| 12/19/2007 7:29:43 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Hey ya girl, You know I was just wondering and yea like i said...There are those exceptions. We live and learn and your a great person. I'm glad you don't seem all bitter and pissed at all men for it tho.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/19/2007 7:32:31 AM |
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mountainangel
Charmco, WV
age: 38
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thanks peaches i know you did mean anything with your words.but like you said we all live and learn to know the red flags when the rise up.
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| 12/19/2007 7:33:43 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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funny thing you were 16 when this happened and you adnmit you were young--but like i said try to put that in the burner if possible and move on to better--you have the experience now to avoid that for happening again because you're smater from that bad experience--try not to tell the next guy the pitfalls unless he asks you why you react to him as you do--if he insists and likes mutual conversation ask him in a way if i open up to you about your past would you make sure today and our future is about "us" and better things...
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| 12/19/2007 7:34:00 AM |
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jockamo
Staten Island, NY
age: 63
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HOW ABOUT JUST PLAINING FALLING OUT OF LOVE PAL 
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| 12/19/2007 7:35:33 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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rod in NJ the man is always guilty even if the woman lies--get a good woman attorney to help you--just like they know what pleases a woman they also know what ticks them off--
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| 12/19/2007 7:35:53 AM |
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jockamo
Staten Island, NY
age: 63
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JUST PLAIN FALLING OUT OF LOVE PAL IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME YA NO !
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| 12/19/2007 7:39:20 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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jock: are you closed minded or set in your ways--if you're both or just one, at our age that can happen but some event happened to create your falling out of love--can you be open in your next relationship --that's the question--yes, love is a mutual thingy--and without two --yes, that can happen to you...by the way you have an attractive family as i hope when there's a family event everyone attends in or out of love--esp from staten Island
[Edited 12/19/2007 7:41:21 AM]
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| 12/19/2007 7:43:46 AM |
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phillygirl0007
Philadelphia, PA
age: 46
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well, i guess i don't really fall into any of those categories, although if i had to pick one it would probably be money. it was more that my husband was very passive, not ambitious, unhappy with his life. that was okay, to a point, but when i went back to school and started to make positive changes in my life, he became very threatened and more and more unhappy. we tried very hard to make it work, counseling, trial separations, but we finally divorced two years ago and are very good friends now, both devoted to our children.
so, as a result, yes, i look for someone who is very secure, confident, not easily threatened. the money, job, material stuff really doesnt matter at all to me, if he is comfortable in his own skin.
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| 12/19/2007 7:52:40 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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Philly good post: i would think he came from a family where his dad may have been the bread winner/ mom didn't work--and at 1st he tried to be that but today both spouses usually have to work esp if we end up on this website--and sometimes women take a new attitude to better themselves and of course someone can feel threaten when that ahppens esp if his career path may have stalled--and yours began--life insurance was to protect our familes income to continue (bread winner)--today it is usally on both spouses figuring any income loss is a family's loss
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| 12/19/2007 7:58:33 AM |
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phillygirl0007
Philadelphia, PA
age: 46
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thanks sorprano . . . i think this is true of more men than would care to admit it . . . it takes time to really find out - because a lot of men ATTEMPT to be okay with it, but deep down they're not . . . that early training comes out eventually!
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| 12/19/2007 8:12:57 AM |
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steveredman
Spotswood, NJ
age: 37 online now!
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My soon to be ex-wife and I both messed up the relationship. I admit that. But towards then end she forgot what it meant to be a wife and partner. She was disrespectful. Did not understand why I did not want her to have male friends in the condo at all ours of the night.
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| 12/19/2007 8:20:13 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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sometimes condos are over- priced rentals...it's a 1st stop for someone to build some equity as i'm in the business but eventually you'll meet Ms right soon enough because together you can put the negatives behind you and maybe have your neighbors not crowd the block you live on
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| 12/19/2007 8:43:17 AM |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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as jimmy buffet said:
some people claim,
that there's a woman to blame.
but i know
it's my own damn fault.
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| 12/19/2007 8:51:20 AM |
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17cloverman
Delanson, NY
age: 44 online now!
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mountainangel ,live and learn I've been there 4 times . When do you start to learn?
Pirate Jimmy Buffet said it right!
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| 12/19/2007 9:03:57 AM |
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jockamo
Staten Island, NY
age: 63
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HEY GUY NOT TO GOOD AT THIS COMPUTER STUFF BUT THANKS ABOUT THE FAMILY THING . YES TODAY THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHERSIDE OF THE FENCE. IVE BEEN AROUND THE BLOCK A LOT OF TIMES IN MY YRS . I CAN WRITE A BOOK ON WOMAN THEY ARE SOMETING ELSE . YEP THERE ARE GOOD ONES IM SURE BUT I MET ALL THE BAD ONES LUCKY ME LOL LOL LOL 
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