| 1/31/2008 4:12:50 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 49 online now!
|
I too am a plus sized woman and NOT ashamed of it at all. I know what I like too and yes physical attraction is important but that isn't ALL it's about and size is the least of my concerns. Seems those guys who are clearly NOT perfect seem to want it in their women?????? If a gorgeous woman is ugly on the inside, is she really still gorgeous?????
|
| 1/31/2008 4:30:44 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
cherokeebaby60
Calvert City, KY
age: 47
|
I am also large and was not always like this a very long life threatening illness almost took my life and caused me to get like this and I have taken steps to get it off of me now that I am healthy , and hey I am losing it fast . but I will not bash you because that is your opinion and how you feel and to each his own .
I also know what I like but I am not going to pass up what is on the inside of someones heart over looks . If you can't look past my weight and see the loving and caring person than I am than it is your loss and not mine and like I said in another post a few days ago you are doing me a favor I am just happy to be here and happy being me and I am Blessed
Sending you Blessings and much Luck
|
| 1/31/2008 8:30:54 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
pisceslady30
York, PA
age: 29
|
Everyone has their own preference some people are just afraid to admit it. You shouldn't feel bad about what you want it's your choice. If you don't like big woman than so be it I am sure we will learn to live without you.
|
| 1/31/2008 9:04:04 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
wifluffy
Hartland, WI
age: 42
|
Everyone has there own prefrence of what they like! I am a big woman and if u r not attracted to bigger woman so be it. I understand that and also understand that there has to be some physical attraction BUT just cause u don't want to go out with me because i am a big woman please have respect for me and don't make smart comments about it. I am a person too with feelings! I don't like men with long hair or super skinny men but sure would not be rude about it..i would just move on!
|
| 1/31/2008 10:34:13 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 41
|
Jimmy, you're not being shallow, you're being human. Of course, neither you nor anyone else can be with someone whom he/she finds unattractive and be happy. That's perfectly normal -- for everyone! We have to be pleased looking at the person to whom we're attached. Like you, I do not find myself attracted to large, heavy women and would never be happy being involved with one - wouldn't even think about it. But, of course, not all men are like that. Power to those who are not. But the point is everyone -- men and women -- have to have a physical attraction for there to be any "there" there. That is definitely NOT being shallow -- it's being normal.
|
| 1/31/2008 10:50:17 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
tinasdream
Katy, TX
age: 31 online now!
|
uh u r not even posting a pic so who know how u look
|
| 2/1/2008 5:44:20 AM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 24
|
there has to be somewhat of a physical attraction... what your type is might not be someone elses type...
like i really am not very attracted to super skinny guys.... not sayin i havn't dated em.... and who knows i might find love in one and be able to get over it..... but typically i want a man with some meat on his bones.... i'm a small girl but really strong and i have dated guys who couldn't do half what i could... and they were really really skinny.... that might just be the block in my head somewhere....
i think society plays a big role in programing us into thinking of the type of person we should be or we should be attracted to...
but all in all.... you really need a pic up i think...... to be talking like this and don't have a pic of your own? 
|
| 2/1/2008 5:58:05 AM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 37
|
Im a big guy but Ive dated mostly petite women.I just have a type that I like but Ive tried to make other things work.Its all the same but without attraction you'll feel there someone else out there for you.It really depends because Ive have dated some bigger women that were pretty also. anyone can change if they want to.If your looking for a life long companion then looks might not matter as much in the later years.
I met someone on a dating site a few years back and she was slim but not what I considered very attractive.I just found her features rather plain and not very feminine.
anyway we proceed to go out to dinner and The night ended with some pretty impressive sex.So you never know what its like till you plow her.
[Edited 2/1/2008 5:59:30 AM]
|
| 2/1/2008 8:52:54 AM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
nambrosia
Attleboro, MA
age: 26
|
wow. U never know what it's going to be like til u plow her....eh?!?
*rolls eyes* frickin men.
ANYWAYS. I am a big girl and always have been. I know that if I'm not physically attracted to a person, it makes it incredibly difficult for me to move past the "just friends" stage. size isn't that big of a deal to me, but honestly, I'm not "fat" and my lover shouldn't be either. man-boobs = not sexy. A heavy set guy/girl is a little more fun to play with anyways. I don't want to have to worry I'm going to break anyone. 
|
| 2/1/2008 8:53:42 AM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
|
I don't think it's shallow at all.
I very definitely know what it is I want/need to be attracted to someone in anyway
as friends, lovers, etc,
And I am comfortable saying it...
However I can be turned on by their mind and their humor also...not just a body style.
I think there may be a mind set regarding healthy or acceptable body shape
and obese?
|
| 2/2/2008 10:40:23 AM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
magtag
East York, ON
age: 41
|
First comment...I think that it's really funny that someone without a posted pic started this thread! LMAO!!! How can you base a large amount of what you want in a woman on looks and not provide a basic little pic for that woman to make a decision on???
Having said that, no I don't think that your statement is shallow. We are all attracted to whom and what we are attracted to and no one can change that. We all need the basic attraction in order to open the door to getting to know who a person is on the inside and finding out if they are still attractive once we know that person.
And whether someone is on the heavy side or bone thin, balding or full head of hair, short, tall, black or white, they are all attractive to someone in this world and the door will open for them to show WHO they really are and how attractive on the inside they are sooner or later.
If we are all honest about who we are and what we are attracted to (inside and out) we will all be able to leave the dating sites a lot sooner!
|
| 2/2/2008 6:15:20 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
|
well my loveing friends may i ask a important question .
was the guy are girl u was with befor datehookup was a good looking person ?
did they not have most are all the thing u was looking for ?
my other question is now if u found another person that look good are you not afraid you are get more of the same .  cause to me if all those thing you all say you like and want in a person WHY in the hell you on datehookup ? JUST ASKING LOL
|
| 2/2/2008 6:28:40 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
horsedreamer101
Watertown, SD
age: 45 online now!
|
o.kay, I don't get this one, you ask about such things without a picture????
|
| 2/2/2008 6:40:41 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
alonzaire
Miami, FL
age: 43
|
does not matter to me, because I am Blind
|
| 2/2/2008 6:49:43 PM |
Looks! Give Me Your Input... |
|
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
|
me to i only see love cause i know beautiful are not a person still can be an butt hole . but in all honesty most women that is gourgous scare me cause they head to big lol i look for the type with big hearts not heads
|