How much does weight factor into a relationship? 61

2/23/2008 9:00:32 PM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
lookinferher Kansas City, MO age: 57	Ok..being overweight can kill you. Sitting in traffic in New York breathing car exhaust can kill you. Eating too much red meat can kill you. Eating tainted veggies can kill you. Too much exercise can kill you. Hell...even bumping uglies can do you in. Personally, I get tired of hearing people gripe about second hand cigarrette smoke. If you wanna keep all the chemicals from today's environment out then go live in a space suit, and grow your own food.
2/24/2008 6:32:18 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
wildgypsy Bellevue, WA age: 45	Foxy “hey wild you talking about obese or over weight here which is it? plz be kind ppl do have feelings and we all bled” “There is a very fine line between the two. And, if you are already only over weight, best check it before the problem gets any worse. That is the part of this I will never understand. Why don’t people check themselves and go for a brief diet when they are only 5-10lbs over, instead of waiting until it is 20-200? And as far as all people having feelings etc, tell it to the chubs that love to literally use their girth to shove smaller people around, and think nothing of their name calling etc. When they knock off the attacks, I will stop having to return fire to get them to back up and back off. Fair is fair. “How much is considered over weight? 5,10,25,50,100...” Depends on the person/frame. For me, I would say that 10lbs was a problem, because I am only 5’2”. Know a guy who is 6’4”, and it doesn’t even show until he gets an extra 10-20. BMI charts can give you an idea, but are not dead on for everyone. Rk9 “Only becasue I am older and in decent shape and expect the same, not a 10 just equal.” Thanks for being part of the example dispelling one of these bogus myths, as in age inevitably causes you to get fat. “Oh and I agree that some weight gain is a definite result of medication . I have seen it first hand and know it's not a cop out.” Tried that depovera shot years ago, and every time it made me gain another 5lbs. After the third one, stopped getting them and dumped the weight in less than a month, so yeah, you can gain weight from meds, but some meds you can just stop taking. Theville “How about a couple of overweight people meeting for a date at the gym?” I would see that as a couple who might stand a chance of lasting, since they appeared to be showing that they cared about each other, and were backing each other. Beach “According to my x, I was too fit.” Too fit? I don’t understand. Irparis, got a good laugh out of the idea that only thin people are/have “a nasty attitude and no imagination/funness for positions. .. smokes,… at least the bigger person is just killing themselves, the smoker is killing him/herself and everyone else around them.” That was a crock if you think that the obese aren’t a detriment to all. Scientists are now even saying that obesity can be contagious. It also causes cancer, along with a lot of other things, and for all you know, a lot of the cancers previously blamed on smoking may have been from obesity instead. “a drinker…” And then trying to make it sound like only fat people can be “ an exceptional person who has a good heart and a humble spirit” ” hispanic men, their jewels are big enough for any woman regardless of her size or their size in statue.” Good luck with that BS stereotype, many know how untrue it is LOL “ But then again, Latin men believe in their own hype about being fantastic lovers, they don't cower in the corner, certainly not from any ladies, large or small...” Yeah, the stats on rape prove that one.
2/24/2008 9:18:42 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
curious70000 Wyandotte, MI age: 46	Being a fat ass myself, having HUGE family members, diabetes, and some of the meds i take can make it virtually impossible to lose weight, YOU are so RIGHT,,, these are friggin whiney ass excuses for being fat, and i hate the whinners, whiney shit about yourself being fat,, damn if you hate yourself change it, if people don't like you cause your fat, that is their perogative if you hate being hated for being fat lose the damn weight,there is no excuse for being fat if one don't want to be, or i should say, would rather be fat than give up the things that make them fat,, personally i'd rather be fat than only being able to eat a tic tac and salad for my daily intake, or having to exercise as much as i need to to counter act the foods i LOVE to eat, i love food, and eat it,, therefore i am fat, and yes, some people don't like that,,, now i can't stand stupid people, but some people will remain stupid, there's even a whole shit load of women who actually pretend to be stupid, not sure what state is worse? Or drunks, can't stand a drunk, no different than a person who can't stand a fat person, so you fatty's,, think about the types of people you wouldn't want to hang with, that is no different than people who don't want to be around you for being fat,,,, heres a sample list of who i don't want to be around,,,,,, drunks, stupid ass's, braggists, drug addicts, sex offenders, alot of different perverted type people, etc, etc, etc,, quite whinning about being fat, and the fact that there are people who don't like, or want to be around fat people,,, on the flip side, i can't stand the type who spend their lifetime on physical fitness in my opinion big waste of time, but to each their own,,, vanity of vanities and all that shit.
2/24/2008 9:25:47 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
curious70000 Wyandotte, MI age: 46	wigglygypsyperson, you are right in so many aspects, but really though, what the hell does another care about the way another person wants to live, and if they way they live kills them earlier,who cares,specially if you ain't family,, i rahter feel sorry for those who drink or drug themselves to death,or those who are actually more unhealthy by not eating to stay thin, or throw up and shit food out to do so? some people actually cut their lives short with stressing about their shit, and others shit, they die an early death cause they just can't live and let live, ya know, i know ya know. Just wanted to come to your defense all these unaware peeps jumpin in your shit.
2/24/2008 10:01:24 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
pink_butter_fly Rural Retreat, VA age: 55	Remember people, What goes into the mouth is NOT what defiles a person. It's what comes out of the mouth. Like words that hurt others to the point that you kill their spirits. You people should see the friend I know. She weighs 56 pounds and is 35 years old. She's dying because people with their smart mouths talking about heavy people not really deserving to live. I don't usually get this upset but, HOW DARE YOU WILDGYPSY for your demeaning words. Do you think you haven't gotten anything that is very unattractive about you? If you don't, then I can tell you right off the bat that it's people like you with you hateful, hurtful words that have caused many deaths by suicide. God help you and i do pray for you
2/24/2008 11:40:22 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
rocket000 Murrayville, GA age: 49	I see this question repeated and its a real hot button. I have friends of all shapes and sizes but in a partner prefer a lean to athletic man. Just as some people prefer blonds or brunette or a shaved head. I eat very healthfully and am an athlete. I work in the financial and insurance field and I can tell you firsthand that when people are overweight and/or obese(or smoke) it's their families and loved ones who suffer when the obese and/or smoker can't walk because their knees hurt or they're diabetic or have emphysema. It's the family and loved ones who wind up taking care of this person too. It' s not fair. Typically their poor dietary and smoking habits are picked up by their kids who continue to perpetuate the cycle. I can't tell you how many times I've been in the supermarket and parents are loading up their cart with chips and all sorts of crap saying, "Its for the kids". How about some fruit or popcorn?! When someone is morbidly obese they are not eating because they are hungry. Eating has become an emotional issue. They need guidance and counseling ALONG with learning what to eat and how to determine a normal size portion. I'm aware that medications can balloon somebody up too. However in many cases these steroids/cortisteroids have been prescribed for medical challenges that were brought about by BEING OVERWEIGHT(joint pain, breathing difficulties) in the first place. Yes, yes, I know there are some people with thyroid challenges. However, the majority of people who are overweight or obese EAT TOO MUCH and DON'T move enough. Many of these individuals are annoyed because some men and women don't have a romantic interest in them because of their weight. That may be true. But often the overweight person is not always interested in the person who likes them either. If you're overweight and claim to be happy with yourself,GREAT! Now go find a mate who likes you that way too and stop complaining. PS: I have no respect for men that want a thin to average woman when they don't hold themselves to the same standard.
2/24/2008 1:49:16 PM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
countrysweet07 Clifton, CO age: 47	i went on my first date the other day. from here...he said to me i excepted a big fat women from one of my profile pics i was 20 lbs heavier..he also said i should delete that picture.i found him very ignorant. i am who i am inside and out...obviously weight matters to him...i was wondering why he bothered to come meet me,i obviously made a good impression .he kept calling...to no avail
2/25/2008 8:11:30 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
wildgypsy Bellevue, WA age: 45	Curious “what the hell does another care about the way another person wants to live” I even put my dog on a diet if he gets a bit pudgy, because it is HEALTHIER for him, doesn’t put as much strain on his hips etc, and I want him to be happy, and pain free, for as long as possible, as one example. If this was a person I cared about, especially my mate/partner, I wouldn’t have any less interest in keeping them around as long as possible. “Just wanted to come to your defense all these unaware peeps jumpin in your shit.” LOL Not to worry, not afraid of the militant chubbies by a long shot. Pink “What goes into the mouth is NOT what defiles a person. It's what comes out of the mouth.” You mean like all the “coke wh*re”, “anorexic”, “poster child for Ethiopia” cracks that come out of the mouths of fat people when they take their shots at thinner people, out of nothing more than jealous resentment? Yeah, they really suck when they do that. “HOW DARE YOU WILDGYPSY for your demeaning words.” More like HOW DARE YOU CALL YOURSELF A FRIEND if you aren’t doing anything to help her. Just watching her die, while you piss and moan on the net, sure isn’t doing this “friend” much good. Like I told you in response to your pathetic PM you sent, it is about HEALTH, which is why I have put weight ON skeletal junkies during the rehab process. “God help you and i do pray for you” Please don’t. After the way you described “your god”, don’t even know what you pray to. LOL And yeah, quit with the PMs already. Just post it here, if you dare LOL Rocket, good luck with that dose of truth you tried to interject. But, if you have read the rest of this thread, you know that the denial, excuses, myths, and point blank lies, are still being pounded hard by the heavy crowd. Will just counter with a bunch more of the same. They don’t LIKE the truth so only spend enough effort to avoid it, not lose the weight. Hey, re pink, RFLMAO, didn't have the backbone to do it, just got another sniveling PM, full of more BS, wish I could post it for you all LOL But seriously you fanatical cow, quit PMing me, or I will have to block your lying fat ass. [Edited 2/25/2008 8:42:56 AM]
2/25/2008 9:03:10 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
pink_butter_fly Rural Retreat, VA age: 55	Get over yourself, Wildgypsy.
2/25/2008 9:05:28 AM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
wildgypsy Bellevue, WA age: 45	Bite me hag!
2/25/2008 12:06:54 PM	How much does weight factor into a relationship?
foxy_woman_49 Omaha, NE age: 49	In today times..sadly women who complain about 5-10-15-20 lbs over as their kids listen..sighs...When does it all stop! Little girls growing up thinking they are fat cause thats all mommy says or what ppl on tv say.. such a shame Give me a freaking break and stop pounding to death ppl need to be skinny! girls/young lady's/women throwing up or not eating for ppl of the likes of who? take a good look and listen ..watch..observe.. I'd rather see a healthy female which is NORMAL then a skinny girl who is starving herself to death and messing up her whole body system. Now as far as obese goes..yes this is a problem in America. I would hope ppl use kind words to help those obese ppl than being out right rude and ugly. The obese ppl know they arent healthy and know the weight needs to come off..Perhaps they dont know where to turn for the Proper help. Maybe they cant get to that place that can provide the proper help.sighs..Whatever the reason slamming ppl with words Just makes You look very VERY ugly inside. Stop the maddness in America..Its OK to be Normal weight! It's OK to have a few extra lbs on you! Stop posioning the young girls who will turn into very insecure women! [Edited 2/25/2008 12:10:13 PM]

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