| 2/17/2008 7:35:10 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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In today's society it seems like a lot of women WANT a amn that has kids cause then he can understand where she is coming from, when she says she can't do this or that cause of her kids,
I just recently had this gal accuse me of not understanding what it's like too have kids, just cause I asked her if we was goin out, and she said she couldn't cause of her kids.....so I went out with some other friends instead, I didn't get upset about her not being able too go out, but that's when she accused me of not understanding the whole having children concept
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| 2/17/2008 7:42:22 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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If he didn't have any kids - but he at least has to like kids and get along well with them......some people that don't have kids are really good with them - I have noticed that in my experiences.
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| 2/17/2008 8:07:08 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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sincerity
Woodbridge, NJ
age: 48
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Yes, in the way that I don't want at my age to take care of babies, but I love children and I don't mind them as long as they are potty trained.
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| 2/17/2008 8:12:50 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39
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I don't mind if a man has kids because I have two of my own. I just don't want to be with a man who still wants to have kids because those days are over for me.
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| 2/17/2008 8:19:04 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 49
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YES and NO. Yes it matter if he has daughters because they tend to be daddy's little girls and if they don't like you, they will make your life a living hell and daddy won't say a word. How do I know this?????? My ex's daughter was one of the reasons why he is my EX HUSBAND. During our marriage, she was the PERFECT CHILD and she divided and conquered. It was almost as if the 2 of them should have been in bed together instead of him and me. The younger the children the better and teenagers (GIRL teenagers) are almost a deal breaker for me. They will manipulate Daddy and you don't stand a chance.
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| 2/17/2008 8:24:37 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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Kids are not the determining factor in any relationship - whether he has them or I have them
except - except for one case with a beautiful man I met on DH who wanted to have a family at this time in life.
I will be happy to co-parent existing children from previous marriages or relationships...
But I canot have more children, am far too old to mommy an infant every night of my life, and...too old to adopt.
I love kids and intend to love my partner - but for that guy - had to wish him love and happiness and pray he finds the woman he needs...  the beat goes on...
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| 2/17/2008 8:30:52 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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I love kids, but do not want any of my own, I am more content with just being with someone that has children...
But then again I would sorta like her kids too be a little older....
[Edited 2/17/2008 8:31:13 AM]
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| 2/17/2008 8:33:24 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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magtag
East York, ON
age: 41
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It doesn't matter one way or the other to me. It would really depend on the person and how he was with his kids or how he was about me having a child if he didn't have kids.
Everyone has different parenting styles and different limits when it comes to sharing that responsibility with someone who is not the natural parent. So I think it really comes down to the two people involved and how they would react to the entire situation...if they were able to communicate properly and work together with either one's child(ren).
Kids are great, they keep you hustling!!
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| 2/17/2008 8:42:33 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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l2kids44
Lanesville, IN
age: 44
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I would have to say that if the guy doesn't have kids he may possibly have that desire in the future and for me thats a big "I'm done with that." As for the women stating it's hard for guys to understand, well thats true. Kids are a package deal in a relationship and when you are with someone that has kids and something comes up that she cant go out well then she would hope that you would stay in too and not go hang with the guys. This shows to her that your potential as a step parent is zero.
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| 2/17/2008 8:44:47 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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I tried that one Kid, but she told me that she didn't want me coming over and hanging out.....so I went out with my friends
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| 2/17/2008 7:31:13 PM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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misty419
Perrysburg, OH
age: 30
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It does to me because i just got of a bad relationship where there own dad didnt treat them right.So if a man already has children and living with him.He must be doing something right ...also shows me he really cares for his children.
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| 2/17/2008 8:08:45 PM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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prandolph
De Pere, WI
age: 29
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As a single parent when I am looking for someone to date I look for me not for my kids. I take of my kids.
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| 2/17/2008 8:41:46 PM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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Could care less either way. Well put!
Personally, I love kids, and would be fine
if they were there. But at my age, my
body is off limits for making any more.
By the same token, if a man has no kids,
I don't see how that matters. Lookin' for a man, not a babysitting job.
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| 2/18/2008 2:56:46 AM |
Ladies, does it matter if a guy has kids? |
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jeanniemee
San Pedro, CA
age: 41
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NO
as long the guy respect and love me and his kids will respect me....thats fine with me and beside i got my own kids. 
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