| 12/1/2007 3:44:19 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Whether it is an online deal or in person meeting, we should be adult enough to handle the rejection with class. We see the " stabbing" at one another on here for all to see when things don't work out the way we wished. Ya don't have to be buddies with them afterwards.. but ya know that you will run into them on this site or on the street ( unless you were lucky enough to have met them from another state and than that takes care of any " awkwardness". Confronting them on here is just lowering yourself to a level that is never cool. Searching for and holding a relationship is a risk.. pure and simple. You simply take what you have learned from those moments and use them. The rest you can simply toss away. I'd hate to think that so many on here would throw such a tantrum in real life as they do on here about a relationship ( or whatever you wish to call it) gone bad. I think alot of us has learned to NOT discuss our private life online as it can backfire in a heartbeat. Here is to breathing out the bad.. and breathing in the good. Happy Holidays!
Trish
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| 12/1/2007 3:48:46 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50
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Tru I so agree with you...and from my standpoint...when I see someone giving another a hard time on here...it just makes them appear less of a respectable huiman being to me... We can't control what one says about us on here...but we sure can control how we react to it... there is no shame in having a little class regardless!
And best wishes to you Tru... this Holiday season and always!
[Edited 12/1/2007 3:49:14 PM]
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| 12/1/2007 3:50:37 PM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50 online now!
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Easy 4 ya'll coz ya gettin' the nice guyz..................
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| 12/1/2007 3:51:17 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 56
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What a couple of sweethearts. Good advice, by the way! 
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| 12/1/2007 3:52:27 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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lol I ain't getting no guys! Just seems so petty to go on and on about something that is done and over with. We all have been on the rejection side and have rejected others. It's part of life.
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| 12/1/2007 4:03:00 PM |
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 41
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Tru..... I couldn't agree more.
Let's just say that I've learned more than I care to know about people simply by observing them after a rejection of some sort.
[Edited 12/1/2007 4:05:34 PM]
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| 12/1/2007 4:04:05 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50
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I agree Falcon... you can learn a lot by just reading the threads!!
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| 12/1/2007 4:06:49 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Absolutely... People tend to let their guard down and show their true colors and it's not always a pretty site. If they can't deal with something online, they are sure to not be able to deal with the real thing very well
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| 12/1/2007 4:14:51 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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ahhhhh shut up
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| 12/1/2007 4:18:15 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Now soul.. lets lift you up to the right level and discuss this like 2 human beings please LMAO
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| 12/1/2007 4:42:34 PM |
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menace47
Sturgeon Bay, WI
age: 42
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Happy Holidays Trish and everyone else 
Such a great post! I've noticed so much immaturity sometimes from people on here, that is has made me question even being here! Relationships are hard enough to figure out in person, and even harder online. It always involves two people with two hearts and minds who may be thinking different things at different times. Why air personal issues, rejections, etc.... here in public. Unless it is a lesson someone else can learn from, and you still don't have to mention names or throw stones. Usually it is just a lesson learned within our own selves, we take it to heart, and have to move on.
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| 12/1/2007 4:44:46 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Exactly! No names need to be mentioned.. and if you are crazy enough to mention who you are " involved" with on here and then it don't go well, than you need to step up like an adult and deal with it.
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| 12/1/2007 4:48:52 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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I agree trublu5ft2 ... seen too many people putting other people's handles on here because things just did not work out. If they wanna stay single then posting a thread about things not working out would be the way to do it.
I personally wouldn't want to see my handle on a thread just because there wasn't any chemistry. And if I saw a man doing this then it would put up a red flag saying stay away from this dude. Mostly I've seen women doing this and my first thought is that this kind of stuff scares men away thinking that all women do this and it is not true.
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| 12/1/2007 4:52:36 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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It's childish chopper. And you are right.. if I see a man dissing a woman on here for such matters, it sends me packing
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| 12/1/2007 4:52:44 PM |
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arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46 online now!
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...and some people make honest mistakes, however do they know and can they learn from their mistakes....lets hope so...
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