| 4/10/2007 12:17:23 PM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61 online now!
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I don't understand why so many are confused about nice guys. A nice doesn't mean weak. Weak is unreliable, dependant on woman for filling all his needs, like his ego. Weak is not trusting your woman out of your sight cause you really don't think your good enough to hold on to her or because you are the one cheating. Neediness is weak.
Nice guys are the ones who are kind to all people. They are considerate, respectful and treat others as they want to be treated. They take care of responsibilities and don't lie or cheat anyone. Now will someone tell me what is weak about that.
Confidence is becoming on anyone, knowing yourself and being capable as well as trusting your decisions.
Sometimes so called bad boys are nice men too.
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| 4/10/2007 8:09:59 PM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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Nicely stated ma'am. LOL
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| 4/10/2007 11:09:06 PM |
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luvinlifetothem
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
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I just have to chime in again, since the thread is on the top of the list.....
I want a nice guy. What I dont want is someone who is a lap dog, seriously, ladies, do any of us? I want a confident, sexy man, who can handle it when I have a bad day and just need to vent, without taking it that its HIM that is the problem. Nice guy syndrome is a valid problem, there are guys that just cant seem to get past that, and no they are not sexy. I think the ladies are right, reformed bad boys are the way to go!!!
Nothing sexier than a man who can be confident, almost cocky, but still doesnt mind rubbing your feet! Okay, so he wants you to rub his too, isnt that what its all about?
Give and take. Take and give... Hmmmm sounds like sex. Not such a bad thing.
Looking for a nice guy, one without nice guy syndrome!!!!!!!
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| 4/11/2007 2:41:49 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 40
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There are a few perceptions that lead me to believe that some women tend to gravitate to the “Bad Boy” image. First of all, the “Bad Boy” image shouldn’t be confused with the “Jerk Boy” image. If women admit being attracted to the “Bad Boy” image, they are probably referring to the confident, unafraid and risk taking men who have a good look about them and who will challenge the women they meet instead of kissing up.
Women who say they don’t like the “Nice Guys” are probably talking about the men, who follow them around, hang on their every word and treat women like princesses. Women don’t necessarily want this and many of them would say they couldn’t respect a guy like this.
So, if those are the definitions, then the reason can speak for itself. “Nice Guys” who are confident and demand respect should have no problem with women.
~Sin
[Edited 4/11/2007 2:42:11 AM]
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| 4/11/2007 6:19:58 AM |
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unboltedflame
Eufaula, AL
age: 31
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Bad boys are more exciting. Now that a trick statement. I want a bad boy macho kinda attitude. You know, the i'll take care of my girl, won't take no crap off nobody, always got it together type of attitude. But, then I want the faithful, hard working, respectful yet crazy and fun kinda guy. Can all of those roll into one?
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| 4/11/2007 7:18:55 AM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61 online now!
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Sin as usual you got it.
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| 4/11/2007 9:11:30 AM |
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g13classified
Compton, CA
age: 26
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I really can't click on one answer...
in my experience...guys who say they're nice end up being assholes, guys who want you to think they're bad-ass end up crying on your sholder as they reminise of the past...(nothing wrong with that)
bottom line____________: just be who you are.
I like a guy who is bad-ass only when he needs to be and himself the rest of the time...
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| 4/11/2007 9:19:40 AM |
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windroper
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 47
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More of that Men from Mars; Women from Venus stuff. Nice guys are not lap dogs. The term means different things to different women. One will think such a man is chivalrous and another will think of him as a good provider. These lap dogs some of the men are mentioning are more aptly called clingy, needy vortexes that suck the life right out of you. They do things for you and you repay them with a thanks, maybe a home-cooked meal or whatever. Next thing you know, when you won't put out or can't accommodate them in some other way, in their eyes you're an ungrateful b****. I would rather hire something done or do without than put up with that kind of skull f***.
Yeah... I liked bad boys. I liked living dangerously. I liked life in the fast lane. I liked freedom. I liked sexual tension AND the guy not needing to ask me if it was good afterward. But the key word in the term bad boys is boy. Sooner or later, terminally under the influence, unemployed and unreliable gets old and I'm not talking about him maturing.
Bad boys = confidence? Pffft! Confidence is that fine line between the 2 personas. And very few men can fill the bill, just like they think there are so few good women out there.
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| 4/11/2007 9:24:28 AM |
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duckie1963
North York, ON
age: 44
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wow Wind.... very nicely said. I like the skull F***, never heard that one before hope you dont mind if I use it...lol
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| 4/11/2007 1:48:42 PM |
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lonelyinwrn
Warren, MI
age: 50
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Man, dating is sure complicated! Think I'll stay home with my cat! LOL
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| 4/11/2007 1:56:57 PM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61 online now!
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I have a cat and dog and staying home with them is what I have done for a long time and that gets old after awhile.
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| 4/11/2007 2:02:45 PM |
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windroper
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 47
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I don't have copyright on it, Duckie. Didn't even coin it. I think I was about 40 the first time I heard it. Yeah... it's a keeper. ;-D
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| 4/11/2007 3:44:13 PM |
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g13classified
Compton, CA
age: 26
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man, i wish i had a dog or a cat...maybe even a horse...lol just kidding.
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| 4/12/2007 12:19:23 AM |
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ol_hillbilly
Lowry City, MO
age: 47
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Wudja settle for a goat?
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| 4/12/2007 7:35:41 AM |
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g13classified
Compton, CA
age: 26
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Only if his name was Billy!!
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