| 12/9/2007 11:15:03 PM |
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cooltammy45
Eugene, OR
age: 45
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Trying to create a relationship with this guy and he runs because he does not want to hurt me. What to do in this situation!! I feel so lost and confused too many mixed signals I suppose.???????
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| 12/9/2007 11:17:05 PM |
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layuover469
Elizabethtown, KY
age: 59
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What kind of relationship does the "guy" want? Ever ask?
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| 12/9/2007 11:23:19 PM |
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cooltammy45
Eugene, OR
age: 45
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He never really said but he did say if it worked out maybe something would come from it I thought a relationship. But he knows I have not had sex for 4 years or better and he says he doesn't want to hurt me. I asked was it just about sex and he says no so I'm confused as to what he is saying. I mean we where suppose to meet then he back out saying the tension is just to great between us that he can't even chat with me with out clicking away.
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| 12/12/2007 11:51:58 PM |
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musicman_zzz
Decatur, AL
age: 40
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Then you really don't need that person. There is a special person out here in this big world, for everyone, we just have to keep looking, and I mean keep looking up---^ God allows us to make our own choices in life, knowing, that a lot of us will "mess" things up somehow; but in a way, allowing us to choose our own paths, make our own decesions, and live, love, and learn, is all a part of what makes us unique. It does get old, though, don't it? Not having someone to be with. Someone to know us better than anyone else?
( ZIP )
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| 12/12/2007 11:54:15 PM |
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musicman_zzz
Decatur, AL
age: 40
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Okay, so I mispelled decisions, shoot me why don't ya.....
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| 12/13/2007 12:03:33 AM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 44
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Time to close that page and move on Tammy. Sounds like he is not into you. He doesn't
want to tell you why because he doesn't want to hurt you. Back off from him and see if he comes back around. I don't think you should wait for him. Just keep moving forward.
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| 12/13/2007 8:23:47 AM |
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 88 online now!
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You know that this is all make believe don't you?
How do you know that you are "talking" to a guy?
Don't take it too seriously untill you make some sort of personal contact.
Even then, it may all be smoke and mirrors.
Don't you have any real people in your life?
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| 12/13/2007 9:28:13 AM |
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queenoftheroad
Cuba, MO
age: 43 online now!
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because they want to keep dating others?
they want to keep gf's before you?
while they email/phone them, daily?
they like to lie to you?
get your money/time?
dump their ass, move on.
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| 12/13/2007 9:30:11 AM |
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from_scratch
Lewisburg, TN
age: 36
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Give her a break skunk, no sense of kicking her while she'e down dude? She is trying to meet new people and find a good man...
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| 12/13/2007 9:39:06 AM |
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elfiegirl
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53 online now!
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The only thing I can say is...he must not be a real good communicator,
and or is not that in touch with his real feelings. It takes ALOT of
time to really get to know someone. How long have you been "talking"???
I learned the hard way...so I take nothing too seriously, and take
nothing for granted on here. I have developed a "wait & see"
attitude.
Just never get too excited and take your time. If he is REAL, you
will find out in due time.
from_scratch...I really like your approach and reading your posts.
I wish more on here were like you! It is refreshing!
Keep it up! Maybe "others" will follow suit. Some are WAY to
judgemental, and never give a person a chance. Kudos to you! 
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| 12/13/2007 9:42:57 AM |
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brokenbridges
Augusta, KS
age: 36
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There could be many reasons behind it.
He could be a jerk playing you
He could just not be sure what HE wants
He could be afraid of getting hurt himself
You won't know unless you confront him. If he doesn't answer, walk away with your head held high cause there is a lucky guy out there for you!!!!!
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| 12/13/2007 9:47:30 AM |
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from_scratch
Lewisburg, TN
age: 36
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Thanks elfie, most are to busy trying to be macho and make smartass remarks that just make themselves look like cavemen, lol. Keep it real people..
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| 12/13/2007 9:47:59 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38 online now!
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yea, forget this guy thats what i say.
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| 12/13/2007 12:39:21 PM |
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 88 online now!
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In another similar thread you ended by saying,"But your right move on is the best thing I could to. Sometimes it takes an out side person to tell someone your doing it wrong or get moving."
So, you didn't move on, and in fact, continue to post these whiny threads.
You will find people with no wisdom here that will enable you.
Do you want to get over this unhealthy and destructive thinking?
Get some counseling!...Stop wallowing in your pity.
Don't you have anyone in your life that you can set down with and talk to?
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| 12/13/2007 1:21:06 PM |
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lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
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You lost me. You haven't in 4 years and you are hung up a guy who dosn't want too.
Am I the only one that think you lost it. Life is short. You not getting younger. Unless you never, then you should.
You need a booty call. Keep it safe. Afterward, then start looking for a man that fillfull all your needs. But right not you are not thinking straight.
Eddie Murphy once said, the lack of make you think a cracker is a ritz cracker until you ate a few, then you realize it just a cracker.
[Edited 12/13/2007 1:22:11 PM]
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