1/27/2008 8:26:49 PM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 25
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i would smack my ex non stop for the rest of my life if i held grudges..... he told me once he was going to have my parental rights taken away because i painted my daughters finger nails.....
i laughed and told him i would meet him in court with a video camera!
after that he stopped nit pickin the stupid chit for the most part!
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1/27/2008 8:32:30 PM |
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fourbars
Alva, OK
age: 22
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i would love to smack mine around....but im not kind of person...
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1/27/2008 8:37:17 PM |
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nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47
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lovesillusions...no, didn't starve. I had kids to feed. I came home from work, made dinner, helped with homework, drove kids to activities, read the bedtime stories, sang the songs, scratched the backs, cleaned the kitchen....did what had to be done. And loved every minute of it.
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1/27/2008 8:39:33 PM |
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collide64
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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The good times.........sounds stupid but if I could have bottled some of our good times and saved them for the bad days.........who knows............
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1/27/2008 8:40:23 PM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 25
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where can i find one of those? ^
lol lol
my ex was spoiled...... if he wanted cookies at 2 am i would wake up and make them..... dinner ready when he got home...... clothes laid out.... house spotless kiddos taken care of an in bed..... lunch made for next days work..... and backrub till he fell asleep...... after his sexual needs of course..... on his days off (he worked 7 on 7 off) i sat around with the kids while he was gone doin his "own" thing.... same thing pretty much.... whatever he needed or wanted.... was waiting for him when he came home...
never seemed to be good enough though...... oh well! lol i had fun doing it... kept me busy and outta trouble!
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1/27/2008 8:41:04 PM |
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thegooddude24
Joliet, IL
age: 25
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Well I will tell you this much. My ex did a lot of things to me. I am not saying that I was never wrong either, sure I was. I recently helped her out a little and I felt good about it. Why? Well, because I did the right thing. Although we had our stubborn fights that no one won. I put the stubborn fight to rest, by helping.
Why am I telling you this?
Because of a disturbing post I read off this thread.
A relationship can take the way you feel about PEOPLE in general and turn it into war. The fact of this matter is... Yes we shared love with our partners, yes we learned things about them that no ones else knows, and yes they have done things to us that is just ARGH!! Right?
But behind all of this... They are still people. People who make bad decisions in life will end up with karma.(that I totally belive). I will tell you one thing though. My ex really made life hard after we seperated for sure, but she is still a person. I wouldn't wish death on her and I would help her if she were dieing. I would just never ever date her again.. Thats my peace statement.
See you on other threads peeps!
[Edited 1/27/2008 8:42:42 PM]
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1/27/2008 8:41:46 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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Illusion-you won't do all that stuff for your second husband!
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1/27/2008 8:42:20 PM |
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fourbars
Alva, OK
age: 22
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i think im in love....
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1/27/2008 8:44:00 PM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 25
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yeah i will kgearly! i like to spoile..... makes me happy when others are..... but this time i wanna be spoiled back! DAMNIT! lol
i enjoy doing things for others... jus my nature i supose!
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1/27/2008 8:44:40 PM |
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petite3
Portland, OR
age: 35
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I miss the big screen TV
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1/27/2008 8:45:10 PM |
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nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47
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Illusion...that's amazing that you did all that...to bad he didn't deserve it, and reciprocate in some way that might have made it all magical for you both.
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1/27/2008 8:45:16 PM |
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bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46
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sounds like a real talented guy
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1/27/2008 8:45:46 PM |
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tinasdream
Katy, TX
age: 31
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i miss when he said he loved me and he'd never cheat and he really meant it
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1/27/2008 8:46:34 PM |
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slacker31
Lincoln, NE
age: 31
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The friendship we had before we started getting serious. She was my best friend, a person I would have gone to the ends of the earth for. She was my soulmate as a friend, could always make me laugh when I was down. I miss the good times we had.
[Edited 1/27/2008 8:50:45 PM]
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1/27/2008 8:52:12 PM |
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sweetmelons
Red Creek, NY
age: 38
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the closeness
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