| 1/22/2008 1:14:51 PM |
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truckerjohn2008
Palm Springs, CA
age: 49 online now!
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 I hate it when you take time out to write someone and all they do is hit the DELETE . What wrong with writing back I am not interested in you or just write go get F***ed. I am loosing all interest in writing them, for this reason. When I recieve a message I will respond, why can't they.
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| 1/22/2008 1:19:28 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
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Its good manners, some do, some don't have them. 
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| 1/22/2008 1:20:47 PM |
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kellyleed
Sumter, SC
age: 35
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My advice, keep writing
The second you stop, women will complain about the winks 
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| 1/22/2008 1:31:58 PM |
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workinglaman
Golden Meadow, LA
age: 46
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I heard it was because women get so many emails that if they answered them all they wouldn't have time for anything else
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| 1/22/2008 1:43:29 PM |
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jules34
Quincy, IL
age: 34 online now!
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I have responded with a thanks and  when not interested just to be nice. That seems to be an invitaion to talk more which is fine as long as they're not expecting more than friendship. And, no I don't base it all on looks. I really look at someones profile to check interests, lifestyle or sense of humor. Winks I don't respond to usually because I figure if they were really interested they would send an e-mail.
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| 1/22/2008 1:51:47 PM |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 43 online now!
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Please understand that as women when we respond to someone and even upon being polite they still write...it would be like you continuosly got mail you did not want, you would call and request to be take off the mailing list but it just keeps coming. I am sorry that being deleted upsets you, don't let it. It is just easier for people to delete what they are not interested in. For some of ladies are only interested in a the people they are presntly testing waters with. I am trying to defend the ladies here..just dont take it personally I know for me..if you winked forget it...in the garbage gone! If you sent a "wanna chat" or a yahoo address to IM ..trash!! gone! if they email and say nothing gone!...Ladies like comunication. We want you to say more than hello, we want yo see you face clearly, I bet most women here will tell you we want a close up so we can see right into your eyes.
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| 1/22/2008 2:39:00 PM |
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bassman1959
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 48
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Hey Truckerjohn,
If a woman doesn't write back she is just rude and not good enough for you. Sure they might get a lot of emails, but that is no reason for them to be rude. Look at the forums. How many women do you see asking why they can't find any decent men around. Well, there is your answer...they are deleting all of the emails except for some of the best looking guys. Some of them don't know a decent man when he is sitting right in front of them. So, keep on sending the emails and don't get upset when you get ignored. But do yourself a favor, when you see that your email was ignored or deleted remember them. And if they ever write to you be a bigger person than they are and let them know you aren't interested.
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| 1/22/2008 2:54:52 PM |
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wickedcards
Esperance, NY
age: 44
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Well you know I write very little unless I am interested in more than friends.
When I first ashed someone on here to be my friend they said no because I
did not have a pic. OK so I got a pic posted. That person still turned down
my request. Ok I go on Im talk and email p[eople that want to. THe first friend on here
was Angel and she told me we can never have to many friends. So I dont even turn down a
shadow they might just be one of the best friends I have. and they need friends to.
I only drop a line or two if they like it they reply if they don't they delete.
Man life goes on Be happy and search some more. That friend may one day be the one!
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>>>>wickedcards<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
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| 1/22/2008 3:21:50 PM |
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tazzper23
Tugela Beach
South Africa
age: 45
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bossman you are soooooooo right i love the way you said that . if i email someone on here my first thought is iam not going to get a reply . even when i had a pic i don't mean to be blunt . but boosman right only the most gourgous men get a reply
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| 1/22/2008 3:27:17 PM |
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tazzper23
Tugela Beach
South Africa
age: 45
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i can honestly say i don't send out emaile are winks i feel if they want to know more they can come to me . and i will not ask anyone to be my friend datehookup have teach me that if you come on here looking for love are anything like that . well u will not get it so i've lean to just have fun and read what other say .
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| 1/22/2008 3:35:22 PM |
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luthak
Edmonds, WA
age: 45
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I USED to respond to all emails, with a polite thank you but I'm not interested, until I got nasty emails back telling me it was my loss, your not even pretty etc. Hence done with the responding to all.
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| 1/22/2008 3:36:48 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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You make a good point. And some wonder why men just wink instead of potentially writing something of positive interest. After a number of no replies, some men just wink and if they get a postive response back, they may go further with convo.
There's so many scenerios by which a woman won't reply and a few scenerios in which some men stop writing notes and simply send a wink. Oh well, the life of online dating simple concept made difficult at times.
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| 1/22/2008 3:37:59 PM |
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tecman
Manassas, VA
age: 47
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luthak I think you're pretty
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| 1/22/2008 3:56:48 PM |
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truckerjohn2008
Palm Springs, CA
age: 49 online now!
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You all been helpful, thank you I guess I'm not the only one being deleted. I'll wink but I won't write to the rude one, I will only write to the one that wink back. Thank you
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| 1/22/2008 4:14:18 PM |
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bassman1959
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 48
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You are welcome Trucker. Have patience it will happen. You also might want to partipate more often in these forums. That way your profile gets noticed by the women reading and posting on the forums. The more often they see your face the more likely they are to write back to you.
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