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| 1/15/2008 11:47:21 AM |
I need HELP,PLS,(just got back,but theres trouble a foot) |
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ayeshah
Albuquerque, NM
age: 30
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Have you ever been so hurt ...,
That you felt like there was no such thing as love,the "one" and/or a soul mate?
Have you ever felt so betrayed that you could just loose you mind?
what do you do when you've given all you had and now you see it was for nothing it it wasn't anything you'd thought or was lead to believe?
How than do you re-gain trust and how do you make it work if in fact you wanted It to work,
After the hurt sets in and the trust is gone?
I know it sounds like someones cheating right?
well I don't know about that(And They better not be) but i do know the trust isn't there anymore and over something so dumb too and yet i feel like i cant trust this person any loner,
But in all honestly we were just getting to trust well not so true i did trust but i was scared to open up more than i already had since meeting this person...,
But yet i felt in my mind and my heart that this was it, that this was going to work and was going to last forever, that the sun-sets and shined on this person..,
my friend, but what do you do now that they show you that they're not to be trusted?
I only have 4 rules and this goes for everyone..,
How hard is it not to :cheat steal lie and not hurt me or my kids? i do my best to be as honest as i can and so why would some one intentionally hurt you and make you loose the trust you have for em? ANY?
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| 1/15/2008 12:20:04 PM |
I need HELP,PLS,(just got back,but theres trouble a foot) |
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scizzyizzy
Amarillo, TX
age: 57
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Yup! Been there, done that, got the T-Shirt. Hurting people - hurt people. Bottom line.
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| 1/15/2008 12:22:45 PM |
I need HELP,PLS,(just got back,but theres trouble a foot) |
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bl8ant
Amsterdam
Netherlands
age: 54
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trust is a set up
period.
it's not about being suspicious that someone will lie or be deceitful
it's about taking responsibility for yourself and the other in a kind way..
people are human
shit happens
people lie for a million reasons some good some not
i don't trust anyone i allow them to present themselves with the benefit of the doubt, with an open heart
and
with EYES WIDE OPEN
allow is the key word here
Draw your boundaries anywhere you like.... you are the artist , the canvas is yours
but remember the lines will be crossed, and stretched.....and you must be able to find whether they suit the big picture....
i choose to keep my autonomy, my privacy, and my lifestyle almost completely within the boundaries of my priorities.... i believe there must be some flexibility....or nothing will progress in a healthy manner.... some give and take etc.
but anything that challenges my family or my personal self respect/ethics....sigh...
you set yourself up with an attachment to a picture of what 'HE' should be like, what real love should look like....but maybe that was just your movie and he was the 'screen' you projected your beliefs on....
in reality he just was himself.....
trust that people will be human, but don't trust the human...lol
it's human for you to be driven by your conditioning, wake up!
take back your power woman !
just my opinion
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| 1/15/2008 12:23:11 PM |
I need HELP,PLS,(just got back,but theres trouble a foot) |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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aye. i'm sorry for your pain. believe in yourself. things do get better. alot of us here understand what you are going through. my heart cries for you at this moment. but take comfort, you are not alone. better days are just off on the horizon. you will be there soon. peace.
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| 1/15/2008 12:44:58 PM |
I need HELP,PLS,(just got back,but theres trouble a foot) |
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lorlie
Eugene, OR
age: 51
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aye, know your pain well, but girl, we gotta pick get up
and move on. One of my favorite actors is John Wayn and
he said and I quote
"Looking back is a baddddd habbit" gotta love that man.
I am so sorry, and fell for you. Best wishes.
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| 1/15/2008 1:07:25 PM |
I need HELP,PLS,(just got back,but theres trouble a foot) |
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ayeshah
Albuquerque, NM
age: 30
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UMM HUH bl8ant, ok i understand what your saying bl8ant, but its not at all like that, I take everyone at face value, i dont try to change anyone , i give trust until im shown its not what i was lead to believe, PPL will put up a front and lie about who they are but if this isnt who this person was than they had me blinded for a long time and it seems they must of cuz this person isnt who they claimed to be, maybe your right maybe i imaged they were, but i sincerly doubt it cuz was always able to call em on theyre BS, but i never thoght to be tooken for a fool not by them..,
The little things dont normally matter to me but i feel played with, its like if i left my Diary around in my BEDroom and someone came and read it, sily right but its mines and ia intittle to my privacy right? well it something along those lines and im like whaoo wtf is up with this person... i guess i feel kind of used and mistreated and this is why i Stay single and why i only have a handful if that of true friends. do you know what i mean?
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| 1/15/2008 10:47:35 PM |
I need HELP,PLS,(just got back,but theres trouble a foot) |
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bl8ant
Amsterdam
Netherlands
age: 54
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i Do know what you mean....and well be blessed that you have them....even they are rare jewels
as for the guy...well hey...chalk it up to statistics?? tradition?? typical male mentality??
all i do know for sure is trust is a set up....
just give it away only when it has been honestly earned
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