cooltammy45
Eugene, OR
age: 45
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Actually I'm not winy and no I don't need counseling I went once and I was told I'm a strong willed person and if I choose to have or want something I just go after it and archive it. But where your wrong is I have not dated in 27 years and a little rusty at starting up at this time in my life. And it is easier to talk to a stranger than to a friend or family member. Thus why you suggest counselor. But it is cheaper to ask you on line than to pay so I made wise decision. So if you have nothing better to say then to rant and rave at what I post then it is you who is unhappy not I. These threads are meant for conversations of what ever topic we choose. Respect my topic or don't commit with nothing I can use, I except criticism if it is constructively given. Because what I ask for is truth and honesty for that is what I give and what I expect in return.
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lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 55
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Tammy...I once had a guy, very early ..tell me, I was too good for him. Well, of course I thought he was wrong, he was everything I ever wanted or needed...and went forward with "the dance"...4 years later after seeing he could not maintain a job, and living through all the pain that one experiences when they live with an alcoholic..I could not help but think...he did warn me. At this point...you might want to say "all righty..I get the point and move on.
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cooltammy45
Eugene, OR
age: 45
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Actually I have moved on even before I posted this thread I was just curious for some answers if I was wrong or miss leading myself. Looking for some honest answers from DHU people who maybe have had this happen to them. But thank you for the come back it was very insightful for me. And sorry for what you went through that is always a possibility of happening to anyone.
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lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 55
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Thanks Tammy, it was a long time ago, and I became a stronger person because of that relationship...one thing is for sure...When I hear the words...I don't want to hurt you..I pay attention. Glad you are moving on. Mixed signals are just that, all mixed up, b
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chris4747
Pinellas Park, FL
age: 54
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If a relationship is going to develop, it develops. You can't force it. Sometimes it better and listen to what he's not saying as opposed to what he is saying.
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