bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
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Both are at fault if it is a male and female screwing. But if you add the Homosexuals to the list then I would say the Men.
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kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 29
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Cheatin is just wrong... I wouldnt tolerate it nor do it.
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donna63
Ringgold, GA
age: 44
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are there faithful men?
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irparis39
New York, NY
age: 48
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I think it depends on your definition of cheating:
Cheating is the Violation of Exclusivity, Physical and Emotional that Binds Those in a Committed Relationship:
The traditional definition of "adultery" is sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse. Technically, when President Clinton denied having "sex" with "that woman", he was correct, if you assume that unfaithfulness requires a completed sexual act, intercourse with some penetration. This is, in fact, the traditional common law definition.
In surveys, men cheat more than women, although women are fast coming up behind them. They do do it for different reasons, the main reasons why men generally cheat on their spouse relates to sex. Quite commonly there is a sex problem within the relationship. Whereas a woman generally cheats as a last resort when all her complaints are left unheard, as a last resort a woman may cheat, but it will generally be for emotional reasons rather than for sexual reasons. If men meet her emotional needs, that can be avoided though.
To be honest, cheating is for kids who haven’t grown up. I believe that if you choose to have a relationship with someone, then you should both love each other before you make the commitment. A relationship is about trust, loyalty, commitment and a lifelong quest of fulfilling each other’s needs. When you love someone, you live not only with him or her, but also for him or her. In essence, cheaters are cowards, instead of turning to their partners and asking for what they need, they try to find fulfilment through someone else. The thing is that, the cheaters never thinks that the reason their partner could be turning away from them is that the partner is not feeling safe and nurtured from the cheater, which doesn't surprise me that 2nd marriages don't work out. The cheater blames the partner, when its also the cheaters responsibility to meet their partners' needs. It takes two to start a relationship and two to destroy it which is why I choose both in the poll.
Paris
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