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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
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I used to buy Playboy for my first husband and I was with him for over 12 years and he never cheated. So I do not believe that looking promotes cheating....If they are going to cheat then they will do it without having to look at Porn...
I know this is going to get me blasted but this is just my opion.
I watch porn and I do not cheat...
Ummm...not gonna get blasted by me Rose
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
54, joined Aug. 2009
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That is because you are still trying to get me into that hot tub... 
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
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Rose....come on now! What gives you that idea? But to be a true gentleman, you have to bring your suit!
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scottalive1
Phoenix, AZ
55, joined Oct. 2006
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Learn any tricks you're dying to try out? 
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
54, joined Aug. 2009
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Wouldn't you like to know... 
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Looks like she's gonna keep you guessin'
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scottalive1
Phoenix, AZ
55, joined Oct. 2006
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Guess I'll have to go take dance lessons... and buy her a few drinks. 
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exoticxx
Tempe, AZ
30, joined Apr. 2010
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lol!! omg no its not CHEATING!! That's like saying MASTURBATING..Which can only be done by yourself is cheating...porn is just added visual effects!  hmmm now that reminds me....be right back! lol
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brwneyedlatina
Phoenix, AZ
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lol!! omg no its not CHEATING!! That's like saying MASTURBATING..Which can only be done by yourself is cheating...porn is just added visual effects! hmmm now that reminds me....be right back! lol
actually when ur significant other keeps it a secret yeah it is now if u guys are doin it together or even makin it together than its not but when it becomes and obsession and he/she needs to meet with other people and do it than yes it is
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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I never said coveting another man's wife was OK, only that it was not as bad as actually doing anything about it. All I was objecting to was categorizing desiring being as bad as actually committing Adultry.
Ok answer this one!
Where does action come from?
If you don't think it, it won't be?
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stoner_69
Glendale, AZ
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I agee with you if you are commited to somebody then yes it is, yes i think it is cheating. but on the uther hand if somebody was sngal or even dating then i would say no its not cheating.
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reddevil77
Glendale, AZ
38, joined Jan. 2009
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If you are in a committed relationship, it is cheating.
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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Just because you find someone attractive does not mean you have to consumate the attraction. What I say is that if you are attracted, acknowledge that fact and avoid being around her if possible. remember that you are committed to a wonderful woman and you don't want to lose what you have with her. Even if you fooled around and got away with it, you have now sullied the relationship and your sense of honor, in addition to any moral values you hold dear. Suppressing the fact of an attraction doesn't negate the fact you feel that way, but simply drives the feelings underground. Be honest with yorself that the attraction exists and don't avoid any potentially comprimising situation.
OK, WHATEVER! You have gone way beyond what has been asked.
You have made it a personal,and it is not about you,or i!
When do you let go? Are you going to hang on until you have beat it to death????
Again, where does action start????????
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
54, joined Aug. 2009
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I do not think that looking is CHEATING. Just because I am with someone does not mean that I have to become blind. If that is the case then I would not want to be with that person...
I have always looked but my other half has also known that looking is all that I would do.
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scottalive1
Phoenix, AZ
55, joined Oct. 2006
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Hey TR Have you caoght me lookin?
Have't have eyes in the back of your head...
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
54, joined Aug. 2009
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scott...I think that I caught you looking a few times on Thursday night when I was dancing..In fact I think it made me miss a step or two a couple of times...
As for eyes in the back of my head wouldn't you like to know.
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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for most guys looking is cheating,because they do put it into action!
It makes women think twice about any man.
Me i may look,although not to the point where i knocked in the head!
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cjvill
Belton, TX
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It definitely depends on the relationship that you and the man have, But, as a General outline. No, It's not. (not in my eyes, but I'm not much for porn, anyway.)Although, If men look at porn, Correct me if I'm wrong, A lot of women can take it offensively like they aren't giving him enough, or aren't good enough in bed, etc, etc. As for women looking at porn and mens feelings about it, I have no idea, oddly enough. XD
Note: It also depends on if the guy is JUST watching, or if he's taking action while doing it, If the guy is masturbating while watching, which isn't rare, then yeah, It could probably be considered cheating. - Also, It could be used as an aphrodisiac, I hear that a woman watching a man masturbate can be quite a turn-on.
So, I guess, The final outcome is : It depends on the way it's used. If it's used as normal masturbation material, then yeah, probably cheating. If its used as an aphrodisiac,For you AND partner, Not cheating.
Hope this helped.
~Cody 
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
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O.k. Let me see if I understand this..(for I am a blonde and sometimes get confused easily). If I am watch Porn and get off then I am CHEATING......Wow I did not know that my hand belonged to someone else ....I guess that I should marry my hand sense I do know that it knows how to turn me on and get me off... And it does not fight with me or cost me any money...
Sorry for this but I do have a very warped sense of humor and I do say what I think and it does get me in trouble from time to time.....
To me CHEATING is when you are with someone physcaly that is not your other half....Kissing someone else is CHEATING........
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
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I just have to look once in awhile to see what a naked female looks like! Ok Ok so I'm cheating on myself again. Oh, and If looking is cheating....well I must say I have cheated an awful lot in my life. I've always heard that when you stop, looking your dead. My guess is there is not one person on this forum that married, or in a relationship, has not looked,and thought about having sex or making love to another person. When you start being honest with yourselves, then you can start being honest with other people.
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
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I just have to look once in awhile to see what a naked female looks like! Ok Ok so I'm cheating on myself again. Oh, and If looking is cheating....well I must say I have cheated an awful lot in my life. I've always heard that when you stop, looking your dead. My guess is there is not one person on this forum that married, or in a relationship, has not looked,and thought about having sex or making love to another person. When you start being honest with yourselves, then you can start being honest with other people.
AMEN.....nicks..Stated very well.
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catthebest
Scottsdale, AZ
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I just have to look once in awhile to see what a naked female looks like! Ok Ok so I'm cheating on myself again. Oh, and If looking is cheating....well I must say I have cheated an awful lot in my life. I've always heard that when you stop, looking your dead. My guess is there is not one person on this forum that married, or in a relationship, has not looked,and thought about having sex or making love to another person. When you start being honest with yourselves, then you can start being honest with other people.
Not trying to butt in but just to clarify...my original question was:
I'm very undecisive about this and there has been alot of controversy in this area but if a significant other always looks at porn secretly on the internet then is that cheating? How do you feel about this?
It's not about seeing a person and fantasizing for a moment. It's not about looking at someone that you think is hot. It's about having a secret life looking at porn constantly where you hide it from your partner. It's about deception.
But if I am butting into another conversation then by all means...enjoy!
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
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No, not butting in. Just the twists and turns of a thread.
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catthebest
Scottsdale, AZ
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No, not butting in. Just the twists and turns of a thread.
Hee, I thought it may be that. That's why I asked.
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
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This one really took some twists and turns and we got a little bible study along the way!
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
54, joined Aug. 2009
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Not trying to butt in but just to clarify...my original question was:
I'm very undecisive about this and there has been alot of controversy in this area but if a significant other always looks at porn secretly on the internet then is that cheating? How do you feel about this?
It's not about seeing a person and fantasizing for a moment. It's not about looking at someone that you think is hot. It's about having a secret life looking at porn constantly where you hide it from your partner. It's about deception.
But if I am butting into another conversation then by all means...enjoy!
Nicks is right this topic has taken on alot of twists and turns...
As for the Original Question...I still say it is not cheating...It is just hidding or as you stated being deceptive....
My next Question would be is why is he/she hidding this from his/her other half...Maybe it is because she/he does not like porn and refuses to watch it with him/her. So it may be easier to watch it in secret then hear all the crap from his or her other half.
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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Just because you find someone attractive does not mean you have to consumate the attraction. What I say is that if you are attracted, acknowledge that fact and avoid being around her if possible. remember that you are committed to a wonderful woman and you don't want to lose what you have with her. Even if you fooled around and got away with it, you have now sullied the relationship and your sense of honor, in addition to any moral values you hold dear. Suppressing the fact of an attraction doesn't negate the fact you feel that way, but simply drives the feelings underground. Be honest with yorself that the attraction exists and don't avoid any potentially comprimising situation.
I hear you loud and clear, as i have said it is only my humble opinion!
Yes, i would look at another woman,although i would not look and covet!
If i were in a loving relationship ALL my devotion will be hers!
If i fooled around and she didn't know about it, i would feel guilty because of it,
and would not be able to continue the relationship! As i have stated this is
ONLY MY HUMBLE OPINION! I am not saying that everybody has to toe the line and do as i
do,if we thought and acted the same everybody i know would be bored with life
Thank God that we ALL have our own opinions, and thoughts! I believe ALL women are a creation of God and always deserve respect! Thank you for the insight,and we will be talking soon here.
Later
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
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Aha! Just as I said. Being attracted doesn't mean having to cheat.
You missed my point!
It is ok though,because i am done with attempting to get you to see through your fog!
Later!
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rockabilly13
Glendale, AZ
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That's an interesting concept. But if a man/woman CONSTANTLY flirted on-line with others which is not physical then isn't that a form of cheating? Could we go so far to say that phone sex and IM sex isn't cheating in your opinion too? And that sure is physical only it's one on one. Would love to know your thoughts.
To answer your question, yes, that would be cheating you're right. You missed what I said. It's not a physical/MENTAL exchange. There is nothing exchanged mentally or physically between two people. Only one's fantasies to what is going on on the screen they are watching whatever those may be.
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| 4/27/2010 10:39:38 PM |
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catthebest
Scottsdale, AZ
49, joined Nov. 2009
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Nicks is right this topic has taken on alot of twists and turns...
As for the Original Question...I still say it is not cheating...It is just hidding or as you stated being deceptive....
My next Question would be is why is he/she hidding this from his/her other half...Maybe it is because she/he does not like porn and refuses to watch it with him/her. So it may be easier to watch it in secret then hear all the crap from his or her other half.
But the definition of cheating is...deception. I didn't even realize it myself till I looked up the word cheating.
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
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Well I think you can analyze this 'till your blue in the face, and everybody has a different opinion, but don't you think it would be what your partner will accept?.
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221bands
Prescott, AZ
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Yes, I do think that to look at porm, unless your lady want to see it is wrong. If his lady is sexty, then why would he like porn.
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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But the definition of cheating is...deception. I didn't even realize it myself till I looked up the word cheating.
I know, and see everyone has their own opinion. I am good with it because i only live my life. This is why i stated my point of view. I am not attemting to get anyone else to change their outlook on life. That is not who i am. I got too much on my own plate to be worried about what other people think, and do! later
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classclown423
Chicago, IL
45, joined Jun. 2008
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I love Girl on Girl Porn. I dont get off on watching some guy f**k someone. Why do I want to look at some Guys C*ck? I dont so I dont watch that shit. I learned alot Sexually from watching girl on girl porn. Women know how they love to be pleased. Now if my Woman wanted to watch two guys go at it thats her business. I think its Utterly Disgusting and Would make me Vomit. Thats My Opinion 
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sallyinthevalle
Mesa, AZ
75, joined Mar. 2010
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Why is it that men find 2 men making love disgusting and 2 women making love exciting....??
I have no desire to see 2 women fondling each other, but it doesn't disgust me nor does 2 men...I am very curious though and would probably take a good look...because I like to learn things.
I do not have a mate nor have I had one in many many years, but if he wanted to look at that, I better know about it....and vice versa. Doing anything on the sneak or sly is a form of cheating on a relationship.
Looking at it together could be a turn on for both, or it could lead to interesting discussions....but the main thing is openness and candor and understanding one another.
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| 4/30/2010 6:22:40 PM |
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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It is said that every guy wants to see two women go at it!
To this i say not me,it would complicate the relationship!
jmho
I prefer one on one,that is one man, and one woman!
Believe it or not!
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floresthomas84
Chandler, AZ
31, joined Jul. 2008
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Its not cheating and its even better when your watching it with your woman. =)
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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What if your partner is hiding it?
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tunena
Tucson, AZ
40, joined Jul. 2009
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no!!! its not cheating! not at all..
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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no!!! its not cheating! not at all..
Everybody has an opinion, and i will stick with mine!
I can only live my own life,can not be monitoring someone elses life!
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exoticxx
Tempe, AZ
30, joined Apr. 2010
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@ BRWNEYELATINA: Nope! It still isn't Cheating! lol He would @ that point need therapy my dear. Anything done in access is never a good thing. If he's hiding it, it still isn't cheating either, he is just embarrassed on how you will think of him. Let him know your cool with it and hell you do it on occasion too! His myspace update:  HORNY!!
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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I know not everyone is a christian, and this is why i say that is my own humble opinion.
I do not want anyone to think i am putting them down or anything,i just stated what i felt! Everybody have fun here and enjoy the diversity here. It is informative to me!
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exoticxx
Tempe, AZ
30, joined Apr. 2010
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Umm..sweetie, what does this thread have anything with being christian? Masturbating against the rules?!?
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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Umm..sweetie, what does this thread have anything with being christian? Masturbating against the rules?!?
Just making a point of, not everyone is the same.
As far as masturbating is against God's rules.
I am not here to get not arguments, just state my opinion!
I just stated what i am,and what i am. I believe she was asking for comments,
so i gave mine. She(cathebest) was wanting to know how we(all) felt.
i did not state that you, or anyone had to change. Just saying what was on my mind and
how i felt about it.
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breathechaos
Creston, BC
35, joined Jun. 2010
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Yes is is considered cheating if the other person doesnt feel comfortable with it. And as for the comment from the gentleman about it being ok for sexual release and if the other isnt putting out enough. Well, a man is capable of releasing with masterbation and masterbation only. He doesnt need porn to get off. He has an imagination and even better he could be even more respectful and think of his woman while he's doing it.
When a man and woman become one through marriage or in a long term relationship, I feel that there is no need to look at pornography. You have the real thing, so why the selfishness. Can't a person be happy with what they have.
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breathechaos
Creston, BC
35, joined Jun. 2010
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One of the major sexual issues discussed throughout scripture is lust. Jesus condemned lust in the heart as adultery in Matthew. While most advertising, television shows, movies, magazines, and more promote lust, the New Testament describes it as a sin. Many Christians see masturbation as a form of lust, if your lust is causing you to masturbate.
Matthew 5:28 – “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who has looked a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (NIV)
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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One of the major sexual issues discussed throughout scripture is lust. Jesus condemned lust in the heart as adultery in Matthew. While most advertising, television shows, movies, magazines, and more promote lust, the New Testament describes it as a sin. Many Christians see masturbation as a form of lust, if your lust is causing you to masturbate.
Matthew 5:28 – “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who has looked a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (NIV)
I got into an arguement over this subject,and if you are curious page back a couple and check it out! All she was asking for was an opinion!
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
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Umm..sweetie, what does this thread have anything with being christian? Masturbating against the rules?!?
Read back pages and i won't have to repeat myself.
Not everyone is a christian!
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mis2riwoman
Wittmann, AZ
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...always looks at porn secretly...
porn isnt automatically cheating,
but anything secretly is cheating
 
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tearose4160
Goodyear, AZ
54, joined Aug. 2009
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I do not think that just LOOKING is cheating....Now would I like it if they where doing it in secret NO. but I would not accuse them of cheating.....
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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Keep in mind that everyone looks at life differently!
that being said,just remember the arguement here,and know that not everyone
see's things the same! Just saying. Diversity of mind is good!
Imagine if we all thought the same????!
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staryknight
Phoenix, AZ
50, joined Mar. 2008
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BEING SNEAKY IS NEVER A GOOD THING ,BUT IF TO PEOPLE WATCH TOGETHER IT CAN KEEP LOVE LIFE FRESH AN NEW
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debesays
Mesa, AZ
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Yes, especially when done after your mate leaves, or goes to sleep so you don't get caught. Might as well be with another man/woman. If you aren't happy with your mate, you shouldn't be together.
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catthebest
Scottsdale, AZ
49, joined Nov. 2009
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Yes, especially when done after your mate leaves, or goes to sleep so you don't get caught. Might as well be with another man/woman. If you aren't happy with your mate, you shouldn't be together.
Yes, I could never figure why some continue to stay with their girlfriend/boyfriend in general if they aren't happy. Why not just leave? Are they that insecure that they need to keep a backup just in case they can't find anyone else?
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jif690
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Dec. 2009
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no it's not!..its just erotic imagery and not a real person silly girls..dont be so insecure..
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kyle003p
Queen Creek, AZ
33, joined Sep. 2008
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of course not... can't remember who said it, but someone said that sex is just practise for masturbation.
Men don't look at porn cuz they're unhappy... We do it cuz we are bored
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tiiger59
Phoenix, AZ
57, joined Nov. 2009
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no it's not!..its just erotic imagery and not a real person silly girls..dont be so insecure..
Just remember that everyones perspective is different,and to tell a person they are wrong
is to incite an arguement. If we were all the same this world would be boring,and dead!
Take the time to put on the other persons shoes and walk,before you talk. Yes, i do take the time to look at it differently!
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| 6/29/2010 7:16:46 PM |
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coldheartedorb
Mesa, AZ
56, joined May. 2010
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Not real?
So you're saying Rebecca Linares is a product of CGI?
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| 6/29/2010 9:06:54 PM |
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catthebest
Scottsdale, AZ
49, joined Nov. 2009
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of course not... can't remember who said it, but someone said that sex is just practise for masturbation.
Men don't look at porn cuz they're unhappy... We do it cuz we are bored
That's interesting that they may do it out of boredom. Actually I heard on either 20/20 or dateline that men go to Strip Clubs because they want attention and not for the sex.
Hey, thanks Tiiger for that note. I was going to say something but decided to zip my lip. Me get into trouble here sometimes for being outspoken so I let it pass. 
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| 6/29/2010 10:59:28 PM |
Is looking at Porn on the web considered CHEATING? |
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
62, joined Sep. 2009
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That's interesting that they may do it out of boredom. Actually I heard on either 20/20 or dateline that men go to Strip Clubs because they want attention and not for the sex.
Hey, thanks Tiiger for that note. I was going to say something but decided to zip my lip. Me get into trouble here sometimes for being outspoken so I let it pass.
C =Causes
A =All
T= Trouble
Hi Cat!
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