone. The bear, there was no pick her up and run! I don't think it is dead, on the converse some women don't know how to pause a second to let the guy get the door. In the end, I just go with how things feel. Some women are more receptive to chivalry then others. And it is possible that some men need to learn it. Also, there are plenty of women who go for the bad guy image, and are not looking for the mans long coat on a cold windy night. to each their own i suppose.
5/22/2009 4:52:50 PM	is chivalry really dead?
goodgato Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 44 online now!	Quote from poisonpurge: Chivalry is not dead. You just won't find it with a "badboy", which is what the majority of women seek today. Wrong - bad boys show chivalrous behavior and I've yet to meet one that expected a female to pick up a date tab!! They're all about good manners - that's been my experience, anyway.
5/22/2009 4:55:48 PM	is chivalry really dead?
drummaster777 Auburn, WA age: 33	Quote from goodgato: Wrong - bad boys show chivalrous behavior and I've yet to meet one that expected a female to pick up a date tab!! They're all about good manners - that's been my experience, anyway. Bad boys are bad boys by definition because of their LACK of chivalrous behavior. They regularly treat women like they are disposable. That's why they are "bad boys".

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