wellhmmmm
Cataula, GA
age: 44
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What if you had a relationship with a person 26 years ago and recently reconnected on the phone. I called him because I was moving back to the area and he returned call. We didnt break up for a bad reason we were military kids and had to move but we were 17 and 18. We had a relationship for 1 year and a baby but the baby miscarried. Now on the phone he tells me he wishes I had called him a couple of years ago but now he is married(i had to ask this he didnt offer) Our conversation flowed like we had never been apart from the begining. I would not ever break up or intrude on a marriage but I really didnt expect this response. He told me I could drop a line if I wanted and gave me his address. I was hoping more for closure but this has opened up all kinds of feelings for me. What do you do with this conversation? Now I am moving back to the same town, he doesnt know this and I dont plan to tell him, but surely I will run into him. Why would he talk like he still had feelings and why would we sync so well ......after all thesse years! And he is married so I know I would not go there. ut why did he call me back and talk for 1 hour. I gave him plenty of chances to hang up.It has been 3 weeks and I havent heard from him so I dont think he is interested in cheating but why did he tell me he really cared and wished I had called before he got married. Would someone happily married do that?
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ashiegirl
Riverside, IL
age: 19
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you can, but you probably shouldnt. its hard to just see the person as a friend after they have been intimate with you.
but you know what else?
screw it
because you only live once
so you should always give things a try at least once 
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sk8erchick
Sacramento, CA
age: 31
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i have remained friends with a few of my exs...who are in relationships or are married now.....the key to our friend ship is one even though it sucks we don't tell the person they are seeing we ever dated...only because in the past we have seen what telling does and we know we are not ment to be but work great as friends just the wrong people to make a couple.....i like it it works.....and they look out for me no matter what ...car breaks down one is there house needs fixing one is there.......need comfort from a break up or help with the guy i am talking to they are there.....it take a true adult to be able to do this ....and for me not hard at all  
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lita747
Monroe, MI
age: 25 online now!
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Yes I have experienced this with an individual I met almost 8 years a go. We were both single and both like to party, we get along great and have fun together. Typical night we usually talk, drink, dance, listen to music, maybe take a bath together....and end up having sex after we have fun all night!! On and off for the past 8 years. I have never been in love with him or vise versa......but its just like that with us. cant explain it
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1mauibabe1
Lahaina, HI
age: 51
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YOU BET I am still friends with the guy I moved to Maui for and lived with for 3 years. We can still call on the other if one needs help with anying.... 
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