| 2/1/2008 9:30:35 AM |
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cottencandy825
Nanuet, NY
age: 39
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A friend of mine met a guy and they started seeing each other. He said he wanted this to be a one on one relationship and she agreed but it seems he just wants her to be with him while he is out thier still looking and telling other girls to met him. He will not close out any of his dating sites and haseven gone as far as opening a new one. While she closed out all of her but one that she still talk to some friends on. I know for a fack that she really like this guy but do you think he is playing games with her and she should dumb him before he hurts her.
Carol
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| 2/1/2008 9:34:43 AM |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 43
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He wants control. Period. Loose him and do it now because the control won't stop with the dating site. This is not about wanting to keep his options open like many men might respond...it is control, bottom line. Watch and see, mark my words....control is a very scary threshold that sneaks up and bites you in the ass and sometimes maybe worse.
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| 2/1/2008 9:39:07 AM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60
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Would you be this person?
Wine
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| 2/1/2008 10:00:51 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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with what you've said,do you really need answers.seems pretty black n white to me.
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| 2/1/2008 10:23:14 AM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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Good question wine
The question is very simple. The writing is all over the wall.
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| 2/1/2008 11:08:24 AM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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i would kick him to the curb
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| 2/1/2008 11:20:21 AM |
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 47
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There are a lot of reasons people go on these sites. Sometimes it's just to talk with someone. But if they have met and he has said he wanted a one on one thing with her then he isn't being truthful.
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| 2/1/2008 11:41:04 AM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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I'd have to agree - she shouldn't have shut hers down and if in having done so he is still out here opening new accounts then the playing field isn't level.
I don't think he's a good investment of her time.
That being said - some women you can't tell a damn thing so what are you gonna do?
I recommend a big ass board along side her head.....that's how I treat my close friends.
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| 2/1/2008 11:45:30 AM |
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cherokeerose07
Pottsboro, TX
age: 48
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dont let the door hit him in the ass.... see ya sucker... get lost dude.... get the f--k outta here do you think he would take the hint!
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| 2/1/2008 11:46:30 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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Well that does bring up an interesting topic. What if you meet someone online in one of these dating sites and it does progress into a relationship. What is the usual protocol of how to handle each others dating site accounts? Me personally I would never ask my partner to remove her accounts on dating sites such as this. Is it considered offensive if you choose to keep your accounts? What have others done when they were in this scenario?
I don't want to divert and disrespect the OP's question so I created a new topic: You met on this site and are now in a relationship...
[Edited 2/1/2008 11:57:54 AM]
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| 2/1/2008 1:18:36 PM |
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lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
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I never understood why anyone would want the other person to delete their dating profile.
I would never ask someone I was dating to delete their profile. I just don't look at their profile. Period.
I will never delete mine unless I decide it is a battle not worth winning, (I learn to choose my battles well).
I always feel the people on a site rambling about why someone is still doing with their dating profile, has too much time on their hands and probably has a little stalking personality in them.
I always wonder if they happen to drive by the other person house occaionally.
You have to accept the good with the bad. If you met someone online, the good, but it also means they now have a means to meet other women, the bad.
Just because you are willing to delete your profile, don't expect your partner to be willing too.
You have to accept the good with the bad. Or at least ask the question right upfront, "If I delete my profile will you delete yours?" Ask before a relationship is started. Not afterwards.
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| 2/1/2008 1:28:54 PM |
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grneyedluvr
Waverly, NY
age: 42
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wow good topics today. i just had this conversation with a certain someone yesterday and myself, i would delete mine if the relationship progresses to serious. after all if its your friends that you will miss, there always the telephone. temptation is a very easy thing to be led in to, and if the person isnt willing to delete the profile on a "DATING" site , then theyre players. end of story. my opinion, thats all
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| 2/1/2008 1:36:29 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
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If its not Exclusive to be with me....then DUDE, Hit the Road. He is just playing the field, looking for the next best thing, and as soon as he finds one, trust me Hun, he'll be GONE. Get rid of him. It is a Control thing, he can do who, what, where he wants....but you can't! HMPH... Thats not how I'd play the game! JMO 
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| 2/1/2008 2:24:06 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48 online now!
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A player...wants her to be only his and him to be all of theirs. Not a good game to play
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| 2/1/2008 3:05:35 PM |
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rnwolf
Niles, MI
age: 37
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dump him, its not going to get any better so dont waste anymore of your time
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