6/4/2009 4:05:38 PM |
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wightnight
Leesville, LA
age: 31
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so this guy meets this girl and falls in love the minute he lays eyes on her things are going great for awhile then get even better when she gets preganet he goes to all the doctors appointments with her then one time while he's sitting in the waiting room one of the doctors come out and ask him to come to the back with her when he gets to the room he see the love of his life and knows something is wrong the doctor asks him to sit down and to listen carefully he does so on the edge of his seat the doctor tell him his girl is HIV positive he breaks down they give him a test and he's negitive he decides to stand by her side and they stay together for four more years and they are now no longer together but have two beautiful children both are HIV negitive and he is negitive also.
his kids mom is in perfect health and till this day they are the best of friends.
so tell me what would you have done if this were your girl guys?
and ladies if your man wnet and got tested would you stand by his side?
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6/4/2009 4:30:24 PM |
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hayhay61606
Harlan, IA
age: 24
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I honestly don't know what I would do. I hope its a situation I'll never be in. If I was HIV possitive and pregnant I would hope that at the very least he would want to be a part of his son or daughters life.
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6/4/2009 4:32:40 PM |
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sandrahall
Mc Kenzie, TN
age: 33
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This way to heavy for me.
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6/4/2009 5:02:02 PM |
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yourfriendbob
Fayette, OH
age: 54
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I was with you right up until you said they had "2" kids together.
It's everybody's own business if they want to take chances with their lives. But, to dodge the bullet with the first child and then turn around and get pregnant a second time, knowing they were taking the risk of putting a child through a living hell, is unexcusable.
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6/4/2009 5:05:39 PM |
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howudoinnn
Grantsburg, WI
age: 38
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I was with you right up until you said they had "2" kids together.
It's everybody's own business if they want to take chances with their lives. But, to dodge the bullet with the first child and then turn around and get pregnant a second time, knowing they were taking the risk of putting a child through a living hell, is unexcusable.
what bob said
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6/4/2009 5:53:21 PM |
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tallangel64
Lincolnton, NC
age: 45 online now!
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Love can make you do alot of things; especilly when you're already in it. I think you're more tolerate of things when you are in love as opposed to not accepting the same things if you were not in love. So, I think it MIGHT be possible for me to come to some kind of acceptance and continue a relationship under those circumstances. I thought about this one for awhile; for the life of me I can't even consider how you knowingly bring a second child into the situation you have described.
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6/4/2009 5:59:26 PM |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 29 online now!
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I was with you right up until you said they had "2" kids together.
It's everybody's own business if they want to take chances with their lives. But, to dodge the bullet with the first child and then turn around and get pregnant a second time, knowing they were taking the risk of putting a child through a living hell, is unexcusable.
to add to that, to risk leaving one kid an orphan, but, then add in a second.
I can see the urge to live a normal family life, because when dealing with something of that magnitude you have to have some premise of normal to get by. Otherwise, you're more likely to give up and die sooner..(not proven fact, just what I have witnessed)
However, having two kids that lost a parent, if there was any chance in hell that I could have avoided that pain for at least one of them, I would have, in an instant. Sounds cold,..but you probably have to live it to understand it.
Last but not least, it is commendable that the person stayed as he should have because those are his children. However, he should continue to be tested and let any person he plans to have a relationship aware of this situation as soon as possible. I'm not that current on my knowledge of HIV testing but, I do know that it can show up after the fact and still could be an issue in the future.
The other side is the mother of these children has a death sentance over her head. We all do, but her's is already written in stone. and she might be perfectly healthy today but that could change quickly and more than likely will, so, that means the fathers day to day life could change in an instant as well. Any future partners have a right to that information so they can make the best decisions for them.
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6/4/2009 6:07:23 PM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Olathe, KS
age: 49
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WHOA I can't touch this one I have NO idea what I would do, but I do know if I were HIV positive, I would never of attempted to bring children into the world, she got luck, I mean she got DAMN lucky
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6/4/2009 8:38:34 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 49
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I would hope I would have the sense not to bring a child into this but I make a choice of never saying never because unless you walk in someone shoes you don't know. Just glad the kids are ok.
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6/4/2009 8:42:18 PM |
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budman84
Warwick, RI
age: 24
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this is a good one. im not really sure what i would do. im pretty sure ide stay with her. use protection while in the bedroom
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6/4/2009 8:58:33 PM |
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goddess56
Tulsa, OK
age: 59
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I was with you right up until you said they had "2" kids together.
It's everybody's own business if they want to take chances with their lives. But, to dodge the bullet with the first child and then turn around and get pregnant a second time, knowing they were taking the risk of putting a child through a living hell, is unexcusable.
Once again, Bob, you're absolutely correct.
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