What did you not get in your last relationship that?

8/3/2010 11:37:44 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	is now a requirement for the next one? For myself, it's fidelity and faithfulness... What is it for you? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
8/3/2010 11:43:06 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
jennyann71 Clarksville, AR age: 68	To have more time with me """"" for just hum drum things like called everyday living . But since I only want a senior citizen well even that might become a problem with too much time together.
8/3/2010 11:43:09 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	Fidelity...faithfulness...loyalty.....love.....
8/3/2010 11:43:16 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
grneydsnglmale Grand Junction, CO age: 52	Communication and honesty. Sucks when you are still in a relationship that has been over for the other person for a while but you didn't know...
8/3/2010 11:44:03 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
grneydsnglmale Grand Junction, CO age: 52	Quote from qnofmycstle: Fidelity...faithfulness...loyalty.....love..... That too, Queen...
8/3/2010 11:48:17 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	Quote from grneydsnglmale: Communication and honesty. Sucks when you are still in a relationship that has been over for the other person for a while but you didn't know... Try being with someone and you were both each others "firsts"...and finding out 16 years after the fact that he cheated and that your whole marriage was a "sham".....and the only reason we found out was because his idiotic arse contracted Hep C from it....thank god it didn't transfer to me or the kids....!!! Karma is a biatch....!!
8/3/2010 11:58:30 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Dang, qn... That HAD to hurt! Maybe honesty and respect would be other good things to require also...
8/3/2010 12:07:09 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
jaxflorida Jacksonville, FL age: 55	Don't think I'd call them "requirements" but hopeful instead. Be my best friend, able to talk about things w/o someone getting hot headed. Doesn't put me down or use sarcasm. Appreciate being together and can't wait until we do it again. Have our priorities be somewhat equal. Meaning the s/o usually is considered part of our life. I could mention more but that's all for now.
8/3/2010 12:09:15 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
grneydsnglmale Grand Junction, CO age: 52	Quote from qnofmycstle: Try being with someone and you were both each others "firsts"...and finding out 16 years after the fact that he cheated and that your whole marriage was a "sham".....and the only reason we found out was because his idiotic arse contracted Hep C from it....thank god it didn't transfer to me or the kids....!!! Karma is a biatch....!! DAMN Q..Im sorry...(hug)
8/3/2010 12:10:13 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Those are good attributes to look for in a relationship, jax.
8/3/2010 12:24:16 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
legaleye Columbus, OH age: 58	I ask for very few things, so if something is missing, its important. I do want your time and attention in a relationship, which means that every time your adult children or your mother has a crisis, you are not running over to help and ignoring me for days at a time while you deal with your co-dependent relatives and kids. I dont do well with workaholics and those who are so overscheduled with "activities" so that you are too tired to have a real relationship with me that goes beyond crossing in the hallway. We each need time to do our own things, but at the end of the day, its a relationship and we are a couple. I dont do well with people who have hidden something from me, and when it comes out later, they are upset that I am not perfectly happy. Relationships are about honesty and communication. If you cant talk to me, it wont work. The taboo topics... sensual/sexual compatibility. Dont get into a relationship where you are very happy about our compatibility in this area but then change the tune to "no way will I ever do that." Each of the above, alone or in combination, have been deal killers.
8/3/2010 12:25:20 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
gittyup4u Moore, SC age: 55 online now!	Soul-mate
8/3/2010 12:39:27 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	Quote from grneydsnglmale: DAMN Q..Im sorry...(hug) Thanks for the ((((hugs)))))) Grneyd...and Mendi.....just having a bad day...lol!!
8/3/2010 12:42:22 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
grneydsnglmale Grand Junction, CO age: 52	Quote from qnofmycstle: Thanks for the ((((hugs)))))) Grneyd...and Mendi.....just having a bad day...lol!! Well enough of the bad day Q...here...dance with THESE party animals! And to improve the mood even further...
8/3/2010 12:51:47 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	Quote from grneydsnglmale: Well enough of the bad day Q...here...dance with THESE party animals! And to improve the mood even further... Officially chees'n..... Thanks!!!!
8/3/2010 12:54:17 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
75scott Colorado Springs, CO age: 35	Peace and quite. For the next one, an understanding that just because you are talking, it doesn't mean you are actually saying anything.
8/3/2010 2:01:40 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
firstlight Strasburg, VA age: 50	Honest communication. When I caught my first husband cheating on me he told me he hadn't loved me in three years. Hard words to hear but since our third child was only 7 months old it would have been much more productive to have that conversation before we decided to have him. Getting my second husband to open up was like prying pearls from a clam. Little did I know it was because of all the secrets he was keeping. I must have someone who communicates with me.
8/3/2010 2:02:47 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
122750again Sioux Falls, SD age: 59 online now!	LOVE, Faithfulness
8/3/2010 3:03:42 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
ricki1951 Sun City, CA age: 59 online now!	My relationship was lacking affection. We communicated well, but there were times when he was here, but he wasn't. Does that make any sense?
8/3/2010 3:14:12 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mountinglion Clinton, ON age: 42	What is required is mutual respect.
8/3/2010 4:38:29 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	from mountinglion: What is required is mutual respect. Mutual respect and love go hand in hand....IMO....with that, everything else usually follows....
8/3/2010 4:56:53 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
rattlinjosh Garner, NC age: 25	honesty, compassion, loyalty
8/3/2010 5:02:54 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	What constitutes respect? So many people think it's the wholesale acceptance of whatever anyone thinks up or wants to do. Respect has to be earned, doesn't it?
8/3/2010 5:08:57 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
wise_guy Brooklyn, NY age: 30	Quote from mountinglion: What is required is mutual respect.
8/3/2010 6:54:49 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	I am not going to "respect" someone who is abusive to children or those less-powerful... I am not going to "respect" someone whose attitude toward others is one of entitlement or superiority... I WILL respect someone who lives a good, moral life with kindness and compassion for others.
8/3/2010 7:03:36 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
lars23 Silvis, IL age: 41	Somebody that actually cares and knows how to act like it instead of someone who says they love you but doesnt really want anything to do with you. I dont want to be with someone and still feel lonely
8/3/2010 9:39:40 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
doublehugx Campbell, CA age: 83	I was over a year into my last relationship when I realized that he hadn't heard a thing I'd said AT ALL! The things that make up my character were totally foreign to him. When I got pregnant and he told me to give her away, or go on Welfare, I was shocked! What a difference when someone listens, and actually accepts me for the person I am! Hi Mendi!
8/3/2010 9:43:07 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
d_lady Duncanville, TX age: 40	Quote from lars23: Somebody that actually cares and knows how to act like it instead of someone who says they love you but doesnt really want anything to do with you. I dont want to be with someone and still feel lonely I hate to be so unoriginal, but ME, TOO! Being married and completely alone is so much harder than just being single!
8/3/2010 10:04:30 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
jkurls Chicago, IL age: 18	in my last relationship i got nothing but sorrow and grief.That was when i got to find out that my bestfriend was in bed with my boyfrien
8/3/2010 11:08:40 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
rayinhawaii Honolulu, HI age: 47	2 words.... QUALITY TIME!
8/3/2010 11:32:32 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
novemberrain333 Stinnett, KY age: 36	Someone who is not hateful, hard to get along with. Someone who is not always looking for an argument, oh and someone who is not a complete jerk. Also, someone who is thoughtful and mindful of me and my needs. NO MORE USERS OF ANY KIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
8/3/2010 11:45:17 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Quote from doublehugx: I was over a year into my last relationship when I realized that he hadn't heard a thing I'd said AT ALL! The things that make up my character were totally foreign to him. When I got pregnant and he told me to give her away, or go on Welfare, I was shocked! What a difference when someone listens, and actually accepts me for the person I am! Hi Mendi! Hi, hugx!!! Acceptance of who we are is so very vital, isn't it???
8/4/2010 1:03:59 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mercedes01 New South Wales Australia age: 48	I never ever got an orgasm from the bloody prick!
8/4/2010 1:27:16 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
cavie59 Enid, OK age: 51	Quote from mendicant: is now a requirement for the next one? For myself, it's fidelity and faithfulness... What is it for you? For myself there would have to be the following: love, honesty, fidelity, faithfulness, and one other thing that I will not mention. Almost all my relationships have ended due to cheating on their part. I will not ever cheat on someone as I have been on the receiving end to many times. My last requirement will be kept privet as when I do get evolved the lady will already know what I want IF I ever make it that far.
8/4/2010 2:43:19 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
spicy_haggis Scotland, TX age: 47	lots and lots of me time.
8/4/2010 2:46:00 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV age: 51	Length of time. But I know they can't promise that.
8/4/2010 4:40:09 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	Quote from mendicant: What constitutes respect? So many people think it's the wholesale acceptance of whatever anyone thinks up or wants to do. Respect has to be earned, doesn't it? Not necessarily.....if someone makes a rude comment to you....sends you an email that's "tasteless"....or it they talk down to you...they are showing a "lack of" respect... (Now depending on how you address those issues...you may have "earned" it from them... but they've already shown you how "disrespectful" they are in general....would you give those types the chance to "earn" yours....?) Respect and Trust, I feel, build in intensity over time....but doesn't there have to be some level of it to start with?
8/4/2010 9:29:37 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
abreathaway Tulsa, OK age: 59 online now!	someone with a job
8/4/2010 9:43:47 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
rockpillow Grafton, ND age: 48	A voice...........
8/4/2010 11:21:29 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Quote from rockpillow: A voice........... I understand that completely, rock.
8/4/2010 11:27:29 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
susansheart839 Port Saint Lucie, FL age: 62	Quote from mendicant: is now a requirement for the next one? For myself, it's fidelity and faithfulness... What is it for you? yep, that would be it!
8/4/2010 11:35:12 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
wsprs0nthewind Powell, TN age: 46 online now!	Respect
8/4/2010 11:43:07 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
giggles3 Redding, CA age: 44	Freedom to be me......
8/4/2010 11:47:36 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 64	straighforward honesty. the world seems to be infested with prevaricators. [Edited 8/4/2010 11:48:58 AM ]
8/4/2010 12:10:58 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Quote from stumppy: straighforward honesty. the world seems to be infested with prevaricators. And liars too, stumppy...
8/4/2010 12:19:03 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
barbaraajo Reston, VA age: 53	honesty
8/4/2010 12:35:22 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 64	Quote from mendicant: And liars too, stumppy...
8/4/2010 12:35:59 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
fuddyduddie Covington, GA age: 46	a real man, JMO
8/4/2010 1:15:22 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
ghound01 Broken Arrow, OK age: 54	Quote from mendicant: is now a requirement for the next one? For myself, it's fidelity and faithfulness... What is it for you? That was alway a requirement in all my relationship...It is also why I am divorce, and happy about to! I like to know the person, I need to fall in love with them and not lust for a good relationship to stand a chance. I want to make her happy, give here room to do her thing. She would have to be a person that I would donate my kidney to or other organs that could cost me my life. I just have not met that person on here. (or maybe not yet on here)
8/4/2010 1:36:45 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	ghound... hopefully you find someone that won't NEED an organ donation!
8/4/2010 5:29:21 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
pichick712 Brookhaven, PA age: 52	I can't even remember my last relationship let alone remember what was missing.
8/4/2010 6:25:18 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
kingofnorcal510 Oakland, CA age: 20	I've never been in a relationship before, but the thing that irks me about the last person I saw (who shall remain anonymous) is that she acted as if she was so into me when we first met. Then, as time elapsed, she became more and more distant. In fact, after our 1st date, I couldn't get her to answer the phone or respond to any more of my texts. I don't get it. Flakiness is rampid. [Edited 8/4/2010 6:25:59 PM ]
8/4/2010 7:17:36 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	king...it is an inherent problem in meeting people online. You can build up a fantasy of someone in your head that isn't fulfilled when you meet face-to-face.
8/4/2010 7:52:31 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
gdaddy47 Columbia, TN age: 62	What do you call it when she comes behind you and pats your butt and smiles playfully? You know, that kind of relationship. Little notes to each other. All that good stuff. Had it for a long time. Passed away. Never found it again.:: Oh well, I'm going fishing Saturday. Y'all want to go?
8/4/2010 8:01:20 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
beachngurl Gulf Breeze, FL age: 40	someone that will stay
8/4/2010 11:43:29 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
lala8732 North Hollywood, CA age: 23	Love, loyalty, honesty, respect and understanding. All the makings for a good relationship.
8/5/2010 10:33:01 AM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Quote from gdaddy47: What do you call it when she comes behind you and pats your butt and smiles playfully? You know, that kind of relationship. Little notes to each other. All that good stuff. Had it for a long time. Passed away. Never found it again.:: Oh well, I'm going fishing Saturday. Y'all want to go? Awww...gdad...I would call it the best type of relationship ever. Fishing sounds wonderful, but not in Oklahoma right now...it's too danged hot. Fish are lying low to keep from being boiled!
8/5/2010 12:07:27 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
lonleymike87 Inverness, FL age: 23	A girl that knows what she wants.
8/5/2010 12:22:20 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
madamechaos Brooklyn, MD age: 21	trust , understanding and communication
8/5/2010 12:37:20 PM	What did you not get in your last relationship that?
dateable1 Berea, KY age: 45	Respect, honesty, loyalty. Just knowing they have my back during the good and the bad times as I would have theirs.

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