| 12/6/2007 5:11:18 AM |
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eurogerman
Abingdon, MD
age: 48 online now!
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In the first place your post shows that you still value what he thinks or does and it bothers you. You need to totally get away from that. If you can't then you are (honestly) not ready to be on a dating site. It should not bother you what he does, who he talks to or whatever else.... even if there are children involved, if someone is not together, they ARE NOT TOGETHER. Either party does not have the right to watch the other, stalk the other or worry about what the other does. So, my dear, this goes both ways. He has a right to be here, just as you are. If you do not like what he says or does, block him. It it that simple. Your interaction with each other, even having children together, should not go beyond the childrens welfare. Anything else is harrassment... yes even with you.... why post something like that on here.... thats a personal issue that you should be able to handle yourself.... no one is responsible for your emotional welfare but you - no one can help you with this - it is up to you to act like an adult and put a stop to any harrassment. You should get to a place where you are secure enough that it does not matter when an ex knows what you do or say. It is NONE OF HIS BUSINESS..... IT REALLY IS AS SIMPLE AS THAT.... JUST AS IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT HE DOES
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| 12/6/2007 5:37:08 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38 online now!
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who cares shrug it off.....
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| 12/9/2007 6:12:00 PM |
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big_joel
Ash Flat, AR
age: 55
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aww
just dont do like i did
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| 12/9/2007 6:13:33 PM |
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kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 51
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Hey BJ whats up
So what if he is on this site too just worry about you and have some fun and make some friends 
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| 12/9/2007 6:18:08 PM |
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ironhide
Unity, ME
age: 35
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If he don't like it he can go else where.Whats wrong truth hurt?
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| 12/9/2007 6:18:29 PM |
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junkyardhussy2
Chandler, AZ
age: 55
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just go for it and have fun and be yourself shoot you just might end up back together lol gl 2u
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| 12/9/2007 6:46:17 PM |
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brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48
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Block him and ignore him.
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| 12/9/2007 6:55:40 PM |
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shadow107
Gilmanton, NH
age: 49 online now!
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ya block him
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| 12/9/2007 7:13:48 PM |
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candles26
Jonesboro, AR
age: 43
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just ignore him and move on
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| 12/12/2007 3:15:05 AM |
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single41tall
Brookings, SD
age: 41
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so if your that worried just post a blank photo by setting up another account on this site and say the things you want to say and he wont know its you ok girl
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| 12/12/2007 5:13:07 AM |
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big_joel
Ash Flat, AR
age: 55
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but thats no way
to hide from reality isnt the answer
just do your thing only the strong survive
and you know that is right
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| 12/12/2007 5:17:26 AM |
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rainbow41
Old Bridge, NJ
age: 41
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Just be yourself and have fun. I block my ex from all the sites that I join and he is on, dont want to be bothered with the past at all, i always look to the future and move on!! Just have fun in life and not worry about who is on what site.
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| 12/12/2007 6:40:28 AM |
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greeneyedmilf
Chula Vista, CA
age: 37
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im new at this site cant u make it private then you can express your self?change names, id. But then you think its not fair you have to change every thing.
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| 12/13/2007 2:56:29 PM |
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candles26
Jonesboro, AR
age: 43
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try to igrore him ...easy to say and hard to do...
I caught mine talking about me 
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| 12/13/2007 3:08:15 PM |
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queenoftheroad
Cuba, MO
age: 43
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go to different site, if you feel bothered.
what ever you do, do not get down to his level.
beat him at his own game, isn't that what your asking?
drill up thread, see sparks fly... good luck.
ps I wouldn't give a shit what my ex thought of me...
I would scream it from highest mountain top
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