| 2/6/2008 5:05:58 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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yankeesweet
Aiken, SC
age: 57
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Jeesh, drummer, the woodchipper! 
You are too funny...where do you come up with these things!
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| 2/6/2008 6:02:34 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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It ain't over til it's over....
And it may never be over.
? IDK the answer to this...all of my relationships have never ended to date....darn! 
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| 2/6/2008 6:05:32 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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katiescarlett72
Plano, TX
age: 35
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I am very, very suspicious of people who claim that they can't get an ex boyfriend/girlfriend out of their hair despite all valiant and reasonable efforts to do so. Generally you will find, given the WHOLE story, that there is a co-depedency in existence, and the whole dramatic scenario is actually feeding a need in both people; which is why no one has REALLY put a stop to it.
I realize that I have a real gift for a well-turned insult, but I guarantee you, any guy I want to get rid of, I can have headed south in about 3 minutes flat. I'm sure you could do the same if that was truly your intent. Somewhere in you there is a conflict with whether that's really what you want, and THAT, sir, is why she's "never out of your life."
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| 2/6/2008 6:07:32 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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yankee. i got a few more ideas. but...i didn't want ppl to get the wrong idea about me.
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| 2/6/2008 6:08:21 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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nashoba_miko
Bethany, OK
age: 38
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Lets hear it Drummer..I need some ideas myself..I wont change my mind about ya
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| 2/6/2008 8:04:29 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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singlennj
Budd Lake, NJ
age: 48
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I am just not gonna touch that codependancy thing. Should I have cut her off from the get go, yes. I dont believe in doing that. I realize I have to go against my grain and cut her off because as people say here I am enabling her to continue by answering her calls.
In my opinion that is the extreme approach. It should not need to be that way.
That is the whole point so many people do have to deal with C*^p becuase the other dishes it out regardless. I am lucky as others state becuase I dont have a kid with her. Are people with children co-dependant in a situation like this?
I like drummrboy's suggestion.... LOL
[Edited 2/6/2008 8:05:46 PM]
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| 2/6/2008 8:12:03 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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radarlove28
Florence, AL
age: 28
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shes not over you yet as she says, or she is over you some but dont want you to have someone else,pretty much she is throwing a threat to your new woman and shes leting her know she is #1 and she want stop until your new girlfriend leaves you. best thing to do is ignore her actions like she doesnt exsite in your world. better yet invite all your lady friends out set out side and enjoy your company as she rides by this should stop her if not you got a stocker on your hands and shes plaining on doing something stuiped. just call the law.
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| 2/6/2008 8:13:16 PM |
It is over! So why are they never out of your life? |
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haunted2008
Petaluma, CA
age: 22
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Because love is a funny thing that's why.
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