12/18/2007 10:25:00 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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sg240
New York, NY
age: 50
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I went out with this guy I met online. We met twice, and ended up getting pretty physical on the second date.
We have plans to meet again this week, but now I see him online on that site all the time. He does call and mail me, but I feel jealous, because I think he's looking for other women. I know we just met, and it isn't "serious" yet between us or anything even like that, but it makes me nuts to know he's out there looking around, especially after what happened on our date!
I hate this! and I was all excited to see him this week, too, because I really enjoyed his company.
Guys, what are your thoughts? Gals? Anybody? Help! I feel like an idiot!
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12/18/2007 10:33:48 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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itsjustme67
Salem, MO
age: 41
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if its going to work ther has to be trust
maybe hes just talking with friends
have you asked him yet dont jump to soon it might be nothing
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12/18/2007 10:35:37 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38
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That's the problem with these sites!
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12/18/2007 10:37:31 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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sg240
New York, NY
age: 50
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Itsjust me and mag11, thanks, you're both right.
I know, jumping to conclusions. He could just be chatting. I doubt it, but he could be, you're right.
And yes, that's the problem with these sites!!!! F*ing hate it!
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12/18/2007 10:43:45 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 44
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Don't let that green monster comsume you. Just be confident with who you are. If it's meant to be, he will quit looking or chatting. Think of it this way, you are on here talking on the forums, so don't jump to condem him so quick. Take your time and let things happen on thier own. Enjoy your time. Be glad your dates went well. Look at the up side to things.
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12/18/2007 10:48:49 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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sg240
New York, NY
age: 50
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Cats, thanks so much, I appreciate your response.
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12/18/2007 10:49:45 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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cat...exactly. 
Enjoy what you have, live the moment. 
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12/18/2007 10:52:44 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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sg240
New York, NY
age: 50
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Cat, how'd you get so wise? Gee. I may be fifty years old but I feel like a fricking teenager with this stuff!
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12/18/2007 10:54:26 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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the_infamous1
Ridgeville, SC
age: 33
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BS if he's still on here flirting and searching then you might end up yesterdays news if i were you i'd keep my options open as well..JMO
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12/18/2007 10:55:24 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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texaggie71
American Canyon, CA
age: 58
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SG,
From a man's perspective, I'd suggest you play it cool and give it time to see if he's a player or if he's just being friendly to others, as may be his nature.
This is the 3rd date, right; that's a good spot to be in, so don't blow it by being jealous or letting things between you get too physical too fast.
If things continue between you and he and the attraction and friendship grow over the holidays and in to next year, then you can begin to think about his fidelity.
BEST ADVICE ~ Be Cool !!!
Good luck and Merry Christmas !!!
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12/18/2007 11:02:07 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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sg240
New York, NY
age: 50
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Texas Aggie and infamous1, thanks so much. I think everybody here is right! Elements of what all of you are saying create the truth, I think.
Oh, lord. Yikes! HATE "dating". Sucks!
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12/18/2007 11:03:26 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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cherokeerose07
Pottsboro, TX
age: 48 online now!
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hmmmmmm, I probably would be too. Smile and just have fun.
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12/18/2007 11:12:47 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53 online now!
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Life is too short for jealousy..enjoy what you have but keep your options open, dont get hooked too fast, you never know.
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12/18/2007 11:20:40 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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sg240
New York, NY
age: 50
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Hi emt, you're absolutely right. That's my problem, I do tend to get attached very quickly. Always have. My girlfriend even said to me "Just see how it plays out", and she's right of course.
Sigh. 
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12/18/2007 11:22:27 AM |
Help! I'm jealous of the man I met online, who's still "searching" |
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cherokeerose07
Pottsboro, TX
age: 48 online now!
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you are very pretty you just shine girl and let your beauty come through, you really dont want a jerk in your life anyway.
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