| 12/13/2007 8:39:39 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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sweetgurly
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 34
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 To me i can see if a lady have 6 kids or more but but i only have two and there 10 years apart. to me it is getting harder and harder to find a women with out kids not unless there out middle school LOL! and now at that age they have kids. I don't think that is fair to judge you because of your kids, that is life now days
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| 12/13/2007 8:47:21 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 88 online now!
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It may not be about judging you, though having kids could be an indicator of questionable behaviour.
It is probably that the men you are talking about just do not care to take on additional responsibilities beyond those of a relationship/marriage. Which is their choice to make.
Having even one kid in a new relationship is problamatic and an obstacle that many can not deal with.
It all depends on the woman, kids, and the man and how well they work together and what skills the parents have.gl
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| 12/13/2007 8:49:51 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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sweetgurly
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 34
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do you date a women with out kids or does it matter to you
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| 12/13/2007 8:59:07 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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women who have children, no big deal, i would date them, its the children at times that may have a problem as to who we date....and a lady who has chilren from a number of men.........
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| 12/13/2007 9:02:13 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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from_scratch
Lewisburg, TN
age: 36
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Its nt about your children darling, you just gotta be patient and the right one will come along.I think having kids would be a plus in my book, childbirth to me is a miracle,a blessing, gods greatest gift! There are plenty of men out there,like me, that love children, u will find one...
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| 12/13/2007 9:13:32 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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sweetgurly
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 34
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thanks scratch
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| 12/13/2007 9:26:15 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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from_scratch
Lewisburg, TN
age: 36
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Hang in there sweet, and DON'T SETTLE for anything less than what you deserve!
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| 12/13/2007 9:28:22 AM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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nashoba_miko
Bethany, OK
age: 38
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I have four Sweet....never been an issue. They are DEFINATELY out there girl!
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| 12/13/2007 1:55:02 PM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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bobby57530
Rosedale, NY
age: 51
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Dear Sweetgurly this issue is what ended a 5 year relationship for me....I met a very lovely woman with four daughters ,ages 20, 18,10 & 5 years old but at the time only her 2 youngest daughters were with her while her 2 oldest lived together in P.A. About 9 mounths later they found themselves homeless and moved into my home . The oldest daughter had 2 children by age 19 , second oldest hid seven months of pregnancy from mom and then wanted to run off with boyfriend . Months later my girlfriends sister (a single mother of 4) suffered a nearvous breakdown and needed someone to take care of her children ages 15, 14, 12, & 11. I now had nine girls and one boy in my 5 bedroom home.... My home became a battleground while I was at work  , not to mention the young boys now hanging around the house...( 4pm - 12pm). The issues became unbearable and I knew that the end was near..It was know affecting my relationship with my own children to the point that they refused to even visit me at home or stay overnight.....Bottom line is that two years later,and $10,000. in damages to my home I can see why a man would rather not have a relationship with a woman with children........
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| 12/13/2007 2:04:20 PM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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it's not them it's just that it's not in the cards.change is hard enough and even harder for new relationships.it's just good to know upfront.most men like kids but some don't.some like them but not around 24/7.there are men,like me in the same boat.i prefer women with kids since they already understand the lifestyle.the demands are greater and some people want someone who is top priority.
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| 12/13/2007 2:10:43 PM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 88 online now!
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"do you date a women with out kids or does it matter to you"
I assume you were asking me.
I have and would. I try to look at the "whole." Being a single mother is a tough road and some situations are not improvable because of the mother's inability to learn.
I support a single mother's efforts if they are in the child's best interest, but some circumstances are just impossible and those i stay away from.
gl
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| 12/13/2007 2:16:04 PM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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bythestars
Springfield, MO
age: 41
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JMO
Men want to be numero uno. If they don't have kids, or their kids are being raised by some else, they do not understand that: at times will have to drop everything for your kids, after all they depend on you, and must come first sometimes.
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| 12/13/2007 2:20:37 PM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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saffire_eyes
Clearfield, UT
age: 37
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I dont know ... I am a woman that has 0 kids yet have no problem dating a man that does.
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| 12/13/2007 2:25:45 PM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38 online now!
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I have full custody of my son , so i am a full time daddy , if my kid is considered "bagage" or an inconvenience , then you are certainly looking at the wrong guy.
I respect anyone's point of view , some people don't want an already made family , i can understand that.
There is someone for every one out there.
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| 12/13/2007 2:28:38 PM |
why is that men don't want a women with kids, what the big deal!!! |
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saffire_eyes
Clearfield, UT
age: 37
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from far (way far lol )past experiences .... the men I date that had kids well...the kids made it fun and you have to respect a person that is taking care of their responsibilities .eh?
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