What makes Love Last?

1/26/2008 4:54:04 PM	What makes Love Last?
dino56 Jackson, OH age: 57	How come its hard to find lasting love and making it last
1/26/2008 4:55:49 PM	What makes Love Last?
lovesillusion11 Moab, UT age: 24	there are no boundries on love.... it is people who create them!
1/26/2008 4:56:42 PM	What makes Love Last?
nu2lake Willis, TX age: 48	restlessnes
1/26/2008 4:58:37 PM	What makes Love Last?
mag11 New Port Richey, FL age: 39	I agree with love. Your partner has to always be on the same page and its hard to find that!!! Mikey
1/26/2008 5:05:34 PM	What makes Love Last?
mindyb Bloomington, IL age: 43	Because we little humans want and need a variety in life so that leaves it up to us to make it happen......second resoneing is , at least what i found to be true, is it depends on the signs that are involved some signs are destined for a great compatibile fun filled loveing life and others just have to work at it, some times too hard. I had to work at it, but I kept is strong for 23 years, he did not want it,the divorce, I was tired of working so hard to keep the flow....what i learned is this Love, relationships...ect....should be like a float trip...evee been on a float trip, for the most part it is laid back, smooth ,easy so comfortable you could just fall asleep in all that warmth but then around every bend is a little current that makes sure you dont fall asleep and you get a little happy tickle, a little rush, the beauty is everywhere you look, and few small rapids to get you blood pumping only to settle back down to warmth again and when you pullup and get on land your refreshed and you feel good for hours , like a great massage in the warm sunlight...a float trip appeals to all your sense just like the love of a relationship...so for me I am wanting a float trip with some really fun rapids [Edited 1/26/2008 5:06:15 PM]
1/26/2008 5:11:29 PM	What makes Love Last?
1mt Johnstown, PA age: 54	you know if we all had the answer to that we probally wouldn't be here
1/26/2008 5:23:17 PM	What makes Love Last?
markmeunier Timmins, ON age: 40 online now!	I personally see an intimate relationship as two people coming together with each bearing a half glass of Love. When one person uses more of their Love to sate the needs of the realtionship or the environment around them, the other person shares what they have with their partner. With this system in play, eventually they will both be drained empty. This is where the outside source of Love is key to the renewal of the fount. I know this is not a religious thread but that is the only place where this answer lies. There is only one word that can repalce all instances of the word God in the Bible, Love. "He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is Love." I John 4:8 "No man (or woman) hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us." I John 4:12 "And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is Love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him." I John 4:16 Without the spirit of God flowing in us we will still be able to Love, but once the cup runs dry there will be no more. We can replace these feelings with false love, lust, desire, want, etc... but there will always be an emptiness inside that will eventually force us to seek out fresh supplies of Love. This is the reason I believe that so many find Love and drain it all away then move on like psychic vampires to drain it out of new sources once their spiritual well has been emptied. JMO Mark
1/26/2008 5:29:43 PM	What makes Love Last?
thepirate1969 Greenville, NC age: 38 online now!	Actually, love can last forever. Relationships sometimes don't. The fact that you are not in a relationship with someone doesn't prevent you from loving him/her. Love, it's our to give, and nothing and nobody can prevent us from giving it... Pretending to be together with another person, because we need them in order to feel better is not love. It's just a need. Sometimes we give stupid advices at the end of a relationship like... move on, stop thinking of that guy, or girl. We should probably do exactly the opposite before moving on. Concentrate on that guy or girl, and feel how much we can love them. That "WE LOVE THEM" makes us feel good, even if they are no more around. This is a good exercise to understand that you cannot loose love. You can love even when the object of your love is not around and still feel the good in that. Once you understand that... you can move on. There's no really limit on how much love you can give. But this is yours to learn... In life we find and we loose in a constant developing. You can find a soulmate, you can loose your soulmate for different reasons, but unless you decide to stop it... you cannot loose the love for them. I find that the decision to try to stop loving in similar situations is what brings pain, creating most of the difficulties in facing the changes and slowing down the "going-on" process. Good luck sweetie.
1/26/2008 5:31:44 PM	What makes Love Last?
heatherhoney Middlesboro, KY age: 50 online now!	thepirate1969 you're a very wise man... I learned a long time ago that just because I love someone doesn't mean they have to be in my life!
1/26/2008 5:56:19 PM	What makes Love Last?
dreambuilder07 Gaithersburg, MD age: 48 online now!	Hey -- What they said
1/26/2008 6:04:31 PM	What makes Love Last?
indianrider Lake Elsinore, CA age: 30	its like the lockness monster everyones heard about it but no has seen it
1/26/2008 6:23:12 PM	What makes Love Last?
countrydancer32 Chicago, IL age: 32	In a motivation class I took in college, we once studied emotions. I was surprised to learn that love does not meet the definition of an emotion, but of an attitude. By this way of thinking "love" is a choice. We choose whether or not to love someone. Isn't that interesting? [Edited 1/26/2008 6:23:26 PM]
1/26/2008 7:12:50 PM	What makes Love Last?
gonesailingbabe Des Moines, IA age: 44 online now!	faith makes it real - unconditional acceptance makes it last
1/26/2008 7:14:41 PM	What makes Love Last?
vintage57 Galesburg, IL age: 50	Have to be willing to change,yet remain the same.
1/26/2008 7:15:50 PM	What makes Love Last?
toofunny Fair Oaks, CA age: 40 online now!	Love lasts when two people take the time to get to know each other. Hearts cannot connect until they open up to each other. If you learn to let go of all the restrictions you place on 'your soul mate' and keep your heart and mind open to someone and focus on the positive things you'll find that kind of love. Physical attraction (lust) is a temporary reaction, yet so many people start they're search for a soulmate with physical requirements? Yet you ponder at the absence of love? You require that someone enjoys the same things as you, yet you don't enjoy being around them because you are not compatible. These hangups and baggage are a form of self protection. I think everybody has the potential to find a soulmate when they are ready to let go of all the hangups they have put in place, and not before. Connect with someone on an intellectual level and all the rest of the perks of love fall into place. But, that's just my opinion.

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