cjbaker
Decatur, AL
age: 38
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baby... why not, could just play dress up... just won't never get the house cleaned.. 
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kmcarberry
Woodstock, GA
age: 50
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I feel your pain. Dealing with the same thing. If only they could be honest in the first place it would of made it so much easier. Your deserve better, so do I, so, put your big boy panties on and make life continue!!
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exfirefighter
Inverness, FL
age: 55
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A cheaters a cheater weather man or woman, a cheaters a scumbag
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irparis39
New York, NY
age: 48
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I too don't believe once a cheater always a cheater.
Some people make mistakes and realize what its going to cost them and honestly make the choice to not ever do it again. And besides getting a new person does not guarantee you won't be cheated on. People rationalize why they cheat all the time. And its usually a matter of not getting something from their partner. So if you don't know what that is, how would a new relationship help you if you're still missing that part for which your previous partner cheated to beging with. You have to talk, you have to keep an open mind...even if your don't go back to her you can assure yourself that you won't make the same mistake in the new relationship.
What we have become is a nation of comparison shoppers? We want to test drive everything, thereby making sex all inclusive and paramount to the operational workings of the relationship rather then part of the glue that keeps couples together. So if the sex isn't good, we break off communications and seek help through counseling, we rather sink than swim harder or just float until lifesavers can be thrown in. Women are particularly vulnerable, because our emotional makeup gets us hungering for what our previous relationship had at the beginning. Men do it because they can and alot of them have not been taught to control their impules and we go by the "boys will be boys crap". So the saying really is true..."if she's not getting it at home, she'll emotionally look elsewhere for it".
paris
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