| 4/5/2007 10:44:16 AM |
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vig1602
Lakewood, CA
age: 20 online now!
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Any answer is good, just trying to give an idea of the answers I'm curious about. I would like some young girls to get in on this too, since im a young nice guy myself, but everybodies opinion is valid ;P. Lol I got nice guy syndrome, but everytime I become a prick they seem to come back. So I'm curious
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| 4/5/2007 12:27:44 PM |
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duckie1963
North York, ON
age: 44
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sorry Vig.... I think your survey is loaded and there is no way to answer honestly. What is wrong with enjoying the company of a nice man or someone that is independent? I enjoy my independence very much... that doesn't mean I treat people like crap or expect to be treated that way.
You can't be so bad....you are the first man that admits he can be a prick.... have been here a month and so far in all the threads its been the woman called lowest of the low. Only one other guy said something and that was SOB (so I guess that was about his mum too)...lol
You have valid questions, its just too bad the texting seems a bit one sided
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| 4/5/2007 12:54:31 PM |
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air_pirate
Lompoc, CA
age: 59
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You couldn’t have said it better. All women I have even know say they want a nice guy but what they say and what they are attracted to is another story. So women do you want a man who is like the Keebler Elf?
The proverbial nice guy can not get a date in a women prison with a fist full of pardons. I have heard it hundreds of times “you’re a real nice guy but…”, “your really a nice guy, let’s just be friends”. You know what a friend is, some who will come over in his pickup and help you move, baby-sit her dog when she goes on vacation, take her out for dinner on her birthday because her married boyfriend can not be seen with her in public. I have done all that and much more as a friend. Guys, if you want to get rid of a woman fast, cook for her before the 6 th date. A nice guy that cooks comes across as a weak, needy, wimp.
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| 4/5/2007 1:23:59 PM |
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duckie1963
North York, ON
age: 44
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no.... I want a nice guy. one that doesnt keep score. Coming over and helping move stuff or cooking dinner etc... is nice but why are you keeping score? Do you remember the nice things the women do for you? Or is it all about what the guy does?
will admit one thing to you tho, I wouldnt want a man that is a wimp, much rather a man was honest (i.e if I were taking advantage of the situation, being nasty, then he should tell me he feels that way) than to let it continue...
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| 4/5/2007 1:47:02 PM |
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air_pirate
Lompoc, CA
age: 59
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Keeping score? What do you mean by keeping score? I am only relating how it is.
[Edited 4/5/2007 2:37:33 PM]
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| 4/5/2007 4:56:52 PM |
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duckie1963
North York, ON
age: 44
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for some thats how it is, and that is very sad... remembering only what you have done but not what others do. Maybe thats why they suggest only being friends! Just being honest...lol
[Edited 4/5/2007 4:57:46 PM]
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| 4/5/2007 7:09:03 PM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61 online now!
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I am so sick of hearing guys say women don't want a nice guy. That's bull sh__t!! Most of the guys that claim to be NICE GUYS are nice when they think it will get them somewhere. Nice guys don't have to relate everything they do for someone. IMHO
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| 4/5/2007 7:24:21 PM |
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duckie1963
North York, ON
age: 44
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thnx Queen... now thats what Im saying...
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| 4/5/2007 8:16:03 PM |
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califgirl1
Lynchburg, VA
age: 61
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ok ladies, how about a nice bad boy, who is all over you all the time. lol
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| 4/5/2007 9:04:52 PM |
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singlennj
Budd Lake, NJ
age: 48
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I am a Nice Guy,
I am a Jerk,
I am a Great Guy,
I am an As****e,
I am so sweet,
I am a Sc****k.
Why is it when a woman wants something I am so nice. When I ask for some consideration I am a controlling selfish Bastard. When I open the door I am chivalrous, when I am tired after work I am a Male Pig.
LOL, it is all in the moment. I dont care like I used to and get more attention. I just wish I could be that Jerk that seems to get all the women flaunting over him. I can not complain though, I can get attention if I want it. Just Ignore them and they will come around. lol.
I am a gentleman to a select number of women. If a woman wants to shove equality, and I am woman hear me roar, get out of my way you bastard, then dont come to me looking for a door to be opened. Those women who I dont know I give the benefit of the doubt but will not go out of my way to be chivalrous. For those I know, I will go the extra yard if and when needed. But those that want to trample men under foot, Oops, I missed that door.
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| 4/5/2007 9:09:55 PM |
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califgirl1
Lynchburg, VA
age: 61
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singlennj.............you must care, that was quite a speech. jmo lol
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| 4/6/2007 10:19:38 AM |
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air_pirate
Lompoc, CA
age: 59
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So you are agreeing with me, you do not like nice guys.
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| 4/6/2007 10:31:37 AM |
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air_pirate
Lompoc, CA
age: 59
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You still do not understand what I am trying to say. There is nothing wrong with being friends and doing favors for friends, it has nothing to do with keeping score. If a man meets a woman and he comes across as a nice guy, then he is only going to be a friend because a nice guy comes across as being weak. Not that he is but the is the impression. If a man wants to be more than a friend, he can not look weak. Tell me, would you want to be romantically involved with a weak wimpy man.?
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| 4/6/2007 10:34:46 AM |
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singlennj
Budd Lake, NJ
age: 48
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Posted by califgirl1 singlennj.............you must care, that was quite a speech. jmo lol
Shhhhhhhh, You'll ruin my semi Bad Boy Image. Just when I thought I was turning to the Dark Side, there you go and rat me out.
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| 4/6/2007 10:35:26 AM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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I like REFORMED bad boys.......most of the time they still have an edge but they have matured and realized how nice it is to love and be devoted to one good woman. They've done all the crap then decided to chill with their fam. They are yummy. LOL
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