| 12/19/2007 7:04:18 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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...about cheating
...about money
...bad sex
...communication problems
...blood (her or his family) is thicker than water (you)
...physical and emotional abuse
...or what reason if not listed
if it's about any of them above are you upfront in your next relationship when it gets to some point that you are actually more secure to discuss the reasons with this partner to be
...do most of you try to aviod such pitfalls esp coming out of a bad relationship
...say you did come out of a relationship for example and it's about "money" do you look to make up for that in your next relationship perhaps having a profile crying out the need for materialistic values--or you're not one to go there at all...be honest this may be fun ...
...so if you pick any reason above ( yes it could be a combo of the above too)do you look to make up for your losses in the next relationship or you're one to select any reason(s) above but are open to someone new in your life because lonliness for example sucks...
[Edited 12/19/2007 7:14:13 AM]
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| 12/19/2007 7:05:49 AM |
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dkellyntx
Center, TX
age: 38 online now!
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Beer was more important then family..
Also due to the beer he was emotionally abusive...
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| 12/19/2007 7:08:22 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Ok...I'll probably get bashed for this but,.....It takes TWO to make it work so, Logically and very rarely have I ever seen it otherwise...It takes TWO to screw it up. Take that however you want to but, I'm sure If you look really deep you'll see it. Good Luck.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/19/2007 7:08:49 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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sorry to hear that happened to you--no one should ever have a coward use any substance to be so abusive to anyone...so what have you been doing to avoid a similar pitfall--do you frequent or avoid speak easys--like bars etc--how do you meet people other than online--
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| 12/19/2007 7:09:44 AM |
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bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46
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no communication-lack of trust:first two things that come to mind
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| 12/19/2007 7:12:47 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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yes peachless: it takes two to tangle but hopefully you'll find that special someone mutually one day--esp reading your divorce is pending
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| 12/19/2007 7:16:15 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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buck tail: forgot to list that--i edited that in thanks--somehow my marriage lacked communication and trust but wasn't about cheating--mine fell under blood was thicker than water for sure--her family came first esp in business--she kept the negatives of it from me--
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| 12/19/2007 7:16:21 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Thanks, I've moved on...I waited 2yrs and I'm dating a really wonderful young man. I just hate seeing ppl say...He/She carries all the blame for a relationship.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/19/2007 7:17:46 AM |
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mountainangel
Charmco, WV
age: 38
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MY first marriage ended in divorce because he cheated on me a few times,and could'nt keep his hands off of me and i mean in a bad way.
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| 12/19/2007 7:19:13 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Ok well, I'm not trying to be a B*tch or anything...but, Were you just Innoncent in all of it too? 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/19/2007 7:21:07 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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angel no man should ever physically or mentally abuse you--i'm sure it was hard at 1st to trust another man but a good reason is never compare the next man to the one you've had--even widows should not expect better just a guy who offers better qualities timely at the present moment...life is so short as it is--
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| 12/19/2007 7:22:26 AM |
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mountainangel
Charmco, WV
age: 38
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yea peaches i was,i was 16 years old going to school,didnt get to do anything but stay up his ass the way he wanted me to.i was young and stupid.hello peaches.
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| 12/19/2007 7:24:44 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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peaches--i've heard many horrible stories about relationships in WV and many other states where the law looks another way--anyhow i bet she confronted her man and then he maybe just took it upon himself to start abusing her--and the smart thing is she's alive and able to tell her story is my point--i applaude her for opening up here--
she was 16 and didn't know better--i may have thought that
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| 12/19/2007 7:28:07 AM |
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mountainangel
Charmco, WV
age: 38
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Thanks saprano,i could tell you all kinds of shit i dealt with from him,when you go through what i have it does carry into the next one and yes it makes it really hard to trust again.
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| 12/19/2007 7:28:52 AM |
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rodlynn
New Britain, CT
age: 44
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All of the above and false allegations, except no physical abuse,
haven't been with the B*%CH in seven and now she is claiming
physical abuse, and the court knows she is lying but doesn't care 
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