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                countrylady53 
                Terrell, TX 
                age: 56 
                
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                I'm reading threads here and wondering, would I actually want to marry again. 
                I am really in a good place in my life, would I want to complicate that? 
                How many of you over 50 would really want to marry again? 
                 
                 
                 
                 
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                | 2/25/2010 8:25:28 AM | 
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                stumppy 
                  
                Bath, PA 
                age: 64 
                
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                Not looking for marriage or a serious relationship, but would like someone to share interests with 
                 
                  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 8:26:42 AM | 
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                hotpockets 
                Maple Shade, NJ 
                age: 54 
                
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                  Not looking for marriage or a serious relationship, but would like someone to share interests with 
                  
                    
                   
                   
                   
                   
                   -->> Agree don't need a contract for love!!!   
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 8:32:51 AM | 
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                alicia050563 
                Tacoma, WA 
                age: 46 online now! 
                
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                Most definitely! Whether getting married, writing a book, writing a song, learning a dance or whatever, I would not let my age keep me from what I wanted to do..We can always bend and change to help make a fit if we fall in love.. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 8:35:16 AM | 
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                lovethelake17 
                  
                Henderson, NV 
                age: 51 
                
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                I'd like to be married again. If it doesn't happen, it will be fine, too. I liked being married. It was a good one, I'd like that again. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 8:36:02 AM | 
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                crzyblubttrfly 
                Fort Smith, AR 
                age: 51 
                
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                Sure if it was the right connection. But I do think not enough women are paying enough attention to just how many married women would Love to be in their situation. I am happiest in a one on one relationship, but this certainly has many positives.  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:10:26 AM | 
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                beachingirl 
                  
                Stone Harbor, NJ 
                age: 52 
                
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                Nope X100   
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:13:04 AM | 
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                arkansasnman 
                  
                Fayetteville, AR 
                age: 47 
                
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                Hmmmm.......why exactly 50? 
                 
                Does something happen at 50 I don't know about? 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:14:09 AM | 
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                spider77 
                  
                Adamsville, AL 
                age: 58 
                
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                Only if I had a total labotomy. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:22:31 AM | 
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                countrylady53 
                Terrell, TX 
                age: 56 
                
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                    Hmmmm.......why exactly 50? 
                     
                    Does something happen at 50 I don't know about?
                    
                  I had to pick a number - that one seemed good at the moment. 
                  I do think this changes with age, just like many things do. 
                  I think I've revised alot of my thinking since I turned 50. 
                  And it's all been for the better! 
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 9:27:53 AM | 
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                jonas35 
                  
                Dahlonega, GA 
                age: 36 
                
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                Im only 36 and don't want to get married again. Just sex would be fine. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:30:23 AM | 
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                alleyboy10 
                Springville, PA 
                age: 59 
                
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                don't think i would marry  again but would like to have a an exclusive relationship with the right person-i think maybe we are to independent -but who knows with the right person maybe- maybe all we want is a FWB  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:33:27 AM | 
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                midnightriddler 
                  
                Sitka, AK 
                age: 41 
                
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                I'm not over 50... yet. 
                But still. 
                 
                 
                My philosophy for the time being is, 
                Better dead than wed. 
                  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:34:32 AM | 
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                leftarian 
                  
                Hermosa Beach, CA 
                age: 46 
                
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                I wouldn't think about it unless I was with someone who it was worth thinking about. No reason to make a blanket avowal or denial. Things change depending on who you are with. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:36:51 AM | 
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                pretzelman59 
                Las Vegas, NV 
                age: 59 
                
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                No...at my age, not only will I not marry. I doubt if I will ever date again. I might join somebody for coffee( but not at Starbucks), but we will meet there and go our separate ways. After four marriages, enough is enough 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:36:57 AM | 
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                arkansasnman 
                  
                Fayetteville, AR 
                age: 47 
                
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                I have never seen anything wrong with marriage. In my experiance that's what you do with the woman you fall in love with. I doubt I'll change my mind in the next few years. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 9:42:24 AM | 
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                missmmeoftheday 
                  
                Brooklyn, NY 
                age: 44 
                
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                I hope that in 6 years I'm still open to marriage... and love... and all that good stuff.... lol.... 
                 
                Marriage isn't the goal it once was, but certainly something I would never discount from my future. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 10:13:10 AM | 
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                angel_one 
                Rochester, NH 
                age: 50 
                
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                I really hadn't thought about it but I don't think at this point I'm looking for a forever commitment. I am at a really good place in my life and would love to share my time with someone but marry? I don't think so. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 10:27:56 AM | 
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                swridgerunner 
                  
                Granite Falls, MN 
                age: 52 
                
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                You betcha!!!!!! 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 10:40:29 AM | 
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                bigbazborn 
                  
                Buellton, CA 
                age: 45 
                
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                Here's my plan: 
                 
                I'm gonna marry a rich octagenarian. 
                Then when she kicks the bucket I'm going to marry a hot 25 year old. 
                I should be dead within 5 years after that. 
                 
                Sound good?   
                 
                Bry   
                
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                | 2/25/2010 10:45:47 AM | 
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                esmeraldar 
                  
                Toms River, NJ 
                age: 61 
                
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                I really don't want to marry again. It would be nice to have an exclusive relationship and possibly cohabit but I don't see any need for marriage at this age. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 10:53:38 AM | 
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                readyforhugs 
                Ripley, TN 
                age: 50 
                
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                I don't know that I''ll decide to get married again, but if I do I wouldn't think of it as complicating my life. It would change my life in various ways, some less bothersome than others. 
                I do know that should I ever make the decision to remarry, it'll be without the blinders I had on in my early 20's. I know what I find 'cute' today may irritate the heck out of me a few years from now, I didn't then! 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 11:00:47 AM | 
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                countrylady53 
                Terrell, TX 
                age: 56 
                
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                  Here's my plan: 
                  
                  I'm gonna marry a rich octagenarian. 
                  Then when she kicks the bucket I'm going to marry a hot 25 year old. 
                  I should be dead within 5 years after that.
                   
                  Sound good?   
                  
                  Bry    
                  Absolutely BRILLIANT! 
                    
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 11:36:53 AM | 
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                barbaraajo
   
                Reston, VA 
                age: 53 
                
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                I would..if I could find the right man  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 11:46:34 AM | 
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                tracylee1 
                Carlsbad, NM 
                age: 54 
                
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                sure why not--     
                
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                | 2/25/2010 11:47:31 AM | 
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                lovethelake17 
                  
                Henderson, NV 
                age: 51 
                
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                  Here's my plan: 
                  
                  I'm gonna marry a rich octagenarian. 
                  Then when she kicks the bucket I'm going to marry a hot 25 year old. 
                  I should be dead within 5 years after that.
                   
                  Sound good?   
                  
                  Bry    
                   
                  Dang it! I don't fit on either count. 
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 11:48:35 AM | 
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                tracylee1 
                Carlsbad, NM 
                age: 54 
                
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                why does it say sometimes that this thread has ended 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 11:59:14 AM | 
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                rhodora 
                Queen Creek, AZ 
                age: 33 
                
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                If I were 50 and still single, I would want to marry still. I had a friend and she was over 65 and she still got married the second time. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 12:32:50 PM | 
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                pretzelman59 
                Las Vegas, NV 
                age: 59 
                
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                I just learned of a lady here in Las Vegas(relative of an aquiantance) that got married at 83. Died at 97. What does this mean? Wisdom doesn't come with age!!  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 1:20:46 PM | 
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                wsprs0nthewind
   
                Powell, TN 
                age: 45 
                
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                Do I have to wait til I'm 50 to answer this? 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 1:23:24 PM | 
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                lovethelake17 
                  
                Henderson, NV 
                age: 51 
                
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                  I just learned of a lady here in Las Vegas(relative of an aquiantance) that got married at 83. Died at 97. What does this mean? Wisdom doesn't come with age!!   
                   
                  Well, was she happy for those 14 years? 
                   
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                countrylady53 
                Terrell, TX 
                age: 56 
                
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                    Do I have to wait til I'm 50 to answer this?
                    
                  Nope, jump right in! 
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 2:10:56 PM | 
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                pretzelman59 
                Las Vegas, NV 
                age: 59 
                
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                Well, was she happy for those 14 years?/////////  
                 
                 
                 
                Probably, but then again, most delusional or crazy people ARE happy! 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 2:13:09 PM | 
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                kgearly1021 
                  
                Valdosta, GA 
                age: 50 
                
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                Hell I will not marry again at any age. Marriage is disposable. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 2:34:32 PM | 
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                sandra49ok 
                  
                Shelton, WA 
                age: 51 
                
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                that is a great big NOT ME 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 2:47:36 PM | 
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                wsprs0nthewind
   
                Powell, TN 
                age: 45 
                
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                    Hell I will not marry again at any age. Marriage is disposable.
                    
                   
                  So are relationships when you think about it. 
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 3:08:08 PM | 
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                pretzelman59 
                Las Vegas, NV 
                age: 59 
                
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                I am glad to see that most agree that they would not marry again. I thought I was in a small minority. This is refreshing. ALL relationships and ALL people are disposable 
                 
                 
                 
                [Edited 2/25/2010 3:08:58 PM PST] 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 3:12:58 PM | 
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                justmemaree 
                  
                Queensland 
                Australia 
                age: 47 
                
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                Ive been divorced since I was 39, and decided back then I would never remarry........ I dont feel the need to have a peice of paper to prove my love for someone. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 3:45:02 PM | 
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                countrylady53 
                Terrell, TX 
                age: 56 
                
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                    I am glad to see that most agree that they would not marry again. I thought I was in a small minority. This is refreshing. ALL relationships and ALL people are disposable
                    
                  Nice to know we're normal, huh? 
                  I've pretty much made it my policy to keep toxic people out of my life. 
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 3:50:39 PM | 
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                basketballover 
                  
                Billerica, MA 
                age: 40 
                
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                I always wanted to be married and have a family. It was my dream, but after my bad marriage and what my kids go through. I don't think so. Unless the next one is in law enforcement (can handle the ex-husband) I'm not going anywhere near the alter. But then again, who knows what God has planned for us....... 
                 
                 
                 
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                | 2/25/2010 4:11:30 PM | 
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                rocket000 
                  
                Murrayville, GA 
                age: 52 
                
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                Although marriage is not my goal, I'd like to know the option is on the table. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 4:59:00 PM | 
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                settee_for_2
   
                Flower Mound, TX 
                age: 56 
                
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                Yeah, I've seen this question before...it is an option and I'm sure I'll feel differently when I am in love again but at the moment, I'll just say it is a remote possibility.  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 5:04:01 PM | 
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                bones01 
                  
                Orange, CA 
                age: 61 
                
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                I would like an exclusive monogomous relationship and maybe even co-habitate if we can honestly get along but marriage? Nope. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 5:05:25 PM | 
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                yourfriendbob 
                  
                Fayette, OH 
                age: 55 
                
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                I still believe in marriage. 
                It is one of the symbolic rituals that connect us with our past and our beliefs. 
                 
                My first marriage lasted 13 years and ended in death. 
                My second marriage lasted over 15 years and ended in divorce. 
                 
                I am intrigued to find out if there is a third way for it to end horribly...  
                
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                | 2/25/2010 5:10:04 PM | 
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                pretzelman59 
                Las Vegas, NV 
                age: 59 
                
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                Therein lies the problem...for many it is a "ritual". Not one for rituals or tradition. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 5:26:27 PM | 
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                gdaddy47 
                Columbia, TN 
                age: 62 
                
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                I have nothing against marriage. Matter of fact to me that's what I would want to do with the lady I love. Seems natural. Still would rather be alone than marrying just so I am not alone or heavens forbid, marry the wrong person. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 5:43:01 PM | 
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                dinkasu48 
                  
                Henderson, TX 
                age: 49 
                
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                I think during my divorce, there was still an ounce of romantic hope that even though 
                my marriage was a colossal failure, and I was pretty blind for about 30 years, about 
                my x in general... 
                I thought.. well maybe.. 
                 
                well dh forums and a few other dating site forums set me straight... 
                 
                HELL NO 
                after reading the anger/ bossy opinionated, sex opinions on these forums from MEN 
                and seeing in their profile, hoping for a young one, or their requirements 
                of hunting/fishing/espn sport loving/ chewing/ nascar loving, men who have 
                permenent butt cheek marks in their lazy boy chairs 2 feet from the boob tube... 
                 
                 
                I say again.... 
                 
                HELL NO 
                 
                ######## 
                but if I find a gent, that enjoys that particular activity I am doing at that particular 
                time, and we have a good time doing it and being together, it could possibly develop 
                into something.. that something I am not sure what it would be called, but something... 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 6:03:27 PM | 
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                pretzelman59 
                Las Vegas, NV 
                age: 59 
                
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                I think most women would agree with you. If you can find a man who likes doing what you are doing, when you want to do it, you might consider marriage. Sure, if you can find someone in complete agreement with you and you can manipulate them.....why not get married?? 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 6:21:09 PM | 
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                jennyann71 
                  
                Clarksville, AR 
                age: 68 
                
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                Na, I do not want to do house work or cook or clean and share my money .   
                
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                | 2/25/2010 6:22:44 PM | 
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                shanemcdane 
                Bakersfield, CA 
                age: 57 
                
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                I would have to do it once first, but I would like to get married after 50 for the first time. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 6:35:21 PM | 
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                barrydean 
                  
                Springville, UT 
                age: 42 
                
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                ask me in 7 1/2 yrs   
                
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                | 2/25/2010 7:35:36 PM | 
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                skip4637 
                Jacksonville, AR 
                age: 72 
                
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                as for me, right now, soon after divorce. iam saying no. but then i think do i wont to maybe lay in hospital room, in my last moments of life, with no one there. who loved me or say cared , any situation in parting this world a person would wont to know some one cared . loneyness to me seems like slow torture in ones feeling an life. i know it make me sad , to see friend passing , an knowing how lonly he had been in life. yes ithink i would marry again on down the road time permitting   
                
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                wsprs0nthewind
   
                Powell, TN 
                age: 45 
                
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                    I would have to do it once first, but I would like to get married after 50 for the first time.
                    
                   
                  And I thought there was no way you were 56 and had just posted an older picture. See what never getting married does for the complection. Singledom is the secret to the fountain of youth.   
                   
                  Disclaimer: I DO own the rights to the word singledom.   
                   
                   
                   
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                lovely4u24evr 
                Chicago, IL 
                age: 51 
                
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                Sometime I think I want to be with someone and have all that comes with it and then  I think wow this is great I like not having anyone to answer to but I dont wont to live along either I am torn sometimes 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 8:24:55 PM | 
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                rhennae 
                Panama City, FL 
                age: 50 
                
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                Well, I will be 50 in just a couple of weeks and right now I don't have the person in my life that would make me want to spend the rest of my life with him, so speaking for the here and now, should I meet someone that I thought might be Mr. Right, I would rather date, be friends, me keep my place and him keep his until we are absolutely sure that we can stand to be around each other that long! 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 8:26:38 PM | 
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                hockeychick7 
                  
                North Sioux City, SD 
                age: 41 
                
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                    Hmmmm.......why exactly 50? 
                     
                    Does something happen at 50 I don't know about?
                    
                   
                  i think you have to join a cult...lol 
                   
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                | 2/25/2010 9:46:13 PM | 
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                alicia050563 
                Tacoma, WA 
                age: 46 online now! 
                
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                Thinking even further about this as the day progressed, and reading the posts...Religious beliefs plays a huge part..My value system is as such, that I would not live with a man unless I was married to him..That's just me!!! Marriage is complicated, but so is life in general..Having a deeply authentic, intimate and connected relationship is what I want.. 
                
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                | 2/25/2010 10:01:06 PM | 
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                raith 
                  
                Boise, ID 
                age: 49 
                
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                I was happy when I was married and would do it again but I still have three months before I reach 50 so it might change. 
                 
                After reading this thread I guess the possibility of find some one my age that wants to get married is pretty slim. 
                 
                So it will probably be the single life for me. 
                 
                ~Raith 
                 
                 
                 
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                sommerled95 
                Tulsa, OK 
                age: 56 
                
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                  I still believe in marriage. 
                  It is one of the symbolic rituals that connect us with our past and our beliefs.
                   
                  My first marriage lasted 13 years and ended in death. 
                  My second marriage lasted over 15 years and ended in divorce.
                   
                  I am intrigued to find out if there is a third way for it to end horribly...   
                   
                  Nope, there are only those two. 
                   
                  But I am a pessimist. 
                   
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                | 2/26/2010 4:29:09 AM | 
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                cleymax 
                  
                Milwaukee, WI 
                age: 60 
                
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                  I would..if I could find the right man   
                   
                  just read your profile "I am not in search anymore?.. mixed signals?...  
                   
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