Marriage is not what it used to be... 76

7/20/2009 12:05:59 PM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
gm3250 Columbia Falls, MT age: 36 online now!	were not in Kansas anymore Dorothy!
7/20/2009 12:11:52 PM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
122750again Sioux Falls, SD age: 58	HUn, its 2009, Nothing is like what it used to be Do talk to your Husband If he thinks everything is Perfect, he has No Clue how you feel Tell Him
7/30/2009 2:39:17 PM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
trinity08 Sparta, WI age: 40	If he tends to think things are perfect then maybe it is that you are falling out of love, I understand you feel you need to make it work due to the children yet you have to keep it real and both need to keep how you personal feel for one another in the aspects of the children. So that no matter what comes of it they are being cared for in all ways. Finding someone else should never be your thought. This is about your babies and they will still need much of your time if not more. That goes without saying you won't be single forever but give yourself time as well, if there is this break up it will take time for you all to adjust, Good luck.
7/30/2009 6:22:33 PM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
lukingforsum1 Vestal, NY age: 49	Marriage is never what it starts out to be, maybe it's too easy to get married or maybe it's too easy to get divorced. I know I suffered from divorce but my kids suffered many times more. Divorce is pretty much a part of live now days, it takes incredible effort not to go through it. Relationship CAN be imnproved if both partners are willing to put in the effort. The key word is BOTH, but now days it's just too easy to call it quits and not resolve the differences. What attracted you initially? Is it still there? Are other issues getting in the way? the list goes on and on.
7/31/2009 3:45:19 AM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
irparis39 New York, NY age: 50	I think Brock (my opinion of cause) I said being single is not all its crack up to be and it isn't, its fine for a short season, but not for a lifetime, if it were, there wouldn't millions a singles on these sites 24 hrs a day in some country or another at any given period of time trying to find unconditionally love. The fact is that people are generally happier and healthier when they are with someone. Being single is overrated as I'm sure most people feel marriage is, but not because they don't believe in its basic simple principle, but because the quality of the people one is meeting denotes that many are not marriage material, therefore why date them. They rather stay single. And for someone like me, who has alot of friends who married young 19-mid 20s and are still married 30 years later, I see the grace of marriage with each and everyone of them. And committment and love at times is not inclusive to each other, so to commit to that person one has to choose to do so even when that person is not at his best...health, attractiveness, our own insecurities, weight gain, lost of hair etc. And no, if he's not abusing you or neglecting your kids, not being in love is not a good enough reason to walk away, because at one point she did find him worth her while enough to give him kids and marry him, sometimes you have to go back to the basics and figure out where it all went wrong and what needs to be done and get mad and work it. As I said, it will not always be Mr Toad's RollerCoaster Ride, sometimes it may just be quite darn scary aka the Haunted House on Halloween, but every new day that you get is a a new day to choose to make that day better then yesterday, it benefits you, it benefits your partner, it most certainly benefits your children who don't have to grow up with another single parent, COINCIDENTLY ENOUGH, STILL TRYING TO FIND A PARTNER (and women are notorious for continually bringing home men to move in with them, at times after a few months of dating with their young children, moreso then men with young children) and again another set of kids gets another poor image of our great American realationships skills. And how do you think those kids dating image will be like when they go into the gene pool themselves and find it lacking in quality. And what happens when that dating pool comes into your own home by way of your son/daughter. You want to talk about drama...Its a vicious cycle. As long as people continue to marry with a an option to dispose, it will continue to hurt us financially, emotionally, spiritually and physically. This was not God's intention, His intention was for us to learn to love and mature with one person, because He knew that on our own, certain attributes will not grow to a level worth noting...but with another we can learn to recognize our God given attributes, like humility, humbleness, respect, trust, charity, family, maturity, selflessness, self worth, vulneribility, compassion...etc paris
7/31/2009 4:10:19 AM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
3asygoing Tacoma, WA age: 40	Yes love gets you there then commiting to each other sustains you through the hard times. Its just oh so easy to slap a hand down on the mat and say I give. To many people out there are weak and want what they want. I think there should be some kind of serious test or classes to get married now adays. I fell out of love but I got kids , my husband/wife isnt what I want anymore etc etc. What makes so many weak a people? Marriage is better or worse not till i feel i have to put some effort in it. Tuff titty dont get married if you cant stand up and be a real man or woman!!! To many weak a pussies on this planet in my opinion. Keep watching the tv and reading celeberity news thats fantasy land not the real world shit dont work like that. [Edited 7/31/2009 4:12:24 AM PST]
7/31/2009 5:53:47 AM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
noob_online Imperial Beach, CA age: 52	1. Counseling is a must 2. For the sex get a vibrator. Let him help. 3. Embarrassed to go out with him? Does his too short tee shirt expose his size 56 waist? 4. Even if I sound too preachy go rent the movie "Fireproof". Watch it with him. 5. You could be depressed - try exercise not Prozac. 6. Sometimes life gets a little boring - What are you doing to add excitement? 7. If there are drugs, gambling, screwing around, or alcoholism Ignore 1-6 and RUN.
7/31/2009 10:57:53 AM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
libroe Nashville, TN age: 37	Two books you need to read - 1. Divorcebusting (www.divorcebusting.com) 2. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus If you only read one, read the first one. Perhaps you'll be able to make a more informed decision then. You might also want to use the message boards at www.divorcebusting.com rather than here; look for the one titled "I'm thinking about leaving". I went to the church divorce support group. So, if you're religious I can tell you what I learned there is that there is only one valid reason for divorce - when your spouse cheats and is unrepentant.
7/31/2009 11:06:12 AM	Marriage is not what it used to be...
rdl6897 Charleston, SC age: 41	Quote from 122750again: HUn, its 2009, Nothing is like what it used to be Do talk to your Husband If he thinks everything is Perfect, he has No Clue how you feel Tell Him counciling may help

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